Am I a Slut because I Swing?

Chantelle Austin Chantelle Austin on 8 October 2021    63 comments
Pretty blonde woman with blue eyes in bed looking straight at the camera

Not necessarily, but then is being a slut really a bad thing?

I’ve been a swinger a while and I’ve participated in threesomes, foursomes, orgies and a gang bang and I have to admit, the “am I a slut?” question crossed my mind at various times throughout our journey. When we started having threesomes and foursomes it was there, but even more so when I was in the centre of a gang bang with 6 men. It was at that time that I really had to work it out…

Why was I struggling with it? What did it mean to me? And was it valid? I knew I wasn’t the only person who struggled with this so I wrote a few blog posts and it was the responses I received that really helped me to work through it.

Firstly I had to work out what my definition of “slut” was and why it bugged me to be labelled as one.

When I was growing up girls were programmed to behave like a “lady”, and that came with a list of things that ladies do and don’t do. Self respect and morals were a big part of that and according to what I was taught, no self-respecting woman would let herself be spit-roasted by two men at once over the kitchen bench while someone else took a photo… or would she?

Part of my programmed definition of a slut was they weren’t selective about their choice of partner/s; they would have sex with anyone and everyone. It’s easy to look at other people and decide that they aren’t being selective; we think they have set the bar too low but even if we’re right, should we be judging them? And do we really know what standards they have?

I don’t know of any swinger who isn’t selective to some degree. We certainly go through a process of working out who we want as playmates and it’s not just anyone. However, someone looking from the outside could judge that we’re not based on their own standards. And that is the difference…

Everyone has different standards but that doesn’t mean anyone is more, or less, of a slut.

I was also programmed to believe that a slut would wear clothing that was revealing and sexy, and they would enjoy dressing in leather or sexy costumes. A slut would intentionally turn people on whenever they could and by any means necessary. They would also have sex anywhere, anytime; in public, in private, it didn’t matter. A slut loves sex and would have sex in any way; any position, happy to be spit-roasted, tied up, gang-banged, give head, have anal sex, be DP’d (Double Penetration) and bonus if it was all in one session...

To some people that all sounds like fun, and so it should! Many of those things I hadn’t tried before we became swingers, and when we started to try them my programmed view of what it meant to be a slut would cross my mind. It used to prevent me from truly letting go and enjoying the moment. I even put off trying a gang-bang for a long time for that reason.

The thing is that the majority of people in the swinging scene do enjoy almost everything I mentioned which realistically, makes us all sluts. I have done a lot of those things and I have honestly had an awesome time doing them. Is that something I should be ashamed of?

So does being a slut have to be a bad thing? Are sluts not just experiencing all that sex and life have to offer? Some people love chocolate, and they’ll eat any sort of chocolate they come across. Does that make them a chocolate slut? Hell yes, but is that really a bad thing?

A person I was lucky to meet sent me this in a message:

“I prefer how Easton & Liszt define slut in their book The Ethical Slut. They are attempting to reclaim the name in much the same way that homosexuals reclaimed gay. To them, a slut is "a person of any gender who has the courage to lead life according to the radical proposition that sex is nice and pleasure is good for you. A slut may choose to have sex with herself only or with the Fifth Fleet... A slut shares his sexuality the way a philanthropist shares her money - because they have a lot of it to share, because it makes them happy to share it, because sharing makes the world a better place.”

Swingers are generally couples who willingly allow other people to share in their sex life. They enjoy having sex; they are exploring what sex has to offer and continue to expand on their sexual experiences, as a couple, because it’s fun to do. They aren’t hurting anyone, it’s all consensual and it’s just them having the courage to lead their lives according to them and not how other people think they should…

It’s the 21st century, times have changed and we’re in an era where sex is out in the open and where women can find multiple sexual partners on sex dating sites. Previous to this, sex wasn’t talked about and anyone seen to be enjoying sex, especially with multiple partners, was deemed a slut. If we go with the Easton & Liszt definition then it’s true, they were a slut, but that’s not a bad thing…

At the end of the day, if you’re not hurting anyone and you enjoy:

  • Having sex
  • Sex with more than one person at a time
  • Multiple positions and multi-person configurations
  • Discovering what else you enjoy about sex

Then you are a slut and you should celebrate your slutiness!

Let it be known from this day forth that it’s good to be a slut because a slut is someone who is “adventurous” and sexually free; they are choosing to explore that side of who they are and allowing themselves to truly experience everything sex has to offer, and with people who are willing to help them experience it.

Yes this is an older article which we have republished because a member suggested it as a blog topic. It was a popular post so we thought newer members might enjoy it. 

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  • peawe

    peawe
    Account closed

    well said Chantelle,i dont think anyone could have defined the term slut better,we are swingers and both class ourselfs as sluts and are proud of it.thank you for putting into words what we have felt inside all along.
    warmest regards and keep up the good writting you do we love it
    peawe
    >4w
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  • Savannah44

    Savannah44
    62F Dutton Park, QLD,
     AU

    The word slut is an acronymn that had its beginnings with the first fleets coming out from England. It was Slurry Left Under Tar...This had to do with the levels of the ship. Highest for the paying customers. then crew, then animals, then convicts. As the decks were washed, the slurry of waste would end up on the lowest deck. Known as SLUTS...Now this was told to me many years back and it made sense to me but not sure of it's correctness! BUT!!! it still tags the word SLUT badly though...but had nothing to do with women's sexual behaviour.
    T
    >4w
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  • weluv2share

    weluv2share
    55F 59M Brisbane, QLD,
     AU

    If you are open about being a swinger / slut, what message does that pass on to your children when other parents talk about you in front of their children, and yours find out via the grapevine. At what age would you consider it appropriate for your child to then partake in the lifestyle because Mum and Dad do? In QLD the age of consent for carnal knowledge is 16 and anal sex is 18. When do you think it's ok for your kids? I'm thinking 30.
    >4w
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  • BiBellaV2.0

    BiBellaV2.0
    46F Melbourne, VIC,
     AU

    Amen Chantelle - thankyou for this beautifully expressed validation ;) xx
    >4w
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  • reefNbeef

    reefNbeef
    Account closed

    well said ... yes as the female of a couple had the same reservations ... but after reading this article ... yes we are SLUTS and proud of it... thankyou jeff and nat
    >4w
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  • AMM.Events

    AMM.Events
    53F NSW,
     AU

    Chantelle asked us to post this in response to weluv2share's comment:
    "Please post a comment on my behalf. I personally have had some great conversations recently with my eldest daughter about sex and being labelled a slut, and it all comes down to not judging others and checking in with our own reasons for partaking in acts which are considered "slutty"... As a parent, I have to let go at some point and allow her to define her own life by making her own choices... Her teachers actually all want to have dinner with me because my daughter (at nearly 15) has a very mature outlook on relationships and sex, which they applaud me for. I personally would like her not to join in the scene until she's at least 18. I think at that point I'll be fine as long as we aren't at the same clubs/parties lol!"
    >4w
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  • moory66

    moory66
    80M 76F Woodcroft, SA,
     AU

    Great article Chantelle. I call my partner a slut probably once a week and she replies,"Would you want me any other way?" I'll leave my answer to your imagination.
    >4w
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  • exoticcouple976

    exoticcouple976
    Account closed

    Well it is a lifestyle either you like it or not. We are new to this lifestyle and loving it after 12 years being together and 6 of it as a married couple. We try to keep it away from normal friends and family. Sadly some members contact us here thinks Mrs is a slut since into swing. of course they dont understand the swinger lifestyle. Too bad for them as we are having the time of our life time and mrs proud to be a slut if that is what people think of swinger wife
    >4w
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  • elizadolittle

    elizadolittle
    60F Beenleigh, QLD,
     AU

    Women are sluts, men are legends. I'm hoping one day that this will never be the way that women are perceived for their love of sex. If you are safe and love to have gangbangs or swing, then go for it and enjoy it while you can.
    >4w
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  • kissmeslowly65

    kissmeslowly65
    62 32 Sydney, NSW,
     AU

    Bravo, I have gone through a journey of self discovery since my husband of 25 years passed away 5 years ago and I have spent many a minute, hour , day and week contemplating the slut thought process. But i enjoy sex... i enjoy giving as much as receiving. What has been interesting is it is actually women I have met whilst swinging who have made me feel the I am a slut thought process strongly far more than any male has.... sarcastic comments of how much i enjoy sex etc or as one woman commented at one party that she brings her husband alond so that she can socialise whilst her husband gets "serviced". I am me ...and I LOVE SEX I am comfortable in my skin and i love the experiences this journey has taken me on ... and i have now met a loving wonderful partner who loves the fact i am sensual and sexual and know what i want and I am there for me and i swing for me... not because my partner wants me too, and just going through the motions to make him happy .... Thank you for this article becasue I am sure the majority of women who enjoy swinging have had wondered about being regarded as a slut more than once..
    >4w
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  • gypsy_woman

    gypsy_woman
    67F Benalla, VIC,
     AU

    I think its a personal choice but find it interesting that even to this day women are sluts if they are open yet men are still considered legends by their mates! If we are good people in day to day life and have a different life personally then how is that a bad thing, in the end we have to do what we feel is right. Name labelling is so bad and so rampant so let's all just deal with our own lives and just be nice people especially to others.
    >4w
    • OrgasmsMultiple

      OrgasmsMultiple
      Account closed

      I don't know about that so much these days. I tell a lot of my girlfriends I swing and they are fascinated by it, whilst my partner doesn't tell many of his mates because they can be judgmental. I bet the wives of these mates have unhappy sex lives.
      >4w
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  • weluv2share

    weluv2share
    55F 59M Brisbane, QLD,
     AU

    Chantelle. I fully understand and disagree with the inequity labelling of guys being legends and girls being sluts, however I also appreciate that there is not only a degree of maturity required in choosing how and when to share your body, but understanding the implications of who knows what you do. Unfortunately, perception (no matter how wrong) impacts on not only how we are seen, but the way others treat us in employment and in life. Its not fair, but it just is. We may be born on our own and die on our own, but we move through life with other people who our actions affect.
    So whilst you are happy that your daughter of 18 is entering the work force and is known at work as a slut(although we all think there is nothing wrong with the term)and she is comfortable with that, it impacts her life.
    Although it may be societies problem, your daughter will be unecessarily targeted and exploited.
    So therein lays the dilemma. At what age would other members of AMM consider it appropriate for their children to be considered and want to be sluts.
    >4w
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  • Touchyfeelie

    Touchyfeelie
    Account closed

    Interesting article - my biggest problem with the word slut was that my definition is also that of someone who would have sex with absolutely anyone or had no standards and although I'm not monogamous and I definitely enjoy sex the term just doesn't seem to apply to me.
    Re: telling your kids: I have always been open with my (now 11 yr old) daughter about the fact that I see more than 1 person (not in graphic detail but she understands it involves sex with multiple partners) but I am also very clear that my relationships with my bed-friends are ALWAYS open, honest, respectful & CONSENSUAL - even by the partners who "share" but don't participate. I talk to her regularly about her understanding of sex, jealousy and insecurities & gauge what level of understanding & activity her peers are at so I can ensure she understands it is something adults enjoy because they have had time for their bodies, emotions and social experience to develop. Sounds a bit full on but I've always been up front and matter of fact about it and she takes it in her stride. It's a great feeling knowing that I can be honest with her and she knows she can be honest in return with no possibility of judgement. :)
    >4w
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  • SEXYCPL696

    SEXYCPL696
    47M 40F Runaway Bay, QLD,
     AU

    Love it,
    >4w
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  • Tiggerella

    Tiggerella
    45F Jerrys Plains, NSW,
     AU

    im a slut and proud of it!!!!!!
    >4w
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  • SexyJulze1

    SexyJulze1
    57F New Farm, QLD,
     AU

    what a great & timely article! I have been lABELLED A "SLUT" since first being raped as a child because when it comes to rape & sexual abuse involving incest we are programmed to "blame the victim'. I have had periods of such shame that i was celibate for ten years BUT NOW i WANT to be a slut PLEASE??? I want to live my fantasies & do the 'catching up"
    >4w
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  • Flasherz

    Flasherz
    Account closed

    It was in the book "The Ethical Slut" (copied & pasted here)
    The authors define the term slut as "a person of any gender who has the courage to lead life according to the radical proposition that sex is nice and pleasure is good for you." The term is reclaimed from its usual use as a pejorative and as a simple label for a promiscuous person. Instead, it is used to signify a person who is accepting of their enjoyment of sex and the pleasure of intimacy with others, and chooses to engage and accept these in an ethical and open way — rather than as cheating. Its a great read & I have never been ashamed of my sexual choice. I think thats what makes it more exciting too. Cheers
    >4w
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  • funcpl71

    funcpl71
    56M 53F Bendigo, VIC,
     AU

    thank you for this article I always enjoy it when we play but often feel guilty after thinking Im a mum and shouldn't be doing this
    My hubby has wanted me to try a gang bang and the feeling of being ashamed and slutty stops me every time but after reading this it gives me a bit of confidence that Im not a freak not that i will go out tonight and have a gang bang (im a bit scared still )
    >4w
    • OrgasmsMultiple

      OrgasmsMultiple
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      It can be hard to organise a gang bang. Apart from rounding up willing participants, you want them to still be reasonably attractive and nice people. Do you go to swinger clubs? We love them, although some nights are better than others.
      >4w
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  • dntbeshy469

    dntbeshy469
    54M Beerwah, QLD,
     AU

    In my humble opinion whose business is it whose a slut or not,really only those engaging in activities with so called sluts, I really don't understand the stigma surrounding being a slut,why is it such a bad thing to enjoy pleasure,or give pleasure sexually,surely this is one of the most wonderful gifts we as human beings have been given,whether youre a slut or in a monogamous long term relationship,I urge each and every one of us to make the most of any situations that are firstly safe and healthy,obviously health is important,theres not much pleasure to be had in getting ill,but,once those basic rules have been met,engage in whatever you like,enjoy your body,why limit what nature has provided us with,embrace it. . .just my opinion though ;)
    >4w
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  • Vixens

    Vixens
    Account closed

    Well I don't buy into this slut business....it's a misogynistic term used by men to control women...you never hear of hetero men referred to as sluts. They're heroes or at least "just being boys"...
    >4w
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  • lollies444

    lollies444
    Account closed

    I am asked often asked by guys on this site if I consider myself a slut. My answer is always a resounding yes and if anyone has a problem with that then that's their problem not mine.
    >4w
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  • partnerpal

    partnerpal
    61M 57F Donvale, VIC,
     AU

    Girls enjoy your Liberty and don't even think about other peoples hangups....Your're a Goddess and that what matters. Sex is a sensation a pleasure to be enjoyed and be thankful you have a partner who can distinguish between Sex and Love. It works for us and enhances our Love for each other....You're not Sluts (Don't like the word) Your LIBERATED FEMALE LEGENDS.
    >4w
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  • Beach couple

    Beach couple
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    No problem in the name if it s an acronym for Sexually Liberated Uninhibited Tigress.
    >4w
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  • Do_it_4_Fun

    Do_it_4_Fun
    40M 38F Sydney, NSW,
     AU

    i don't think of myself as a slut, i'm just a people person lol!
    >4w
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  • staytoplay

    staytoplay
    56F 61M Ballina, NSW,
     AU

    After 17 years of fidelity to one man and then swinging with a new partner who was really into it with no hangups, had me really wondering about the whole slut label. I was scared stiff of the label but am also a proud feminist where I believe we define who we are to the world and how we present. I asked my partner to call me a slut in the bedroom when he was really turned on. Initially he was very uncomfortable but after many times I found it really liberating. It allowed me to let go of all fears I had about the label. My answer now is to revel in our sexuality and let the judgers stymy in their own narrow view of the world.
    >4w
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  • citygirl88

    citygirl88
    Account closed

    Just because you are selective about the the 6 guys who are gang banging you doesn't mean you are not a slut. Haha, I wish I could justify everything I do that easily.
    >4w
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  • intomeic

    intomeic
    Account closed

    Embracing my Inner slut I love to be told I do 'Slut with class'
    >4w
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  • intomeic

    intomeic
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    There is this inner slut in me
    That yearns to express my sexuality
    So I wish instead of being labelled a ‘Whore’
    Men would reverently whisper ‘J’ adore’
    >4w
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  • Anniejean

    Anniejean
    57F Melbourne, VIC,
     AU

    WELL,Only you can judge yourself,so if you go to bed at night,thinking you are,then you are ,quite simple really,cherrs Annie
    >4w
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  • Abby50

    Abby50
    65F 69M Perth, WA,
     AU

    Why do we have to label people? why can't we just enjoy being alive and doing what makes us happy. I don't even like the label of bi sexual. I feel I am just free and enjoy life in all its glory. We are here just a short while and we are here to enjoy what life brings. As long as I have a healthy safe life and my children and good. Please don't judge me or my family and I won't judge you!
    >4w
    • Lastplay

      Lastplay
      69M Ballarat, VIC,
       AU

      Great question. Personally, I do not like labels and see people be true to who they are. I was raised to see there are only two labels( well phrase) of relevance: people who are good and people who wish you harm.
      Have a good one
      >4w
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  • hotwife2013

    hotwife2013
    56F 57M Southport, QLD,
     AU

    I like be called a slut in the bedroom when i am showing my husband how I can be naughty with another guy. He loves to watch me be a slut but only when he is watching :-)
    >4w
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  • arcadiandream

    arcadiandream
    61F Alstonville, NSW,
     AU

    Love this ! "No problem in the name if it s an acronym for Sexually Liberated Uninhibited Tigress."
    Thanks BeachCouple. Will use this one.
    Arcadiax
    >4w
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  • mars62

    mars62
    62F Adelaide, SA,
     AU

    Oh, thank you so much for your refreshing insight. I guess in a way we all struggle with this question once or twice in our lifetime. We were put on this planet to enjoy ourselves. .. so I say go for it.
    >4w
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  • afteradventures

    afteradventures
    Account closed

    Great read :-)
    'Slut' shouldn't be used as a way of making women feel embarrassed about their sexual appetite
    As long as people are enjoying themselves, that's all that matters
    I feel sorry for those who pass judgement, what boring lives they must have.
    I'm happy to just keep feeling good :-)
    >4w
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  • OrgasmsMultiple

    OrgasmsMultiple
    Account closed

    We both came from marriages where our partners were not into sex. We now make up for it by swinging and exploring our sex life to the fullest. I don't know if we are sluts. I do know we have a great time and fully support each other's desire to enjoy sex to the max. We just feel sorry for people who cannot emotionally trust their partners enough to swing.
    >4w
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  • OrgasmsMultiple

    OrgasmsMultiple
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    I must confess to a "slut" moment. My partner took me to a sex shop to get some things. We went into a video booth together. There was a guy in the next booth which had a gloryhole. Gave him a BJ whilst my partner gave it to me from behind. Then I gave the guy in the next booth a condom. He put it on and stuck it through the gloryhole. I pressed back against it. The sex wasn't really that great and I have no idea what he looked like. But it was soooo hot and fun. Went to the Couples Club after that and had more fun. Ladies, try it some time. Anonymous sex is the best.
    >4w
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  • Leannemuir

    Leannemuir
    52F Morningside, QLD,
     AU

    Awesome I'm A SLut and proudly enjoy sex
    >4w
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  • SarahT69

    SarahT69
    Account closed

    Well I guess I qualify for the tag of Slut. I'm proud that I have the ability to make choices and that I choose to pursue those choices. These choices have mean I've slept with numerous guys and a few girls over the years and on a whole these have been good experiences. For me it's the freedom of me deciding what I want for myself sexually and seeking to attain that. If there is a connection then something more happens, if not then nothing happens. Yes I'm proud to be a slut and to share myself, although don't tell my husband.
    >4w
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  • SecretService16

    SecretService16
    53F Gold Coast, QLD,
     AU

    Great article .....I guess I am another one here celebrating my Slutiness!!!! Bring it on :)
    >4w
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  • GangFucking

    GangFucking
    Account closed

    Great article and we totally agree!
    If you feel the urge then don't hold back girl. Be a hungry, greedy Slut!
    >4w
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  • Bella.Dawn

    Bella.Dawn
    47F TAS,
     AU

    I’m proudly a slut and a unicorn. I choose who I play with, I choose whether I dress provocatively in appropriate environments. My life. My rules.
    Love this article.
    >4w
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  • Soloswinging62

    Soloswinging62
    Account closed

    Love this
    >4w
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  • SpicySouthEast

    SpicySouthEast
    53M 52F Carlton, TAS,
     AU

    I (blue half of our account) am at least a cuddleslut and maybe more.
    >4w
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  • AdHoC47

    AdHoC47
    Account closed

    Have to admit I've wondered this myself and I have always been amused and at times more than a little offended for others labelled as a "slut" simply because they enjoy sex with many/varied partners.
    I have to add to that a lot of Men will happily call themselves "Studs" as if it's a badge of honour but in the same breathe label a Woman a "Slut" because they will sleep with others and perhaps not them, which is pretty offensive and definitely a double standard.
    So to counter this, at every opportunity I would correct them and counter that they like Me were in fact not "studs", simply Male "Sluts".
    Yes I am a SLUT and I fucking love it.
    Take care and be kind.
    Xo
    >4w
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  • Hightimeforlove

    Hightimeforlove
    58M Henley Beach, SA,
     AU

    No-one is a slut. To be a slut, there would have to be something bad about enjoying sexual variety. There isn't.
    >4w
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  • OzandViet

    OzandViet
    60M 46F Glenfield, NSW,
     AU

    I've never considered myself a slut because we're swingers as we only swing with other couples and ones we both approve of. Everything is done with each others approval and I just look at it as we both enjoy a healthy sex life.
    >4w
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  • Stefan1986

    Stefan1986
    38M Benalla, VIC,
     AU

    I love that word. I want to call more women sluts during sex. It might just be the taboo that arouses me though. I am not sure...
    >4w
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  • Anotherirish

    Anotherirish
    35M Toowoomba, QLD,
     AU

    There’s no such thing as a slut, it’s just women who enjoy sex, definitely aren’t a slur if joining
    >4w
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  • countryman25

    countryman25
    72M Gundaroo, NSW,
     AU

    No I dont feel there any need to term any person a slut who enjoys consensual sex and that could also be termed to males as we all have different needs and wants and while reading the article I was thinking of the term my wife and I would be as from the first day together we were very sexually active for 21 days a month usually twice a day for an hour each session and sometimes three times a day experiencing several positions and always orgasmic and insisted they were multiple
    >4w
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  • Steve0112

    Steve0112
    64M Mooloolah Valley, QLD,
     AU

    Keep enjoying yourself, that’s the main thing..forget the label’s.
    >4w
    Reply
  • Hedotoday

    Hedotoday
    55M Central Coast, NSW,
     AU

    Nothing wrong with enjoying yourself, it’s just prudish peeps wishing they had the courage to enjoy.
    >4w
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  • Zamboon

    Zamboon
    66M Bridgeman Downs, QLD,
     AU

    These days Sluts refer to male and female ....
    Funny enough in my experience it was more the case of women calling other women sluts when they disapproved of their behaviour ...
    >4w
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  • SweetestSins

    SweetestSins
    Account closed

    I absolutely embrace it! Call me a slut all you want, I literally don’t care… I wear a collar that says “slut” which is a bit of a kick in the face to the haters. I’m just sexually liberated, and I don’t care what other opinions are.
    Women that call other women names are insecure.
    Anyone that says “she must be so lose” .. how can a woman who fucks 50 guys be looser than a woman who fucks the same man 50 times?
    Be safe, play hard and fuck what people think.
    >4w
    • MMH290973

      MMH290973
      Account closed

      This resonates with me, men also have ‘ issues ‘ with it though. Care little about what anyone thinks as long as you don’t hurt anyone
      >4w
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  • Easyriderr.

    Easyriderr.
    Account closed

    I dont get the whole slut thing. If your on here your looking for like minded people to have fun with in and out of the bedroom and you like it and take it is your own go. So I guess we aren't or everyone is. Plus grow up its 2021.
    >4w
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  • Robfay

    Robfay
    54M 51F Andrews Farm, SA,
     AU

    Like the new definition of slut, love the way it's expressed. "Adventurous " "sexually free " " exploring" " experience everything " sounds like a get up and go person should be in all dictionarys. Any one searching slut in dictionary would be happy reading the meaning I think anyway. not like looking up troglodyte.
    >4w
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  • Sahzpete

    Sahzpete
    66M Perth, WA,
     AU

    We have been swinger's for many years and l don't see my my wife as a slut in any way , just the opposite a loving and sexual person, she has enjoyed being spit roasted and played with many partners, we are normal people and just because we are swingers and like playing and having sex with other like minded consenting adults dose not make us sick or weird or deveotes or my wife a slut just because we enjoy this life style . We have the belief that what we do in our private lives is no bodies business . So to the ladies out there , just embrace your inner slut and enjoy it as you are also giving pleasure and making other people very happy and that is a good thing.
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