Is Your Sexual Fantasy Normal?

Adult Match Maker on 11 November 2017    19 comments
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People have all sorts of interesting sexual desires and fetishes. Within the brain, what you find sexy is a combination of cognitive, emotional and physical processes. Check out this amazing video put together by the AsapSCIENCE team which asks “Is Your Sexual Fantasy Normal?”

According to an anonymous study of 5,000 people the most common was foot fetish and the video gives you a scientific reason for why this isn’t surprising and that there is actually a neurological explanation for this.

While your specific sexual desires and fetishes may be unique to you and your experience, modern science does show that having one in the first place is a normal part of being human.  And if it isn’t harming you or someone else they can exist as part of a healthy sex life. 

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  • Sorr8y

    Sorr8y
    59M2F Ballimore, NSW,
     AU

    My fantasy is kinky I love having sex with people using my male strap on to have sex with them
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  • cowgaluvoldrmen

    cowgaluvoldrmen
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    Well can’t say I’ve ever had foot play !
    Lol don’t come across many hit me up lol
    Each to there own we all have fantasies:-)
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  • ynot70today

    ynot70today
    54NB Moonee Ponds, VIC,
     AU

    Wow so true many guys & girls lick my toes and feet for hours they absolutely adore my feet. Tanya x
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  • magsluvsit

    magsluvsit
    58F Oran Park, NSW,
     AU

    one of my play things loves my feet.. he can have them as long as he gives me
    heaps of oral .. win win lol :-)
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  • charlie368

    charlie368
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    I like love lady's feet a real turn on.
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  • Donna1969

    Donna1969
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    Sexual fantasies. Normal. Definitely not this one. Once had this guy ask me to take a dump in his mouth. Nothing wrong with a bit of dirty nasty sex but that is just pure filth. Perhaps I'm in no position to judge "normal" either. Hoplophilia. Got to love google. At least now I can assign the correct terminology to that particular sexual fantasy of mine.
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  • SecretSquirel01

    SecretSquirel01
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    I have found alot of fetishes are from history
    Wanting to be mumified .feeling like in womb a baby secure and close.never had love of mum as baby .may have been neglected emotional
    Not saying every person has same reasons and feelings for being mumified but in my experience most are simular
    Ive dealt with and seen maaaaaaany fetish mostly men
    From being humiliated and dominated
    To been treated like a dog some r incredibly extreme
    And when asked and speak to them to open up often there is a deep emotional issue
    Often men want to b dominated as they r either in a highly stressfull responsible job or often have a very submissive partner
    So their release is being dominated being submissive
    They arent in control anymore they let go of that role freeing them emotionaly mentally
    Letting someone else take over the stress of responsibilty and control
    One man enjoyed being a horse another a dog
    Ehy.because the dog is a loyal friendly loving aim to please creature who loves to please and loves all the patting and games owners do for them
    So i found this is role played in humans
    Only men ive seen so they feel like they r special being loved played with cared about looked after also obey owner getting rewarded
    The mind is complex
    And how we express our feelings our needs our issues into fetishes is individual
    Feet r like the dominant part of body yet look sexy in high heel shoes and stocking so very femamine but dominant
    They can stand on u stomp and squish u eroticaly
    toes can go into places fingers can to
    They can push u guide u control u
    U can worship the person by worshiping the lowest part of body
    The feet u cant go any more submissive in worship then on yr knees on the ground at the feet
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  • friskypuz

    friskypuz
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    So my fetishist for feet isn't that silly,, nice to know
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  • Hunting4brains

    Hunting4brains
    39F Penrith, NSW,
     AU

    not sure this goes along with this article but as a woman on this site i have come across many different fetishes some more vanilla then others. ranging from hygiene fetish ( getting off on shaving ones partner in the shower etc)- a fantasy involving the guy wanting to kick me in the pussy late at night then leave again, incest fetishes, beastiality fetishes and that is just to name a few of the ones that have stuck in my mind over the years of being on this site.
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    • stewman1

      stewman1
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      No no no.thats terrible..
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    • offgutssex

      offgutssex
      Account closed

      Wow ! Thats pretty full on .. i have the fantasy of watching my girl getting fucked infront of me... watching her sucking cock.. getting licked n taking a big hard cock.. n so much more
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  • DUBVEGAS

    DUBVEGAS
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    Not sure if this goes with article but Exploring ones body can find a fantasy / fetish that neither new about until it happens ie : slowly kissing licking behind knees near sent her through the roof and hadn't realised beforehand
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  • FoxDen.AustWide

    FoxDen.AustWide
    Group VIC,
     AU

    Some of that I knew, but always good to hear something new and build on the knowledge base. ;)
    >4w
    • AMM.Editor

      AMM.Editor
      Staff Account

      I hadn't heard about the experiments on rats. Let's hope they were allowed to keep their little velcro jackets.
      >4w
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