Chastity Play: Why would a guy put his cock in a cage?

Adult Match Maker on 24 July 2019    9 comments
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Q: A guy shared his private gallery with me and in one pic he had his cock in a metal cage and I’m struggling to understand why. It seemed very extreme. I think I’m pretty accepting of other people’s taste, but why would someone keep their dick locked up?

Generally a caged cock is a sign that the person in lock-up is indulging in some form of Chastity play. Forced or Controlled Chastity is a fairly common fantasy for male submissives, and is practiced individually, or with a partner. Some men choose to wear chastity devices to help with orgasm denial; others enjoy what’s pretty much the necessity of sitting down to pee; for some, the fact that someone actually ‘owns’ their penis is the ultimate thrill. Cock caging is about limiting an individual’s control, and that control isn’t always sexual. 

Amongst Power Exchange enthusiasts, chastity devices can be a powerful reminder of the trust between Domme and sub, and like the collar and cuff, the chastity device can be used as a both a tool of control and symbol of ownership. Cock cages may seem extreme, but like other BDSM play, the ‘extremity’ is subjective, and negotiated by the caged submissive, and the dominant ‘Keyholder’. What may seem super full-on to an observer, could be relatively subdued for the players themselves. 

Safety and hygiene are important components to almost any kink play, and cock caging is no different. Hygiene becomes a particular issue with longer-term wear, but these risks can be mitigated by a careful cleaning regime, body inspections, open communication with the Keyholder, and a cage made from body safe materials – stainless steel, silicone, or hard ABS plastic. Like any other sex toy, you need to find something that’s right for you; consider how much weight you want to carry, ease of cleaning, and your particular dimensions. Be sure you do some research on your unique situation and contact a reputable kink toy retailer for any specific advice.

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  • FiftyOneShades

    FiftyOneShades
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    Thanks for an informative article, but I'll think I'll give that one a miss.
    Incidentally, one of my favourite movies is Free Willy.
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  • Zamboon

    Zamboon
    66M Bridgeman Downs, QLD,
     AU

    I wouldn’t mind trying it but I’m uncut and if my head is exposed it’s very sensitive, even in my shorts if it happens I need to adjust myself so that puts me off - a tease or cuck scenario would be interesting - with the lady in charge teasing you into an uncomfortable erection and then waiting to be released .... hmmm
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  • AugustusSeizer

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    The Cock Cage Thing may speak of people playing with the assumed and long-imposed social roles and values in which (within which?) they live.
    When constructing a Scene I find a simple and convenient starting point is to play with inverting accepted norms. Our culture imposes some stereotypes on women such as the often mentioned "Madonna/Whore" dichotomy. Hence, in D/s play, one may often find "good girls" being required to behave/dress/act and even self-proclaim as "sluts". The "sweeter" and more "demure" the girl at the start (all those school girl outfits, right?) the more erotically charged is the "imposed role" or "transformation".
    If our culture imposes distorted roles and expectations for women then there are mirrored distortions for men who have a much less explored or discussed "Satyr/Galahad" dichotomy. Men are always supposed to be hunting for simple sex and release. They are are also expected to be "Galahads", reliably behaving with Honour Towards Womenfolk and Protecting Them. As with the "Madonna/Whore" dichotomy, the "Satyr/Galahad" dichotomy provides ample opportunity for D/s play. Thus cock caging is denying a man his alleged "Satyric Self". Placing the Dom/me in control of the man's cock (and likely deriding it, his use of it, his abilities, etc) playing with what is otherwise socially expected of him.
    I once watched an amazing Scene in which a female submissive of a Dom was required to most lewdly seduce and "corrupt" a Domme's "chaste boy". Doing so in public amplified her Shameful Behaviour as this trampled her "Madonna Self". He, of course, was required to resist, to not be aroused, and to deny his "Satyric Self". They both ended up absolutely frantic and desperate with the (long-delayed) orgasmic release of both (without, I must add, even touching each other) being an almost astronomical-scale event. And messy to a degree I'd certainly not seen before and surely they were at risk of dehydration! :-D
    So the cock cage toy is likely a physical manifestation of a deeper aspect of playing with the mind and social roles. And the best sex occurs not between the legs but between the ears.
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  • chesswiseagain

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    Are you sure that's not corkage? LoL...
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  • chesswiseagain

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    Maybe he thinks he's a Cockatoo !!!
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  • Sissymilf

    Sissymilf
    56NB Hurstville, NSW,
     AU

    This article missed a very important aspect of those who bottom.
    Most guys i have been with prefer to not be reminded about my boi clitty.
    Although it is naturally small cages has trained me to stay soft and has resulted in some loss of length and girth.
    If you dont use it you loose it is accurate!!!
    I cant remember the last time i had a penis orgasm. Maybe in my early teens.
    My livers never touch my clitty.
    Although i rarely wear a cage during sex my thing no longrr gets hard and is often retracted. I think my use of a cage and rings since my teens are partially. The cause.
    Sorry if this is against AMM policy. Last time i discussed cages i was chastised by admin
    >4w
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