Chastity Play: Why would a guy put his cock in a cage?

This article missed a very important aspect of those who bottom.
Most guys i have been with prefer to not be reminded about my boi clitty.
Although it is naturally small cages has trained me to stay soft and has resulted in some loss of length and girth.
If you dont use it you loose it is accurate!!!
I cant remember the last time i had a penis orgasm. Maybe in my early teens.
My livers never touch my clitty.
Although i rarely wear a cage during sex my thing no longrr gets hard and is often retracted. I think my use of a cage and rings since my teens are partially. The cause.
Sorry if this is against AMM policy. Last time i discussed cages i was chastised by admin

Maybe he thinks he's a Cockatoo !!!

Are you sure that's not corkage? LoL...

The Cock Cage Thing may speak of people playing with the assumed and long-imposed social roles and values in which (within which?) they live.

When constructing a Scene I find a simple and convenient starting point is to play with inverting accepted norms. Our culture imposes some stereotypes on women such as the often mentioned "Madonna/Whore" dichotomy. Hence, in D/s play, one may often find "good girls" being required to behave/dress/act and even self-proclaim as "sluts". The "sweeter" and more "demure" the girl at the start (all those school girl outfits, right?) the more erotically charged is the "imposed role" or "transformation".

If our culture imposes distorted roles and expectations for women then there are mirrored distortions for men who have a much less explored or discussed "Satyr/Galahad" dichotomy. Men are always supposed to be hunting for simple sex and release. They are are also expected to be "Galahads", reliably behaving with Honour Towards Womenfolk and Protecting Them. As with the "Madonna/Whore" dichotomy, the "Satyr/Galahad" dichotomy provides ample opportunity for D/s play. Thus cock caging is denying a man his alleged "Satyric Self". Placing the Dom/me in control of the man's cock (and likely deriding it, his use of it, his abilities, etc) playing with what is otherwise socially expected of him.

I once watched an amazing Scene in which a female submissive of a Dom was required to most lewdly seduce and "corrupt" a Domme's "chaste boy". Doing so in public amplified her Shameful Behaviour as this trampled her "Madonna Self". He, of course, was required to resist, to not be aroused, and to deny his "Satyric Self". They both ended up absolutely frantic and desperate with the (long-delayed) orgasmic release of both (without, I must add, even touching each other) being an almost astronomical-scale event. And messy to a degree I'd certainly not seen before and surely they were at risk of dehydration! :-D

So the cock cage toy is likely a physical manifestation of a deeper aspect of playing with the mind and social roles. And the best sex occurs not between the legs but between the ears.

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  Zamboon

  More than a month ago

  Yeah - I was gonna say what he said ....
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  Stefan1986

  More than a month ago

  Small penis humiliation and submission. Reducing one party's power level raises the oposing party's power level by default. Politics 101. As freud said sex is all about power not love.

I wouldn’t mind trying it but I’m uncut and if my head is exposed it’s very sensitive, even in my shorts if it happens I need to adjust myself so that puts me off - a tease or cuck scenario would be interesting - with the lady in charge teasing you into an uncomfortable erection and then waiting to be released .... hmmm

Thanks for an informative article, but I'll think I'll give that one a miss.

Incidentally, one of my favourite movies is Free Willy.