Couples Reveal Their Sex Count To Each Other

Adult Match Maker on 26 September 2018    43 comments
Screenshot from the youtube video of couples revealing their sex count to each other

We loved this video which features couples having to guess the number of sexual partners they think their partners have had … and then finding out if they were right! 

We don’t believe that the number of partners you’ve had should define you and you can read more from our resident Psychologist in this article.

What’s your number, and have you shared it honestly with your sexual partners?

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  • BurningDesirez

    BurningDesirez
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    No one has ever asked me. But.... 111
    >4w
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  • Ilikemengc

    Ilikemengc
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    Like the dude said .. after a certain number the count becomes hazy .... lol. I stopped counting after about 1,000 :)
    >4w
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  • Zamboon

    Zamboon
    66M Bridgeman Downs, QLD,
     AU

    I did a count a while ago and it came close to 300 although during a period of my life I was super busy and had no time for dating so I used to see have a relationship with massage therapists which I know doesn’t count but that probably made up for about 50 - and it was a great arrangement- I could tell them things about myself that no one else ever knew and we got to know each other and phone on birthdays etc and of course they knew what I liked so sometimes I cringe but other times I remember them with great fondness ...
    >4w
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  • 1DoorMan

    1DoorMan
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    got to say consenting sexual partners over 800 may be 1000 whose counting.
    >4w
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  • CentralWestCpl

    CentralWestCpl
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    I have to thank AMM, and some wonderful women who introduced me to swinging, for getting my count up over 100. I had been in a monogamous marriage for decades so had a low count from my youth until well into my 40s. I have certainly made up for it since. And I am pleased to say regular health checks have found no STDs. A compliment to my willing and able partners along with a common sense approach to safe sex. Especially to my lovely lady partner x x
    >4w
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  • ISX600

    ISX600
    64M Warragul, VIC,
     AU

    How Lucky are some !
    >4w
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  • Rubylicious333

    Rubylicious333
    56F NSW,
     AU

    At 37 years of age, I had only slept with 3 men;. my first husband, my 2nd husband and a guy I had an affair with whilst nearing the end of my 2nd marriage.
    I'm now 50, and to be honest, I've had the most amazing sexual experiences with lots of different men and couples. My count is way over 200 - I stopped counting a few years ago!
    What I would like to know is, what do men think of a woman that has had so many sexual partners? I mean men are usually seen as studs for how many women they've had, but does anyone think that a woman who has had many sexual partners is seen as a slut or cheap?
    >4w
    • Zamboon

      Zamboon
      66M Bridgeman Downs, QLD,
       AU

      I think it’s wonderful and sexy that you’ve had so many guys and that you love sex so much - I think some guys would hope that you enjoy them and that you wouldn’t be comparing them against someone you had had before - but that’s just something they have to be mature enough to get over and anyway you don’t need to tell them how many certainly not in the beginning- that’s simply your business , and your choice - don’t feel bad about it and don’t let anyone else make you feel bad about it - all those experiences have made you who you are and if someone likes you for who you are then what’s the problem... and stay away from immature and jealous people- be well you lovely lady...
      >4w
    • greg61

      greg61
      63M NSW,
       AU

      No, it does not matter Ms Rubilicious. Why be hung up by numbers ? It's the experience of sharing that matters most. If a relationship forms, surely it more about the connection and intamacy together rather than how many have come before.
      >4w
    • Itska69

      Itska69
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      Good on you
      You go girl enjoy while you can
      You need to do what you need to do
      It my eyes you are a stud
      Enjoy
      >4w
    • MandyMaree2973

      MandyMaree2973
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      Yeah they do, I’ve had men say that to me when we’ve discussed this topic. Not about how many I’ve slept with, I wouldn’t discuss it with a guy anyway but they’ve indicated they’d fuck a woman like that but they’d never date her :) depends what you want I guess :)
      >4w
    • FarNorthSAcple

      FarNorthSAcple
      62M 60F SA,
       AU

      Just a number, there is no substitute for experience. :)
      >4w
    • TheMinstrel

      TheMinstrel
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      As long as you play safe and have consensual fun. More experience, more adventurous, no jealousy.
      >4w
    • IWANTU.2

      IWANTU.2
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      Slut or cheap?? Hell NO. A lady who is sexually active is a most desirable partner be it either short or long term. Most males once they have had intercourse with a woman seem to develop a possessive attitude leading to a jealous attitude causing the majority of problems. This seems to stem from the fact it is much easier for a lady to get laid than a man. Once a male gets past this jealous attitude and accepts a sexually active lady for what she is, and embraces it, then the whole partnership attitude changes - your body is your own and belongs to no one else - if 2 people decide to enter a monogamous relationship then let it be for the right reasons and if they decide that a monogamous relationship is not their ideal then as long as jealousy does not rear it's ugly head to my way of thinking this is ideal - who gives a damn how many guys she may have fucked this is her experience and she brings this to the relationship . Ricky1610
      >4w
    • beachcpl1977

      beachcpl1977
      47F 59M Ocean Grove, VIC,
       AU

      like so many replies have stated its just a number and if your life is better for yr experiences then go for it... I would be far more attracted to a woman like you then a girl who has not experienced life *S*
      >4w
    • dazdragonn

      dazdragonn
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      i would much prefer a woman who has a lot of experience compared to one who doesnt have that much
      >4w
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  • Leolady727

    Leolady727
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    Hmmm, never kept count but, having been in the swinging lifestyle for 20 years the numbers would be up there. Out and proud slut ;-)
    >4w
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  • MandyMaree2973

    MandyMaree2973
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    There is no way I’d ever tell a guy this, I’ve spoken to enough men to know they don’t think highly of a woman that has a ‘ large ‘ count, think what you will but yeah.
    Thankfully mines not up there but I really don’t think it’s somethimg that needs to be discussed :)
    >4w
    • MsCupCake

      MsCupCake
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      I'm with you there Mandy !
      Everybody screams for discretion but very few really understand what it means .....
      I have never, and will never reveal how many people I have been with ... it is no one's business but my own.
      One of the biggest turn offs for me is a guy discussing his previous relationships - I couldn't give two hoots who he has been with and what he has done, I never ask, and he shouldn't worry about mine.
      Despite what men say, there is still that double standard of "men are studs" and "women are sluts" ..... men still look for "nice girls" when choosing a long term partner but usually end up sexually dissatisfied and looking for greener grass ..... go figure. lol
      >4w
    • Zamboon

      Zamboon
      66M Bridgeman Downs, QLD,
       AU

      I grew up with a lot of Jewish friends but the one thing I noticed was that the guys would date and play with gentile girls and it was always understood that they would marry Jewish girls when they were done screwing around ...
      >4w
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    • Affection1957

      Affection1957
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      Hello MaaMxox.
      I am just replying to your comment.
      I can Genuinely sympathize with you.
      I have been on this site for 3 months and would love to meet someone nice.
      I am very Genuine and Sincere, but I have found that there are an incredible amount of women on this site who are So Rude and inconsiderate.
      I would love to meet someone Genuine and become close friends. I have messaged lots of women on here, just trying to touch base and be friendly. But either the people l message never seem to be on line; and if they do. They read my message and never reply; or they block me?
      WTF ? I am only trying to be nice and hopefully meet. No such thing as a reply to say thanks for messaging me, but I don't think that you are what I am looking for.
      It is so frustrating for me, because I have always wanted to feel close to someone.
      Sex is good. But it is not everything?
      Feeling emotionally close and connected to someone is so fulfilling.
      Having sex with someone you feel comfortable and connected with someone is so much for satisfying.
      Don't get me wrong. I may be older. But I still get horny and would love to experience some adventurous sex and try something new.
      But trying to meet someone on here is like trying to win the Lottery?
      Best of luck?
      >4w
    • ispywithmy

      ispywithmy
      40M Footscray, VIC,
       AU

      Hi, Affection1957
      Yes Amm is certainly a tough place for single guys who don't fit the generic mold of what most women are looking for here. It can be a little depressing, reading profiles, making sure that you might be compatible (with what you both are looking for), writing genuine messages, only to get blocked, never replied to or generic 'my pet mouse has a sore claw, I am really busy at the moment'. Occasionally, you do get someone who just politely says no thanks I their own way.
      Just hold in there, or maybe look at other ways of meeting people (as in at work or in other social circles).
      And the numbers thing? I recon it's irrelevant, if there is good chemistry/connection/spark or what ever else someone may call it, that will almost always make for an overal better experience. If they are just their to chalk up some numbers, well, might as well stay home and watch re-runs of question time!
      >4w
  • HeadDownBumUp

    HeadDownBumUp
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    Who cares how many play friends a woman has had...as long as she did it for herself first & foremost and enjoyed herself....all I'd really hope for is if I was one of the ones that was at least memorable! lol
    Live, laugh, Play!
    >4w
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  • beachcpl1977

    beachcpl1977
    47F 59M Ocean Grove, VIC,
     AU

    does it really matter how many as long as you have both had fun and enjoyed. as much as some comments here say i love knowing my partner has more men and actually enjoy hearing about her experiences!
    >4w
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  • robros3

    robros3
    73M Killarney, QLD,
     AU

    Well Rob here Id rather be with someone who puts out and about Rather than the lady Im with who dose not do it at all Then again she did work as a pro for seven years( So maybe used it all up) and I think I am Henry the eighth in normal relationship status ie not paid or paying LOL
    All I can add is GO FOR IT HAVE SAFE FUN lifes to short to get your nickers in a twist over such matters
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  • Aloha19

    Aloha19
    48M Melbourne, VIC,
     AU

    A key that can open many locks is a master key.
    A lock that can be opened by many keys is a shitty lock.
    >4w
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  • Aloha19

    Aloha19
    48M Melbourne, VIC,
     AU

    If you ever make the mistake of asking a chick her number, multiply her answer by at least a factor of two, usually three, and you'll be somewhere close to the truth.
    >4w
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