Many men come into sex-positive culture with the fear of not being able to connect with other people. Here are some of the things one can do as a man to have more fun and grow in these spaces.

Dear Amie “I’ve recently broken up with my girlfriend of 5 years. Is it okay to try it on with her best friend now that we’re not together any more?”

The idea of lust as evil is a pretty old concept, it is after all one of the seven deadly sins. I think we should stop looking at lust as something that is naughty and instead enjoy this powerful sexy feeling and revel in the way it makes your body feel.

In a conversation recently the talk went to sex toys and someone started talking about cock-rings. I don’t even know what one is? What do they do? Are they like a vibrator for men?

Australia has a fairly active and regular kink party scene with club events with play spaces most weekends in most capital cities. But there’s also a range of specialised parties focusing on some of our favourite fetishes?

Considering how multifaceted sex and sexuality is, it’s no wonder people get concerned that they’re not doing it properly or having “normal” sex. So what does “normal” mean when it comes to our bedroom activities.

Are you a spooner or a snuggler? Do you fall asleep entwined in your lover’s arms? And does the way we sleep with our partner influence how much sex we have? Apparently yes!

Dear Amie, I’ve found a hot guy on Adult Match Maker. I’m feeling really insecure. He barely messages me. Am I expecting too much? I’ve never been with someone as hot as him… EVER! What to do?

Is lust really the first rung on the ladder of love? Is thrilling sexual attraction enough to sustain a relationship? Watch for these sexual incompatibility pitfalls if you want your relationship to survive beyond the lust stage.

Learning your A-Z has never been so much fun with this ode to sex based on the erotic alphabet written by our multi-talented sexpert Eva Sless.