How to give a double blow job

How good is oral sex! Let me answer that for you. It's bloody excellent! It's sexy and sensual and intimate and delicious and orgasmic! Win! Yes, we absolutely love oral sex here at AMM and, as the best sex dating website in Australia, we also love to share with our friends, so here is our ultimate guide to giving the best double blow job that will leave everyone feeling sexy and satisfied. 

Sexy Set Up

While spontaneity is great, it's always a good idea to have a little bit of stuff set up before the initial event, mostly because it's easy and less distracting as you go on. The last thing you want to be doing while in the middle of a sexy BJ is stopping to fumble around in a drawer to find the flavoured lube you like, or the little toy you may want to use or any other number of items that might be necessary during the activity. Things you might not think of like a bottle of water for hydration, or a hair tie for long hair. Will he be sitting in a chair or lying in the bed? Will you want to use accessories? Are your knees a little dodgy? Will you need pillows to rest on?

Comfort Is Key

As stated above, it's sometimes little things we forget that can have a big impact on how enjoyable the experience is. Make sure everyone is in a position that they feel comfortable in. Of course there can be some swapping and moving and changing it up during the play, but it's good to start off in positions where no one feels too cramped or hunched over, and so there is enough room for everyone. For those who have long hair, sweeping it out of your face with a hair tie is a great idea, although there is also something very sexy about your blow partner holding your hair back for you, but for the times when both your hands are busy, a hair tie is essential.

Dick Duet

One of the best things about a double blow job, I mean apart from the fact that there are two deliciously hot mouths sharing one cock, is the visual performance for all. For him, the view of two hungry, slurpy mouths teasing, tasting and tantalising is like his own personal porn show. And for the two blowing, there is something absolutely decadent about sharing a cock together. Holding it for the other to slurp, both your tongues dancing together along the shaft, brushing it against the other’s lips, fingertips running along, all breath hot and desire... Oh yeah. It truly is a work of performance art.

Hands and Mouths and Eyes Oh My!

While yes, it's called "oral" sex, there is so much more to it than just using your mouth. Hands and fingertips, breath and words, eye contact and giggles... Oh yes, there is so much more to oral than oral. This is true with all oral sex, and just imagine how much hotter it is doubling all of that! The sexy words can now become sexy conversation between the two givers. Little instructions and sexy tips, playing together, enjoying together. Compliments on the beautiful cock. How hard it is. How good it tastes. How it feels as she feeds it to her friend. How gorgeous she looks sucking it. There can be hands on the shaft, while another is massaging his balls, while also playing along the perineum and even anally. One can be kissing his mouth while the other is kissing his cock. Bodies moving and sliding together as they swap places, and now a new mouth is on him, and the hand on his cock has a different grip and feel. With eyes closed and nothing but sensation to guide him, he is taken away to a debauched orgy feast where he is the entree, main course, and dessert all in one.

Cum and Play

Not every sex act needs to end in an orgasm, but if this is one of the times it does it's a good idea to know where everyone stands on cum. Some people love it, some people hate it, and some people are a combination of the two. For example some people are fine with cum on their bodies but not on their face or in their hair. Some people absolutely love the taste, and for others just the smell can make them gag, so make sure you know what's what with your play partners so it doesn't get awkward at that vital moment where one of you totally wants to snowball with your sharing partner and the other can't think of anything worse.

Sharing Is Caring

While we know swinging and group sex play isn't for everyone, for those of us who do enjoy it, and the amazing connections and sensuality that can come from it, it's always important to remember that boundaries and consent are still vital and that everyone involved must agree to the action. If someone is uncomfortable or not having a good time for whatever reason, it's imperative you all stop and reasses the activity. The whole point of sex and sexy times is for it to be enjoyed so it’s important to make sure everyone IS enjoying themselves.

While the dynamics in this blog have focused on the FMF variety, you can totally swap it up to any and all genders. I mean, even if there's no penises in the group, there is still something very sexy about strap ons and the visuals one can get from it all. It really is, for the most part, all about the performance and, even if you never thought it was there, there's totally a little porn star in all of us just waiting to step into the spotlight and put on a show.