Creampies - a delicious feast for the senses
Eva Sless
on 16 May 2025
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Ah, creampies ... gooey, creamy, and a delicious feast for the senses.
If you're not a connoisseur of sex, porn, and kink the term "creampie" most likely conjures up images of delicious baked goodies, or possibly old timey slapstick comedy... But for those of us who know (wink wink) when it comes to sex, creampie actually refers to the act of ejaculating inside a partner during penetrative sex, and the visual treat that occurs afterwards.
Like most fetishes, if you're into it, it's an exciting, sexy feast for your senses, but for those who don't have the same kink, it can sometimes be a bit confronting or even off putting.
Because so much of our lives is tainted with both conscious and subconscious shame around sex and pleasure, finding out what sort of kinks you're into, not to mention actually sharing those deep secrets with someone else you might want to enjoy them with, can be fraught with anxiety and self consciousness, and it can sometimes feel easier just to keep it to yourself, which is never easier in the long run, and, like everything else we bottle up and try to hide from ourselves, just ends up making you feel a bit crap about yourself.
This is where good, sex positive sex education is vital.
No sex is actually gross, it's all completely subjective, and understanding the ins and outs (pun totally intended) can help us set aside shame, open our minds, and start to accept all the weird and wonderful things other people are into.
This doesn't mean you have to be into them too.
That's not what sex positivity means. It just means that you know, and accept, that everyone is different and deserves to be able to express that in safety and without judgement.
So in saying that let's have a deeper look at creampies, and break down some of the stigma and ickiness that often comes when people talk about fetishes.
Why do people like it?
That's a really hard question to answer in a way that will cover everyone and all their reasons. Why do people like anything?
I'll mention some of the more common reasons, but really, as the saying goes, there ain't none so queer as folk, and trying to delve that deep into the psychology of fetishes is a whole four year degree I don’t have the time to do before the deadline for this piece is due...
But I digress.
Intimacy and Connection
Sex is one of the most intimate ways to be with someone.
Sharing space and bodily fluids comes with a lot of trust and connection, and the taboo nature of ejaculating inside someone (when you're not trying to conceive) only adds to the excitement and titillation.
Coming inside of someone removes barriers, both literally and figuratively, which can make the experience feel more connected and raw.
Taboo and Thrill
Like mentioned above, there is something very sexy about engaging in taboo activities. Many, many people find excitement in doing something that feels “off-limits", whether we are talking sex, food, or just general rebelling. The idea of breaking a social or personal rule can make our heart race, our senses alert and, in many cases, actually heighten arousal. This is why things like having sex in public, or in other unconventional ways can be so exciting and enjoyable, and while many other sex acts have become more openly discussed in recent times, the creampie still carries a hint of rebellion, falling into the "naughty" side of sex.
Visual and Sensory Pleasure
Our senses are key to our pleasure. What something looks, feels, sounds, tastes and smells like can absolutely affect how we feel about it, and when it comes to sex, our senses are everything.
We measure our satisfaction by how well our senses have been incorporated, and the best lovers are the ones who take the time to indulge as many of them as they can.
For creampies, the visual and sensory are connected in a whole bunch of deliciously naughty ways.
The physical sensations; warmth, wetness, and the feeling of being filled with your lover's come, combined with the visual aspect, either seeing it happen in the moment or that afterwards visual of being full and dripping, create a whole range of sexual feelings, as well as making it very appealing in things like porn and erotic photography.
Biological Instincts
Look, I'm not 100% sold on this one because I think humans are far more than the sum of their biological make up, but whether I like it or not, studies often show that biology can influence our desires. For most animals there’s an evolutionary pull toward reproduction, so even when contraception is involved, and there is absolutely no chance of conception, some people absolutely experience a thrill from engaging in an act that has historically been tied to procreation.
The Risks and Other Housekeeping
To paraphrase Spiderman's Uncle Ben "With great pleasure comes great responsibility", and this particular pleasurable act has some very real risks to consider, and it is your responsibility to understand them, and minimise them as much as you can.
Pregnancy
Yeah, the big one. The one reason religious nutters tell us is the only reason to have sex, but statistically probably the last thing most people are trying to do when they actually have sex.
Like, literally the one thing you should probably keep away from vaginas when you don’t want to get pregnant is sperm, but it is the main ingredient in this particular fetish, so if you or your partner CAN possibly conceive, but aren’t actually trying to, this risk is a significant factor.
Regularly taking birth control (whether pills, implants or other) and making sure you are up to date and haven’t missed anything is your best defence against unwanted babies. But in saying that, it is absolutely vital to tell you that no birth control (aside from sterilization or abstinence) is 100% foolproof for pregnancy, and none of the above methods except for abstinence, will stop infections.
Sexually Transmitted Infections (STIs)
No matter which way you try and spin it, having unprotected sex increases the risk of transmitting infections, including HIV, chlamydia, syphilis, gonorrhea, and more. Even if you and your partner are fluid-bonded (a mutual agreement to have unprotected sex by way of exclusivity) regular STI testing is a must. It should be as common and as much a part of the sexually active person's life as buying condoms or lube is.
It should be a hand in hand responsibility and one that is shared equally with all the people you have sex with.
Sure, you have the right to have safe, pleasurable sex, but you have a responsibility to yourself and your lovers to make it as safe as possible.
Consent and Communication
While this should go without saying, anyone who has ever read anything of mine knows that I will always say it, and I will say it with gusto and ad nauseum.
And not just consent to have sex, but consent to ejaculate inside them, with no protection. No matter how many times you and your lover have indulged in this act, consent should never be assumed. Having a conversation about boundaries, risks, and expectations before you start to play, and continually checking in and being aware of your partner's needs and wants during your sessions is super important.
Top Tips
When it comes to most fetishes or indeed any sort of sexual acts, the act itself is irrelevant when it comes to communicating your desires and needs about it.
Even the most boring of vanilla starfish need to talk about what they expect, what they would like, and what they're concerned about. If you can't speak to your lover about intimate things, then you probably shouldn’t be doing intimate things with them in the first place. Yeah, it might sound blunt, but it's the truth. Sex is a big responsibility, so be bloody responsible!
Discuss what you both like about the idea, any concerns or worries you have, and how you will both handle contraception and STI testing, and what you might do if something doesn't go quite right. Like, you know, pregnancy.
For those who are curious but a little bit wary of the whole thing, there are also ways you can indulge in the play without actually indulging in the play. Using femidoms (female condoms) for example, can help create that visual look, as well as the feeling of ejaculating inside someone, without the risk or fear of pregnancy. Using body safe products can work well too. Did you know you can literally buy fake sperm from companies that is designed especially to mimic the look and feel of it, but without any of the baby making or infection causing ingredients that come with it! Do your research. Find new ways to play!
Remember, sexual pleasure and safety are not opposing forces. They must always go hand in hand. Even if your sexual play seems "unsafe" from a distance, good sexual partners and players know this is just an illusion and do their utmost to create safe, safe, and consensual experiences for those around them.
Like any other fetish or sexual act, creampies are all about personal preference, mutual enjoyment, and informed choice, and the more we can talk about sex without shame or stigma, the better experiences we can create for ourselves and our lovers.
Until next time, happy fucking, my friends.
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