Couples Reveal Their Sex Count To Each Other
We loved this video which features couples having to guess the number of sexual partners they think their partners have had … and then finding out if they were right!
We don’t believe that the number of partners you’ve had should define you and you can read more from our resident Psychologist in this article.
What’s your number, and have you shared it honestly with your sexual partners?
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Comments (40)
Aloha19
More than a month agoIf you ever make the mistake of asking a chick her number, multiply her answer by at least a factor of two, usually three, and you'll be somewhere close to the truth.
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More than a month agoMy ex wife said exactly that women say what ever number and times it by three lol
Aloha19
More than a month agoA key that can open many locks is a master key.
A lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock.
FunRackcouple
More than a month agooh pulease
robros3
More than a month agoWell Rob here Id rather be with someone who puts out and about Rather than the lady Im with who dose not do it at all Then again she did work as a pro for seven years( So maybe used it all up) and I think I am Henry the eighth in normal relationship status ie not paid or paying LOL
All I can add is GO FOR IT HAVE SAFE FUN lifes to short to get your nickers in a twist over such matters
beachcpl1977
More than a month agodoes it really matter how many as long as you have both had fun and enjoyed. as much as some comments here say i love knowing my partner has more men and actually enjoy hearing about her experiences!
HeadDownBumUp
More than a month agoWho cares how many play friends a woman has had...as long as she did it for herself first & foremost and enjoyed herself....all I'd really hope for is if I was one of the ones that was at least memorable! lol
Live, laugh, Play!
MandyMaree2973
More than a month agoThere is no way I’d ever tell a guy this, I’ve spoken to enough men to know they don’t think highly of a woman that has a ‘ large ‘ count, think what you will but yeah.
Thankfully mines not up there but I really don’t think it’s somethimg that needs to be discussed :)
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More than a month agoI'm with you there Mandy !
Everybody screams for discretion but very few really understand what it means .....
I have never, and will never reveal how many people I have been with ... it is no one's business but my own.
One of the biggest turn offs for me is a guy discussing his previous relationships - I couldn't give two hoots who he has been with and what he has done, I never ask, and he shouldn't worry about mine.
Despite what men say, there is still that double standard of "men are studs" and "women are sluts" ..... men still look for "nice girls" when choosing a long term partner but usually end up sexually dissatisfied and looking for greener grass ..... go figure. lol
Zamboon
More than a month agoI grew up with a lot of Jewish friends but the one thing I noticed was that the guys would date and play with gentile girls and it was always understood that they would marry Jewish girls when they were done screwing around ...
Leolady727
More than a month agoHmmm, never kept count but, having been in the swinging lifestyle for 20 years the numbers would be up there. Out and proud slut ;-)
Zamboon
More than a month agoLove your attitude
beachcpl1977
More than a month agou gotta love a proud confident woman *S*
Rubylicious333
More than a month agoAt 37 years of age, I had only slept with 3 men;. my first husband, my 2nd husband and a guy I had an affair with whilst nearing the end of my 2nd marriage.
I'm now 50, and to be honest, I've had the most amazing sexual experiences with lots of different men and couples. My count is way over 200 - I stopped counting a few years ago!
What I would like to know is, what do men think of a woman that has had so many sexual partners? I mean men are usually seen as studs for how many women they've had, but does anyone think that a woman who has had many sexual partners is seen as a slut or cheap?
Zamboon
More than a month agoI think it’s wonderful and sexy that you’ve had so many guys and that you love sex so much - I think some guys would hope that you enjoy them and that you wouldn’t be comparing them against someone you had had before - but that’s just something they have to be mature enough to get over and anyway you don’t need to tell them how many certainly not in the beginning- that’s simply your business , and your choice - don’t feel bad about it and don’t let anyone else make you feel bad about it - all those experiences have made you who you are and if someone likes you for who you are then what’s the problem... and stay away from immature and jealous people- be well you lovely lady...
greg61
More than a month agoNo, it does not matter Ms Rubilicious. Why be hung up by numbers ? It's the experience of sharing that matters most. If a relationship forms, surely it more about the connection and intamacy together rather than how many have come before.
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More than a month agoGood on you
You go girl enjoy while you can
You need to do what you need to do
It my eyes you are a stud
Enjoy
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More than a month agoYeah they do, I’ve had men say that to me when we’ve discussed this topic. Not about how many I’ve slept with, I wouldn’t discuss it with a guy anyway but they’ve indicated they’d fuck a woman like that but they’d never date her :) depends what you want I guess :)
FarNorthSAcple
More than a month agoJust a number, there is no substitute for experience. :)
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More than a month agoAs long as you play safe and have consensual fun. More experience, more adventurous, no jealousy.
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More than a month agoSlut or cheap?? Hell NO. A lady who is sexually active is a most desirable partner be it either short or long term. Most males once they have had intercourse with a woman seem to develop a possessive attitude leading to a jealous attitude causing the majority of problems. This seems to stem from the fact it is much easier for a lady to get laid than a man. Once a male gets past this jealous attitude and accepts a sexually active lady for what she is, and embraces it, then the whole partnership attitude changes - your body is your own and belongs to no one else - if 2 people decide to enter a monogamous relationship then let it be for the right reasons and if they decide that a monogamous relationship is not their ideal then as long as jealousy does not rear it's ugly head to my way of thinking this is ideal - who gives a damn how many guys she may have fucked this is her experience and she brings this to the relationship . Ricky1610
beachcpl1977
More than a month agolike so many replies have stated its just a number and if your life is better for yr experiences then go for it... I would be far more attracted to a woman like you then a girl who has not experienced life *S*
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More than a month agoi would much prefer a woman who has a lot of experience compared to one who doesnt have that much
ISX600
More than a month agoHow Lucky are some !
CentralWestCpl
More than a month agoI have to thank AMM, and some wonderful women who introduced me to swinging, for getting my count up over 100. I had been in a monogamous marriage for decades so had a low count from my youth until well into my 40s. I have certainly made up for it since. And I am pleased to say regular health checks have found no STDs. A compliment to my willing and able partners along with a common sense approach to safe sex. Especially to my lovely lady partner x x
1DoorMan
More than a month agogot to say consenting sexual partners over 800 may be 1000 whose counting.
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More than a month agoReally? I’m not sure I’d want to know that about you but each to their own I guess :)
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More than a month agoIt's only a estimate
Funguynotfungi
More than a month agoWeird statement......... How many Non consenting partners?
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More than a month agoFunquynotfungi all consented you dont know me and I respect women.You can ask her my partner is standing by my side.
Zamboon
More than a month agoI did a count a while ago and it came close to 300 although during a period of my life I was super busy and had no time for dating so I used to see have a relationship with massage therapists which I know doesn’t count but that probably made up for about 50 - and it was a great arrangement- I could tell them things about myself that no one else ever knew and we got to know each other and phone on birthdays etc and of course they knew what I liked so sometimes I cringe but other times I remember them with great fondness ...
Ilikemengc
More than a month agoLike the dude said .. after a certain number the count becomes hazy .... lol. I stopped counting after about 1,000 :)
BurningDesirez
More than a month agoNo one has ever asked me. But.... 111
Zamboon
More than a month agoYou good thing ... did you cut notches in the bedpost ? ;)
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More than a month agoNo. Kept their names on my phone. Lol
Zamboon
More than a month agoAlways scared of a pocket phone call ...
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More than a month agoI'd be your 112th lol
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More than a month agoInteresting
Zamboon
More than a month agoI’d be very lucky if that happened...
Zacari27
More than a month agoLove your smile ..