How to Take the Perfect Pussy Pic

Adult Match Maker on 19 December 2017    44 comments
Silhouette of a naked woman with a pussy cat on her stomach

Now before you head straight to the Comments and write “I don’t do that”, there’s no right or wrong about whether you take photos of your pink bits and send them to your lover or post them on Adult Match Maker. But we told the guys how to take a decent penis pic in an earlier article so in the interests of equality it’s time to find out how to make your girlie bits look amazing if you choose to take a photo of them.

Be honest, do you post 100% of your selfies to social media or do you take a few, pick the best, crop, adjust the lighting and contrast, add a filter and then take just one more photo in case it’s better. It’s the same when you’re taking a photo “down there”. Don’t take one shot and give up because it’s not looking like you thought it would. Based on comments on Eva’s article A Labia Tale, men don’t care what your pussy looks like, only that you are a sexy woman who owns one and might be willing to share it. So take 50 photos and delete the 49 you’re not happy with. There’s no magic formula. 

And before we get started check out our previous blog post Read this before you send that Naked Selfie which is essential reading before you pick up that phone or camera.

Vag photos are a bit different to photos of your boobs or butt. It’s relatively easy to make those photos look “sexy” possibly because of the way we’re socialised about our pussies. Many of us grew up being told that it’s ok to show a bit of boob but only a slut would take a photo of her pussy. I’m grateful that most of us have actually progressed past this school of thought. If you’re comfortable taking a photo and sharing it with one person or a whole lot of people on Adult Match Maker – yay! 

So let’s get started, here are our 10 tips for taking the perfect pussy selfie. 

  1. Take a peek: grab a mirror, undress, lie back and explore. Caress and tuck bits in and out, open and close, even get out a sex toy and play with yourself and watch any physical or colour changes as you become aroused and get a sense of what you’re going to be taking a photo of.
  2. Angles baby: Flexibility isn’t essential but it’s going to help because unless you’re double jointed some dexterity is required (or a selfie stick) to get the right angles. Take some pics lying down, sitting or even standing with one leg raised on a chair or bed and work out which angles are most flattering, and achievable.
  3. Lighting is everything: we covered this in a previous article but to recap, natural morning light is the most flattering - not direct sunlight - just natural even light and don’t use a flash. Position yourself facing the light source and if you have white sheets and white walls you will positively glow. Avoid the bathroom, avoid florescent light, avoid shadows. 
  4. Grooming: your photo should represent what you’re comfortable with. If you’re not lasered decide in advance what look you’re going for – trimmed, waxed, shaved. All of these will need to be done at various intervals ahead of your planned photoshoot so that things like ingrown hairs, reddened skin or regrowth don’t detract from the photo. Of course if you prefer au natural then ignore this tip and go straight to number 5. And make sure it’s clean, pretty obvious but if we don’t include it someone will comment. 
  5. Ditch the underwear: it’s either a pussy shot or it’s not. We know that less is sometimes more but we’re not talking about taking a photo of your lingerie, it’s a photo of your pussy. Having said that a gstring or a pair of lacy pants pushed to the side can be very sexy. But how many pairs of hands do you actually have?
  6. Incorporate sex toys: Don’t be shy about incorporating a vibrator or dildo into your photo. Just the thought of that dildo disappearing into your wet pussy will drive the recipient of you pic wild. It’s a nice added extra provided you have enough hands and flexibility to pull it off.   
  7. Lube it up: there’s nothing sexier than a wet vagina so grab some lube or even spritz with some water – if you need to that is – the thought of taking the photos is sometimes enough to turn a girl on. Oh my!
  8. Remove identifying details: it’s simple, don’t show your face or identifying birthmarks, tattoos or piercings. 
  9. All vag is good and they’re all different: We don’t need to elaborate on this do we? A healthy happy pussy is pink or red or brown. Ok so they’re all different, there’s no gold standard for pussy colour, shape or size. Vag is good is our new motto. 
  10. To filter or not to filter: we love a good filter but perhaps with pussy pics show some restraint. You don’t want the pic to look like you have some weird medical issue going on so make sure the filter is flattering. Some of the sexiest pussy photos we’ve seen have been black & white so experiment until you find something you love. 

Now if you don’t want to take a pussy photo but still want to take nude photos you can read our How to Take a Sexy Nude Selfie guide. 

So strike a pose and get snapping. 

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Comments (44)

  • fuckmonkeys

    fuckmonkeys
    52M 51F Mount Eliza, VIC,
     AU

    What a shame I can’t post my perfect pussy shot here!
    >4w
    Reply
  • Alexis2973

    Alexis2973
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    Personally I don't use a filter or alter the pics I take in anyway :), I may make them black and white but that's about it.
    I've seen hundreds of vaginas in my line of work and whilst they are all different, not all should necessarily be on display. I've seen some rather untidy pics that honestly I've thought ' are you serious ? '.
    Whilst speaking about angles, I think men tend to take 'cock pics ' that look impressive but often aren't in real life.
    I think just keep it real, if you don't it could lead to disappointment :(
    >4w
    Reply
  • Papillon48

    Papillon48
    59F Buchanan, NSW,
     AU

    Thank you X
    >4w
    Reply
  • triXXXi66

    triXXXi66
    58F 58M SA,
     AU

    Avoid taking pix of identifying piercings.... ummm i can't... they are in my pussy! Lol... and i think i pretty much got the pussy pix down pat... excuse the pun! Haha
    >4w
    Reply
  • Harry.N.Sally

    Harry.N.Sally
    57M 57F SA,
     AU

    Good lighting is definitely the key but dont over do it.
    >4w
    Reply
  • Sweetkiss502

    Sweetkiss502
    55F Leumeah, NSW,
     AU

    I timed it right i took a pussy piccy with a banana had to put a smile on his face the banana that is .
    >4w
    Reply
  • SweetDesire26

    SweetDesire26
    56F QLD,
     AU

    I have a pussy pic as my photo and get heaps of comnents about how clean , smooth and delicious it looks . I just layed back and took it . You only have to read validations to back this up . I am not slut but I am very proud of my pussy as it is a great one and meets a high expectation .
    >4w
    Reply
  • Zamboon

    Zamboon
    66M Bridgeman Downs, QLD,
     AU

    Loved the article and all the comments you are all beautiful women with gorgeous pussies and wonderful photographic techniques and photogenic pussies ;) thank you so much - you’re all my favourites
    >4w
    Reply
  • dsr1966

    dsr1966
    Account closed

    Lets be honest with very few exceptions they are all good pics, and god bless and Merry Christmas to all who share.
    >4w
    Reply
  • friskypuz

    friskypuz
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    Using the time delay is handy if you have a position you want to hold.
    I like to take pics for my lover even though I have been told in the past by some men that my pics showed to much !!!
    Just do what your comfortable with...
    >4w
    Reply
  • wants2tongue

    wants2tongue
    69M Bundaberg, QLD,
     AU

    I saw one recently that looked like it had beed fucked hard and deep. The finishing touch was the little bit of semen leaking out. Very hit.
    >4w
    Reply
  • FiftiesFun2017

    FiftiesFun2017
    Account closed

    There are pussy pics and pussy pics. As they say 'a picture can say a thousand words' and in this case about the person to whom the shared pussy pic belongs to. Not to mention the mood' they were in when they took the photo . Location, underwear or not, smooth or not, it is all up to the person. We go to a lot of trouble with our pics to get our message across. Sensuality.
    As all of our pics are with both of us in them, self timing and creative positioning certainly help. I guess its about how comfortable you are exposing your pussy to strangers as to how far one goes with the picture. All the same what feels good snap away!
    Hope you all have a safe, sexy and merry Christmas!
    >4w
    Reply
  • Darkstud

    Darkstud
    53M Brisbane, QLD,
     AU

    Taking a perfect pussy pic. is an art. Hats off to all the women who do their best to get a nice shot to make us men happy!
    Merry Christmas all!
    >4w
    Reply
  • Jonnycache

    Jonnycache
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    No white goo and pimples. No stubble or regrowth. And if you have ingrown hairs maybe give it a few weeks before taking the picture.
    I know a lot of women seem to think they are a collective and all have the same standards you have for yourself. But that ain't the case. You re all unique individual humans. How or why I don't know exactly, but I'm lucky enough to be sent lots of pussy pics via amm and other dating sites or clubs or from girls and women I meet. And the amount of "no way jose" pics I get is surprising. Considering women generally spend more time in grooming and getting photos of themselves just right t haan the average guy. I know there's a million and one thirsty guys out there that will take anything, but is that the guy you want to snag?
    It's so disappointing when you've started the hot talk and she sends you and shot of her pussy to show how wet you're making her and it looks more like thrush ooze or there's little bits of toilet paper or the light makes the skin look blotchy or it's the day before her waxing appointment.
    I'm not picky. Well not overly. Flash me and you have my attention. Flash me a thought out and clean pussy shot and you'll have me begging.
    >4w
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  • AntechinusRex

    AntechinusRex
    52M 52F Eltham, VIC,
     AU

    Selfies are fun, but you get a very different angle and look if someone else takes the photos for you ;)
    >4w
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  • hot04u

    hot04u
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    If your pussy looks like an open wound i wouldn't be posting it tbh, if its neat sure go right ahead but to be honest having some mystery is alot better then just seeing everything straight up. Thats my preference anyway.
    >4w
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  • qick-e

    qick-e
    70M Tullamarine, VIC,
     AU

    love pussy pic's especially when its waxed/shaved and ever so smooth , Yummy
    but ones with Cum running out of them , is a real PUT off for me
    >4w
    Reply
  • carbfree

    carbfree
    59F 59M Canberra, ACT,
     AU

    We love taking photos, it's all about the preparation.
    Making sure there are no sistractions in the background, the things you want highlighted are in the light and in focus, the things you don't are in shadows or out of focus.
    Photo shoots are great fun and build sexual desire, we have enjoyed our private shoots of ourselves and with others.
    It's a great way to get to know people.
    >4w
    Reply
  • Leolady727

    Leolady727
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    DON'T - just don't !
    >4w
    Reply
  • alexsun85

    alexsun85
    39M Richmond, VIC,
     AU

    Like fingerprints no two are the same. They are all beautiful and that first view is so exciting erotic akin to unwrapping a present.
    For me, the Gold medal, the Blue ribbon, the Numero Uno is one with long labia minora (inner lips)
    If she could tie a bow............. Worship.
    Dominika C could send a picture daily for the next fifty years and I'd never be bored!
    4w
    Reply
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