Men Need a Muse
To a man, his beloved is so much more than just someone to have sex with. When a man connects deeply with his woman, when he makes beautiful love with her, he feels all-powerful, as though he could conquer the world!
Your Sexual Makeover
Essentially a makeover is when you realise you’re not living up to your potential in some area of life and set about changing that. Can you makeover your sex life? Of course you can!
Moulding Your Brain for Better Sex
When two people’s brains are wired sex-positively, they come together in openness. The more you come together in this way, the stronger the wiring becomes and the easier it is to enjoy love-making.
A Penis is for Connection not Penetration
Think about electrical sockets. You have a masculine socket and a feminine socket. Bringing them together enables the energy to flow.
Fire & Water: The Masculine & Feminine Sexual Energies
The masculine sexual energy is like fire: it comes on quickly, burns brightly and extinguishes quickly. The feminine sexual energy is like water: it’s slow to heat up, but once it’s boiling it will boil and boil and boil and boil…
High Libido Women Keep Their Water Energy Simmering
A woman’s desire is contextual, it’s not simply a biological urge. It depends enormously on how she fees and what’s going on around her. This article explores what a woman needs to ‘keep her water simmering’.
Holly Hill’s Cure for Jealousy
I often get asked in interviews how I deal with jealousy whilst negotiating infidelity. Compare a love where jealousy is acceptable to a love that replaces it with generosity. Which love would you rather have?
True Intimacy
Self help books, women’s magazines and traditional therapists extol the virtues of intimacy as the way to improve your relationship and therefore have better sex. But it’s the how, the what and the how much that matters.
The Basic Sexual Unit is One
The individual is the basic unit and it is only through you that change happens, or doesn’t. It’s up to the individual to find their spiritual connection, their connection to the environment, and their connection to their sexuality.
Sex is Good, Sleep is Better!
People often ask me why they don’t have any desire for sex. The answer is simple – you’re too tired. Exhausted, flat, overwhelmed, worn out, drained… None of these states are conducive to a raging libido.