Why you should own a masturbation sleeve
Eva Sless
on 18 February 2022
11 comments
Articles on sex and sexual pleasure often focus a lot on women's pleasure and the ins and outs (sorry) of vaginas, but quite often overlook men, their cocks, and their desires. This is a massive disservice to men and their bits, and to those of us who enjoy them, so we're making a conscious effort to include more dick tricks and ways to play with them. And what better way to celebrate the dick than to focus solely on it, and the incredible benefits that using a male masturbation sleeve can bring to your life.
Know Yourself
If you've ever read one of my blogs aimed at women you'll know I'm all about "getting to know your own body". I truly believe that you will never be able to achieve the best pleasure you're capable of with someone else if you first don't know yourself, and masturbating is absolutely the best way to get to know yourself. It doesn't matter if you use a whizz-bang highly advertised popular penis sleeve, or something slightly cheaper and lesser known, what matters is getting to know your own dick beyond the quick relief of rubbing one out in the shower. With some slippery lube, and some time on your hands, spend some time touching and playing with yourself. Explore all the parts of your penis, from the head and frenulum, to the shaft, balls, and perineum. Play soft and slow and fast and hard. Change your grip, use two hands, see if you can edge yourself to the point of omgggggg and then stop before the climax. All of these little differences and changes to your masturbation routine will give you new insights into your own pleasure, and that's the beginning of an amazing sex life, even of you already had a pretty good one.
Lube Change
Lube is your friend. In fact, more than that. Lube is your ultimate wingman. It can turn good sex into great sex, and completely blow your mind with some of the things it can do. And it's the number one accessory you'll need with your penis stroker for more than just making it slide.
Did you know, for example, that there are different kinds of lubes designed for all different types of sex and play sessions? I'm not just talking water based versus silicone based, or some dodgy novelty flavoured lube. I'm talking about lube that has extra awesome ingredients added that can actually change the way it feels. The most popular of these lubes are ones that heat up or cool down upon application and touch. The most common ingredients used are menthol for cooling and capsicum for heating. Both are safe and natural products to use on your bits, but be aware sometimes the tingling sensations (whether heating up or cooling down) can be a little overwhelming if you're not used to it. A good tip is to make sure, on your first forays into it, to keep a wet wipe nearby to remove the lube if you decide you don't like it.
Feels Like Someone Else
You know that old joke of sitting on your hand til it goes numb and then using that hand to masturbate cos it'll feel like someone else's? Well using a masturbation sleeve is a way to sort of get the same sensation without cutting off your blood supply. Almost all penis strokers have textured insides, so depending on how hard or tight you squeeze it while playing, can totally change up the sensations you get with every thrust.
Even using the thinnest of sleeves will help create a bit of distance between your hand and your cock, and some strokers (like the Fleshlight with shower mount) allow you to play completely hands free!
Share the Love
Mutual masturbation is awesome. You and your partner touching yourselves, showing each other what you like, guiding their hands to move with your hands, breathing together, playing together, coming together... Something so intimate and beautiful is allowing your lover into your private masturbation world. Showing them your techniques, your toys, your secret fantasies and the ways you play when no one else is around. It's such a display of trust and communication, and while I know such vulnerability can be hard for a lot of men, it's actually an incredible show of strength and masculinity to be aware of, and in tune with, your own sexuality, that almost every single woman would swoon to have a man show up in such ways.
There are so many different masturbation sleeves on the market these days you're absolutely sure to find one to suit both your needs and your budget. From a simple silicone sleeve with some bumps on the inside, to a hand crafted, intimately accurate replica of your favourite porn star's bits. There are designs to help with erectile issues and sexual longevity. Ones you can stick in the bath or shower. There are accessories to make them hands free or enhanced with vibrations, and all of them will give you and your penis a whole new reason to masturbate, explore, and turn a quick pull into an indulgent moment. So what are you waiting for? Get down to your local adult shop and check out their stroker range or check out the Lovehoney website. Your penis and future partners will thank you.
11 comments
MandyMaree22
More than a month agoI’ve been told several times one should be made based on my pussy ;),
ReplyBBear101
More than a month agoPity they don't have a sizing chart? Or do they? Thrown 2 mail order ones away because I couldn't fit. I didn't think I was anything but average.
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ReplyAccount Closed
More than a month agoBuy in person at your local Adult Shop. Definitely the better way. I got both mine from an Adult Shop and I asked a tonne of questions. Store Owner was extremely knowledgeable and had some on display. Both had to be ordered and were delivered to my door.
Satinlover1978
More than a month agoAgree with Hostingsucka on buying in person and/or reading the reviews online - not just the ones on the site you're purchasing from either, but as many as possible independent from there as well. Was about to drop some big dollars on a machine similar to a hismith but found independant reviews almost all of which were not positive for this particular company. Glad I did my research there. Also check out videos online for whatever toy you're planning to get (most porn sites will have these) as they will tell you a lot about sizes, functions, sensations to expect and so on.
As an aside, I've had a few sessions with the Keon now and omg, it's the best thing I've ever bought!! Also sync's with selected porn vids so you can watch, hear and now feel what's happening on screen. It truly is amazing!
bob1205
More than a month agoI don't spend my money at expensive sleeves
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ReplyAMM.Editor
More than a month agoAnd no one is saying that you have to! But as with everything in life you do get what you pay for. You can see there are 2 comments from members who purchased the Kiiroo Keon which is an upmarket model and @we_want_fun says it's the best thing he's ever bought. The Lovehoney link has sleeves for AU$20 so the price of 2 glasses of wine or 5 coffees in Sydney that will give hours of pleasure. The whole point of the article is educational - giving you the benefits of trying something which some men might not have considered.
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HOSTINGSUCKA
More than a month agoMy best advice is to shop around and read the reviews on any item you are thinking of buying. Some of these masterbation sleeves cost into the 100s of dollars and give no more of a sensation as if you spanked one out with your own hand (which you can do at no cost at all).
ReplyAlso consider just using lube. There are some great new lubes out there and they are a fraction of the cost of buying a sleeve.
I have two sleeves, but as another commentor said, I still use just the hand from time to time as well.
Goingforth2020
More than a month agoWhilst I don’t believe I am envious of a man’s penis. Whoever designed it no doubt was a fucking genius,
ReplyIf truth be told I’m at the mercy of my lovers unabashed erection
Putting it simply, l adore perving on Percy when he is standing at full attention
So proud and bold it is truly masterpiece to behold
This delightful erotic visual feast send shivers and quivers way down to my feet
It’s rumoured this quirk of nature first began in the Garden of Eden. when Adam’s hard on was discreetly hidden
But it’s a scientific fact that evolution decreed we inherited the horny genes in our D.N.A.
So, blokes next time you have a desire to play with your horn, your boner, your pork sausage, your beef bayonet,
your weapon, your python, your rammer, your slammer, or your Major Nelson Don’t delay! Because you are honouring your primal urge to slay the dragon. But, if you fail to regularly pay homage to your ‘Erecticum’
Soon life will become rather mediocre, and humdrum
But alas, if you happen to be out and about when you’re boning up, and have an itch to scruff the ferret,pease endeavour to control your randy impulse, and just grin and bear it. Because although jerking off, is hard wired in your genes unfortunately decorum deems that you must not indulge your need to wank just yet.
Instead I suggest, distraction is your best bet.
For example you could count backwards from one hundred.
Or simply think of something that fills you with dread.
Actually I have heard of a bloke who tried standing on his head.
In an effort to direct the blood flow away from his erection
But, I understand if you have objections to this suggestion.
So instead I recommend the following measures should be implemented without delay.
Because if left unchecked, your basic carnal instinct will be too hard keep at bay
And although choking the chicken is natures cure for your horn
to self pleasure in public is against the law I need to warn
So I suggest try Hydro therapy, as a quick fix, and hopefully that should do the trick. but the water must not be too hot or too cold. Rather lukewarm is best I have been told.
Then in less than a jiffy that should quell the beast.
Or, at the very least,
It will tame your stiffy for a while. However it’s best not to be too complacent or go into denial.
And, if the water therapy trick Fails to quieten your prancing prowling prick.
No need to get into a tis.
It is what it is.
Remain astute, and patiently wait. ?Trusting that in the fullness of time your full salute will eventually abate.
But, if you fear your fat is reeving up a notch or two to another gear,
(And although it may sound queer try jogging up and down on the spot, and see if that works.)
Nevertheless, as that option is mostly for the galahs, wowsers,
and total berks.
I rather think it’s better by far to never let a chance go by.
Because when your libido is high. It’s best to go with the flow.
So if no other option is available for you in an emergency hiding behind a bush will have to do.
Then quickly drop your trousers below your knees.
And let your Roger loose to swing in the breeze Free to do as he darn well pleases.
But wait! before you give your snake in the trousers a much-needed loving squeeze
If you really, really, really! do care.
I implore pretty please, play fair, And first let your Percy strut like a Peacock, displaying his glorious glistening crown.
Because the healing qualities of fresh air is a fact that’s well renown.
Now, next turn down the volume on any negative natter and a smile will quickly erase your frown,
Because finally you are taking matters in hand And as I promised you will soon be feeling mighty grand
But first a gentle reminder that
Choking the ferret is healthy for you.
So, this is what I suggest you do ?Step one......To enhance your jerking off fun your imagination will need a boost. Therefore some porn will no doubt help you cut loose.
Next wrap Mrs Palmer and her five daughters around your shaft. No! Not like that! Are you daft? ?Gently and with reverence works best,
And use warm coconut oil, because it has passed the test.
Not only is it edible, but it is also soft, and smooth like silk,
And before long you will be squirting your delicious milk.
So, have a towel or two nearby.
Cause one never knows where the cum may fly. (Such a pity, and a waste, That I am not available for the taste.)
l kid you not feasting on the ‘Nectar of the Gods’ is second to none.
It almost brings me undone.
Cause I have an addiction I need to feed,
And confess it’s been diagnosed as ‘Cock sucking greed.’
So, this incorrigible,but wise crone
Is hoping my affliction you will condone)
But sorry I side tracked so I beg your pardon;
Now back to you and your hard on,
That’s commonly known as an erection.
Here are my final instructions.?Whilst it’s fun on your own,
It’s even better if you hunt-the-salami with your lover.
But please don’t play with your John Thomas under cover.
Instead take your time, and let the full glory of your magnificent beast,
Make you feel sublime giving you a visual erotic feast.
And last, but not least.
Remember to pay attention to your feet.
Why they are so neglected has me beat.
Just imagine ten twinkle toes
Caressing your proud Peacock as it grows?
Mr22cm
More than a month agoI have an elsa jean sleeve, its fantasic. Much better than a hand although do go back to ms palmer everynow and then.
ReplySatinlover1978
More than a month agoRecently bought the Keon myself and it just arrived this morning, so excited to try it out! Have used other manual strokers before and can attest that some feel absolutely amazing! Takes 'having a wank'to a whole other level, highly recommend them!
Replywe_want_fun
More than a month agoI've got the kiroo keon and it's the best thing I've ever bought
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