Ride ‘em Cowgirl: there's more than one way to ride!
Eva Sless
on 4 June 2020
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When it comes to the amazing and versatile sex position that is the cowgirl, we know it isn’t your first rodeo. For both visual and physical stimulation cowgirl really does feel like the most changeable and variable of all the hetero positions and so we thought we’d write up a little guide on how to get the best experience from all the different ways you can ride. So giddy-up, climb aboard, and let’s go cowgirling!
The Clit Is It!
For so many women penetration alone is just not quite enough to get them over that climax hump. It’s not that intercourse on its own is necessarily unpleasant (in fact it can be very, very pleasant indeed!), it’s more that because of the ways our bodies are designed it means we often need that little extra bit of clit stim to help us get there. Probably one of the best things about the cowgirl position is the fact that the clitoris is mostly exposed in a way that is easy for it to be played with at the same time as all the other action is happening. Whether using his fingers or hers, or maybe a little clitoral vibrator, getting that all over pussy tingle and the combination of both vaginal and clitoral stimulation at the same time is a pretty good recipe for orgasmic bliss.
Angling For A Good Time
As mentioned above, cowgirl really is a versatile and changeable position, and with every different angle you create comes different depths of penetration, different rhythms of movement, and different angles of stimulation. You can face forwards or backwards. You can fold your legs in a kneeling straddle, or raise them up to a sort of squatting position. You can lean forward onto your forearms or backwards onto your elbows. You can raise his butt and back with a pillow or two, or get him to lie as flat as possible. You can also combine a bunch of them in different ways creating a whole new experience every single time. The key is experimentation and practice, and really, what better sort of homework can you think of?
Kink It Up
One of the reasons cowgirl is such a popular position for women is the control. For so much of our sex stuff (including the way we are taught about it, talked to about it, and expected to do it) there seems to be an air of submission about it (and I’m not talking about a Dom/sub dynamic). Sex, we are told, is something that is done TO us. Our “virginity” is something we “give up”. And quite frankly (beyond that D/s role-play stuff) we are sick of it. Cowgirl literally puts us in the drivers seat. We are the “top”. We guide the angles, the speed, and the rhythm… So why not play on that a little? Tying his hands to the bedposts as you ride puts you even more in control, and the tease for him of having your body right there in front of him but not being able to touch can be deliciously frustrating and a real turn on. How about a blindfold over his eyes as you rise and slide back over his cock? Slowly and sensually moving your body, heightening his other senses, only knowing by feel when you rise and fall and move. Lean into him and whisper dirty things in his ear. Be the goddess you know you are.
Take A Seat
You know, you don’t always have to have sex in a bed! In fact, ditching the bed and experimenting with other surfaces and furniture is a brilliant way to change things up without changing much at all. When it comes to the cowgirl position all you really need is a lap to sit on and you can get that from chairs, tables, cushions, the floor. Experiment with different heights and angles and surfaces. Sitting up on the couch versus lying down on it. Try it with him lying on the floor but raising his legs onto furniture of varying heights. Use his raised knees as a back rest and use your hands on the floor to raise yourself up and down. Part of the fun of sex is trying new things, so get playing!
Don’t Forget the Romance
Close bodies moving together in a slow, sensual dance. Hands stroking soft, glistening skin. Tight embraces, whispered sweet nothings, and long, lingering eye contact with the person you love… Yes, cowgirl can be a beautiful, sensually romantic position to share with a lover for a gorgeously intimate experience. With enough coordination you can wrap around each other and move from cowgirl to missionary and back again, or just hold onto each other and rock together in perfect unison and synchronicity.
Giddy-Up!
With so many different ways to ride, you could fill up an entire month’s worth of playing and not repeat the same way twice! So saddle up, hi-ho Silver, and any other horsey puns you can think of and let us know in the comments how you spice up your cowgirl adventures!
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