I’m a dominant guy in my early 20’s finding it hard to get a submissive. I chat to loads of women, but when it comes time for them to submit to me, it just doesn’t seem to happen. Do you have any tips for finding a good submissive?

Can someone please explain to me what Figging is? I keep seeing it mentioned in BDSM groups and it sounds intriguing, so I thought I’d ask the experts.

Australia has a fairly active and regular kink party scene with club events with play spaces most weekends in most capital cities. But there’s also a range of specialised parties focusing on some of our favourite fetishes?

Introducing girl ang, International Ms Leather 2018. We talk to her about the Leather community, about winning IMsL and her Melbourne based business Little Miss Leather which provides custom made leather garments.

Making a ‘best of’ list is always a challenge, and no more so than when compiling our fave BDSM films. MisKnickers has chosen films that are fairly accessible and have a definite BDSM context rather than just kinky sex. Enjoy!

So the thought of being submissive appeals to you! What does being a submissive really mean, and how can you tell if it’s something you really want to explore?

I strongly identify as poly, and as I’ve started discussing this there seems to be an assumption that this means I’m kinky. So do I have to be kinky if I’m poly?

Due to being the world’s most popular flavouring, vanilla has a connection with convention and normality – it’s something almost everyone likes, therefore can be seen as nothing special. So what do kinky people mean when they say ‘vanilla’?

Are you ready to take your kink off the leash and let it out of the bedroom? Although some would argue there’s no practical way to play consensually in a public space there are activities that can be incorporated into some public fun.

Welcome to our new blog series “Chicks in Charge” where we chat to women who have carved a successful niche in the adult industry. First in our series is Mistress Servalan, one of Australia’s most respected, and successful Pro Dommes