How many of these 7 sex acts have you tried?
Eva Sless
on 28 May 2020
26 comments
There are some brilliant, fun, and funny words out there to describe various sex acts, some more obvious or well known that others. Our sexpert went on a hunt and found some phrases you may not know, but may want to explore and indulge in!
Bukkake
Bukkake is a Japanese term that roughly translates to “to splash with liquid” and was originally used to refer to a delicious recipe for a cold noodle dish. These days, however, the word is used in a very different way, although the definition/translation still stands. Basically bukkake is the act of several men (usually three or more) ejaculating onto a woman’s face simultaneously. It is a popular fetish for both men and women and is pretty high up on the list of searches in places like Adult Match Maker and Pornhub. As an aside it can be done without the presence of a face to be ejaculated onto, and instead using food… But where I’m from we refer to that as a game of Soggy Sao and I’m not sure how many people actually play that these days.
Queening
Often used in the context of female Domination, but not always, Queening is the act of face-sitting, and is often (hence the BDSM connection) part of a “forced oral” type situation and an act of submission by the person whose face is being sat on. Most art and pornography that depicts Queening usually shows a large buttocked woman sitting on the face of a smaller man. It can be for both oral-vaginal or oral-anal pleasure (or both at the same time). While it is mostly popular for women to do to men, it can be reversed and, if the sitter happens to be a man then yes, the phrase changes to Kinging.
Creampie
This is a phrase that describes both the visual aspect and physical act of having a man ejaculate inside a vagina and the resulting dripping and seeping of semen from it. Very popular in pornography, it’s actually a relatively new phrase that came into use in America around the year 2000. Mostly the phrase is used for heterosexual acts (the act being called “breeding or seeding” in the gay scene) but the lines are starting to blur a bit and searching “gay creampie” will get you what you want (if that’s what you want). Enjoying a creampie can also then carry on to the semen being eaten out of the vagina or anus (although if being eaten from the anus the term becomes known as “felching”).
Spit Roast
Spit Roasting is the sex act in which there is one person (usually a woman but also quite popular in the gay scene) on all fours, with a man behind her having sex either vaginally or anally, and another man in front being taken orally. Once you understand the act, then the phrase itself becomes a fairly obvious and accurate description. Connected to this sex act is another phrase (which I find hilarious) called “Eiffel Towering” and this is basically when the two standing men high-five over the person on all fours thus creating an “A” or Eiffel Tower shape out of all three bodies.
Docking
This is a term that is pretty much exclusive to the gay community and gay porn scene purely because you can’t do it if you have a vagina. It also needs both men to be uncircumcised. Basically one guy pulls back his foreskin as far as he can and the other guy puts the head of his cock against the head of the other guy’s cock, and stretches his foreskin outwards and open and uses it to engulf the now foreskin-free penis of the first guy (kind of like a condom). Once that’s done, the first guy then repeats the act over guy number two’s cock and foreskin until they are both enclosed and the heads are touching. The two foreskins act like a sort of vacuum (often compared to the sort of sensation you get from a Fleshlight) and the ensuing motion together can be one of extreme pleasure and often simultaneous orgasm and ejaculation, which causes the foreskins to stretch, lubricate, and eventually slide away.
Urophilia
This is the super fancy, scientific way of talking about watersports, golden showers and piss play. Basically having a urine fetish. This can be in the form of smelling and/or tasting urine, of watching or hearing someone urinate, or of having someone urinate on you or you on them, and any combination of the above. It is an incredibly popular fetish within the BDSM scene as well as the AB/DL scene (Adult Baby and/or Diaper Lover scene) and, ever since a particular American President we won’t mention allegedly enjoyed this act in a hotel room in Russia, it has become a far more popular search term on all platforms from Google to Pornhub.
Salad Tossing
This is a fairly new-ish phrase to come onto the mainstream scene (apparently originally starting in the prison community) and there is already a perfectly good word to describe the act, so we’re not really sure why it was changed (except to grumble something about “getting off our lawn”). Salad Tossing is what we usually refer to as “rimming” or having your butt-hole licked (or licking someone else’s). It is completely gender and sexuality neutral (no matter how you identify, we all have butts!) and can be part of a more involved oral session, or just done on its own for its own sake.
The language of sex is forever changing and growing and evolving and, as word nerds, we love a good turn of phrase! Let us know some of your favourite sex terms in the comments!
Comments (26)
SensualDuo2
More than a month agoSo chatting with a couple on here and they noticed we have watersports listed under likes. All of a sudden there is a dummy spit of indignant disgust followed by immediate blocking. Really annoying because as adults I'd have thought everyone would recognise that:
a) a list of likes n loves is simply that . It's possible menu to select from , not a mandatory requirement . If it doesn't work for you it doesn't work for us.
b) they had annalingus , cunnilingus , cream pies and felching listed under their own likes . Have they not considered what they actually involve? Their possible rank on any hygiene scale ?
c) how about not "yucking" someone else's " yum"
We all have our kinks n pecadilloes. If they are legal and consensual let's just accept them. We don't have to embrace them ourselves, just accept that they rock someone else's boat and steer a course accordingly .
mezza75
More than a month agoIve done 3 of them
Bbbender
More than a month agoSounds good Mezza.
It’s all about enjoyment
Paulpuslic
More than a month agoAlthough I do enjoy a nice salad tossed , I think the original rimming term is far more sexier Either way keep on keeping on
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adult49
More than a month agoGood read !
Surf2Qld
More than a month agoSensational!
player1959
More than a month agoNever too old to learn something new
mncreative
More than a month agoMissed one ;-)
lorettaluvcock
More than a month agoI have done all apart from urophilia, I love spit roast with 2 guys .
TonyNSlutEve
More than a month agoSexy hot
Lickyourpussy73
More than a month agoI’ve done five of the things I’d like to try all of them with a woman
friskypuz
More than a month agoLove a good spit roast.. Maybe after a queening,, lol
Zamboon
More than a month agoFeet and toes mmm
Yellowhite
More than a month agoSalad tossing....... LOL but 5 out of 7 isn't to bad.
Johnny379
More than a month agoBukkake can be fkn hot,love a girl to sit on my face,spit roast I enjoy double teaming a keen lady,never given a golden shower but never say never and I can enjoy a little rimming give or take
triXXXi66
More than a month agoSALAD.... in my language is a term used to indicate a woman whos inner labia lips are long and extend out... picture a meat and salad sandwich or bun.. the salad always hangs out!
I have salad! Lol
Account Closed
More than a month agoI love lips - the more the better
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More than a month agoLove that. Its so sexy
badthoughts63
More than a month agoI;ve done all of them except docking........ which intrigues me ;)
Zamboon
More than a month agoTry it - my foreskin stretched to accommodate a rather thick head - it was really good and when we both came it was really slippery and pretty water tight or should I say cum tight ;)
Account Closed
More than a month agoI have done it was good when we both cum at the same time
Wheeler1937
More than a month agoAn old Australian saying is " buttered scone " it's being the second man to copulate with , or in a vagina that is already soaked in the first blokes cum ....
Account Closed
More than a month agoYou dirty old devil
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More than a month agoThat made me laugh
player1959
More than a month agoYum
Zamboon
More than a month agoYum indeed - I like 3rds ...