Busy isn’t bad, not if you’re relishing life as you busily experience it. Here are the seven fundamental sex tips to help you as a busy person have that blissful haven of fabulous sex.

We tend to compare ourselves to what we see on the x-rated screen and it can have a big impact on a person’s confidence and subsequent willingness to get into the swing lifestyle. So do I have to be like a porn star in the bedroom?

The number one thing that most guys seem to forget is that most girls need their clit stimulated to achieve an orgasm. Holly sets out some easy lessons ... homework has never been so much fun.

Holly lets you into some secrets from a workshop she attended called “Blow his mind” which was run by the Scarlet Alliance. Share these tips tonight – it might be the most empowering thing you ever did.

Are we naturally monogamous? Can we love more than one person? Or are we just stuck in old traditions that have been passed down through the generations that we’ve never questioned?

So there are a range of toys out there that stimulates clits at the same time as our partner fucks us. They are relatively inexpensive and are just about guaranteed to have you initiating sex, not him.

There are some surprising men’s explanations of what testosterone does to them and the influence it has on their genitals. I believe them. (After all, someone had to think up all the jokes). These are their tales.

Traditionally, female sluts are admired by men and loathed by women, and male sluts are loathed by women and admired by men. Yet a change is occurring and we are beginning to relish just how good a clitoris can make you feel.

Imagine her lying in your bed, damp hair askew and begging you to fuck her again. Sounds more fairy tale than fantasy, doesn’t it? Not any more.

We all strive towards equality in our relationships and yet double standards are rife among the best of them. We all know that men have sex on the brain but a man who says ‘no’ can often be met with frank disbelief or even ridicule.