Our Agony Aunt pulls no punches when one of our members asked why some women don’t want to hook up with him despite him being honest on his profile about being married.

I broke up with my boyfriend of 18 months recently. Now he is telling me he wants me back and promises me he’ll change. I don’t want to go back to how our relationship used to be. Should I take him back or cut him off?

Tips from a real-life lesbian that will have your hookup/partner/lover talking in tongues.

Dear Amie, Help! I’m just not very confident in the bedroom. I worry about stupid things. How can I stop this inner voice because it’s taking away the sexiness of having casual sex?

While there’s actually a lot of really hot, authentic girl on girl porn out there much of it has been filmed with the male gaze in mind. From cervix-piercing acrylic nails to awkward scissoring, Amie reveals 5 myths perpetuated about lesbian porn.

I try and be the nice guy and end up being friend zoned or treated like the gay best friend... do I have to pretend to be a dickhead and start downing protein powder and taking gym selfies just to meet a woman?

Dear Amie, my best friend got dumped by her long-term boyfriend about six months ago. How can I be supportive but tell her she needs to put on her big girl pants and move on?

Whether you’re bi curious, comfortably bisexual, heteroflexible or as camp as a row of tents here are some tips on how to pick up women and get more girl-on-girl action in your life.

Most of us have invested emotion into and dated someone we should have only fucked once. If you have a girlfriend with bad taste in men, how can you get her to see the red flags?

Dear Amie “I’ve recently broken up with my girlfriend of 5 years. Is it okay to try it on with her best friend now that we’re not together any more?”