BDSM - four little letters that can stir up a huge array of opinions, perceptions, attitudes and, like anything else not fully understood, myths! We set the record straight on some of the more common myths about kinksters.

So you think you’d love to be dominated, tied down and fucked. How do you start the conversation?

Language is constantly growing and changing, and even more so in the kink community, as it finds some mainstream acceptance. This is a fairly comprehensive beginner’s guide to the 100 most common words in a kink conversation.

Impact play is simply mutual gratification from repetitive contact to the body. It’s about loving the sensation of the swats, lashes, spanks, floggings, whippings, wallops, smacks, whacks and slaps, the high it can elicit and the marks it leaves.

Have you recently discovered you have a fetish? Are your inner kinks begging for an outer expression? Time to get your kinky curiosities from headspace to reality with our ideas and advice on beginning your kink journey.

Feet are without doubt the most fetishised of body parts and it's so common that it has made it's way into pop culture without much thought. So what makes feet so appealing!

If the recent 50 Shades of Grey phenomenon is any indication, roughing it up in the bedroom is no longer the politically incorrect pastime it may have been previously. Kinky rough sex has gone mainstream.

As long as its between consenting adults there's no harm in exploring a few things on your sexual fetish list. Mistress Jane delves into some which you will already know about and a few which were new to us! Enjoy!

There’s more to life than missionary - not that there’s anything wrong with that! Try these kinky sex positions to spice up your repertoire.

The possibilities of kink are endless so here are our top tips for your BDSM toolbox essentials to get your spank and tickle on.