How many of these 7 sex acts have you tried?

Eva Sless Eva Sless on 28 May 2020    26 comments
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There are some brilliant, fun, and funny words out there to describe various sex acts, some more obvious or well known that others. Our sexpert went on a hunt and found some phrases you may not know, but may want to explore and indulge in!

Bukkake

Bukkake is a Japanese term that roughly translates to “to splash with liquid” and was originally used to refer to a delicious recipe for a cold noodle dish. These days, however, the word is used in a very different way, although the definition/translation still stands. Basically bukkake is the act of several men (usually three or more) ejaculating onto a woman’s face simultaneously. It is a popular fetish for both men and women and is pretty high up on the list of searches in places like Adult Match Maker and Pornhub. As an aside it can be done without the presence of a face to be ejaculated onto, and instead using food… But where I’m from we refer to that as a game of Soggy Sao and I’m not sure how many people actually play that these days. 

Queening

Often used in the context of female Domination, but not always, Queening is the act of face-sitting, and is often (hence the BDSM connection) part of a “forced oral” type situation and an act of submission by the person whose face is being sat on. Most art and pornography that depicts Queening usually shows a large buttocked woman sitting on the face of a smaller man. It can be for both oral-vaginal or oral-anal pleasure (or both at the same time). While it is mostly popular for women to do to men, it can be reversed and, if the sitter happens to be a man then yes, the phrase changes to Kinging.

Creampie

This is a phrase that describes both the visual aspect and physical act of having a man ejaculate inside a vagina and the resulting dripping and seeping of semen from it. Very popular in pornography, it’s actually a relatively new phrase that came into use in America around the year 2000. Mostly the phrase is used for heterosexual acts (the act being called “breeding or seeding” in the gay scene) but the lines are starting to blur a bit and searching “gay creampie” will get you what you want (if that’s what you want). Enjoying a creampie can also then carry on to the semen being eaten out of the vagina or anus (although if being eaten from the anus the term becomes known as “felching”).

Spit Roast

Spit Roasting is the sex act in which there is one person (usually a woman but also quite popular in the gay scene) on all fours, with a man behind her having sex either vaginally or anally, and another man in front being taken orally. Once you understand the act, then the phrase itself becomes a fairly obvious and accurate description. Connected to this sex act is another phrase (which I find hilarious) called “Eiffel Towering” and this is basically when the two standing men high-five over the person on all fours thus creating an “A” or Eiffel Tower shape out of all three bodies.

Docking

This is a term that is pretty much exclusive to the gay community and gay porn scene purely because you can’t do it if you have a vagina. It also needs both men to be uncircumcised. Basically one guy pulls back his foreskin as far as he can and the other guy puts the head of his cock against the head of the other guy’s cock, and stretches his foreskin outwards and open and uses it to engulf the now foreskin-free penis of the first guy (kind of like a condom). Once that’s done, the first guy then repeats the act over guy number two’s cock and foreskin until they are both enclosed and the heads are touching. The two foreskins act like a sort of vacuum (often compared to the sort of sensation you get from a Fleshlight) and the ensuing motion together can be one of extreme pleasure and often simultaneous orgasm and ejaculation, which causes the foreskins to stretch, lubricate, and eventually slide away.

Urophilia

This is the super fancy, scientific way of talking about watersports, golden showers and piss play. Basically having a urine fetish. This can be in the form of smelling and/or tasting urine, of watching or hearing someone urinate, or of having someone urinate on you or you on them, and any combination of the above. It is an incredibly popular fetish within the BDSM scene as well as the AB/DL scene (Adult Baby and/or Diaper Lover scene) and, ever since a particular American President we won’t mention allegedly enjoyed this act in a hotel room in Russia, it has become a far more popular search term on all platforms from Google to Pornhub.

Salad Tossing

This is a fairly new-ish phrase to come onto the mainstream scene (apparently originally starting in the prison community) and there is already a perfectly good word to describe the act, so we’re not really sure why it was changed (except to grumble something about “getting off our lawn”). Salad Tossing is what we usually refer to as “rimming” or having your butt-hole licked (or licking someone else’s). It is completely gender and sexuality neutral (no matter how you identify, we all have butts!) and can be part of a more involved oral session, or just done on its own for its own sake.

The language of sex is forever changing and growing and evolving and, as word nerds, we love a good turn of phrase! Let us know some of your favourite sex terms in the comments! 

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