Are you treating your partner like your lover? Your bedroom is the practice ground for love. Allow the love in to yourself and allow it to flow out of yourself.

Solo sex is a healthy part of everyone’s sex life. People often think it’s only something you’d do if you weren’t getting ‘the real thing’. But solo sex is fabulous in its own right, and can enhance your ability to have better partnered sex.

It doesn’t matter what size you are. Full-figured, voluptuous people can be far more luscious than skinny twigs. All that flesh and softness and roundness – just like a juicy peach.

“Sex is a paradox. It needs the difference between man and woman, yet it reminds them that they are not different at all. In this way pleasure is the world’s great equalizer.”

My advice – get to know your vagina! Whether you’ve got a G or an AFE or XYZ spot, there are undoubtedly good bits that work specifically for you. The important thing is to relax and explore and enjoy your wonderful womanly bits!

Sex doesn’t have to be the last thing you do at night, it doesn’t even have to be in the evening. Having sex before dinner can be great! Think of it as entrée, rather than the traditional dessert.

As the famous quote from John Cleese in “the Meaning of Life” goes: ‘You don’t just go barrelling on down to the clitoris! What’s wrong with a kiss?”

Our society is full of myths about sex. There are many aspects to moving forward sexually, one of the key ones is to ditch all the myths that plague us.

There’s a veritable smorgasbord of sexual possibilities, so why limit yourself to meat and three veg? I keep stressing that there are no ‘shoulds’ in sex, the important thing is to find out what is real for you and honour that.

A friend asked me recently what my top 10 tips for a vagina would be. Good question! So many women feel disconnected from their genitals. So read on and find out my top 10 tips for your vagina.