How to enhance her arousal with breast play

Eva Sless Eva Sless on 6 August 2016    38 comments
Woman with large breasts wearing a red bra lounging on a bed

Boobs! How good are they! Not only do they feed and nourish us when we are new to the world, and look awesome in certain types of clothing and designs, they can also be sources of great pleasure and eroticism. There are so many fun and exciting things you can do with breasts and there are even some people who can orgasm directly from nipple and breast stimulation! 

Like all people and bodies, every breast you'll come across (no pun intended, really!) is different and will react and respond differently, but the good news is it can be a lot of fun working it all out and exploring the sensations you can give and receive from concentrating on pleasuring the boob.

We've come up with four really simple and effective little tips and tricks you can do to maximise boob pleasure and improve your bedroom skills.

1. Breasts Are Not Just A Nipple

This is, I think, a really important thing to understand and realise. Yes, that perky, pinky brown nub is the centrepiece, but it is not the be all and end all of breast stimulation. In fact, for some people, direct nipple stimulation (especially without a warm up) can be sensitive to the point of painful and uncomfortable. Take your time to kiss, and stroke, and touch all around her breasts, along the sides, on the so-soft-it's-almost-like-air under skin, even the areola (the coloured bit around the nipple), before you even attempt to bring the nipple into it. If she's someone who has super sensitive nipples she will appreciate the care you've taken to warm her up and not dive right in, and if she's someone who craves that nipple touch... well, just imagine how much she'll crave it if you touch everything but it for a while.

2. Warm Chocolate Sauce

Or caramel, or strawberry, or whatever flavour takes your fancy really. All you need is regular ice cream topping and a microwave. Make sure the sauce isn't too hot because ouch, and drizzle it over the breasts and nipple. The sensation of that thick, warm gooey sauce is incredible, and match that with a hungry, slurpy tongue and the kissing licks of your partner's mouth, and you could end up being one of those lucky nipple orgasm people!

3. Ice Cubes

Like the chocolate sauce, going to your kitchen for kinky accessories is so much fun and super cheap too! This is a really fun and sexy way to play with breasts (and for the kinkier of us out there, is even better when matched with hand cuffs or restraints and blindfolds) and is a phenomenal and practically fail-safe way to get the nipples as hard and as sensitive as possible. The icy cool of an ice cube, matched with the eager hotness of your mouth, can illicit the most amazing and opposite sensations. 

4. Clamps, And Clips and Chains, Oh My!

Before you go covering your nipples and running away saying “nuh-uh I don't think so!”, let me reassure you that not all clips and clamps and chains need to be as hardcore as fetish pictures and porn can make it out to be. There are so many things you can use and buy and play with to add extra sensation to your nipples, and they really don't have to be that scary. Nearly all clamps etc that you can buy are adjustable so you can have them as tight or as loose as you like, and just the act of having something lightly attached to them can make all the difference in sensation play.

The main thing to remember is that breasts can be just as erotic and sensitive to some people as their clitoris or penis, and that learning how your partner likes to be touched is the key to a happy and satisfying sex life to you both. It's important to always communicate your wants and desires, and act and listen accordingly, and remember to have fun, be safe, and always have consent.

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  • simondr

    simondr
    51M Boronia, VIC,
     AU

    Such a great article. This is truly my bread and butter. 90% of my sexual satisfaction comes from boob-play. I'm one of those guys that gets more excited by her satisfaction than my own. I have in-numerous experiences with the highest levels of boob-play. I have pride in my skills in this area. Every woman I've had the privilege of being with, quickly realises that I am very serious about my boob-play and I've never had a bad word said against me. My passion for boob stimulation is so important to me that if she isn't satisfied, I have to ask why, and to learn from her tuition.
    It's a passion and a skill. Even the slightest view of cleavage gets me into overdrive.
    Guys and girls, learn the skills, be soft and gentle (unless she advises otherwise), explore 'every' inch of her supple breasts and tease her as long as you can before introducing her nipples to your lips.
    >4w
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  • Shyner

    Shyner
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    And not a mention of a massage using warm almond oil !!!! As a part of foreplay, use that wonderful oil for slowly and sensuously handling all body parts ,but I digress ....Breasts , those wonderful mounds of soft sensitive skin that most men notice first about a woman ; bikini, business suit , or tight T Shirt , there they are .Just the thought of being rubbed by them, or the more direct touching as part of body tingling foreplay, they deserve undivided attention of their own ( along with the rest of her smorgasbord ).........
    >4w
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  • searchingnt

    searchingnt
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    I have been separated for 12 months after 25 years of marriage to someone who didn't like any touching of her breasts. I have since been with 2 different women that love breast play and orgasm just from playing, licking and sucking their breasts, its an amazing feeling for me to have not one but two women orgasm multiple times just from stimulation of their breasts.
    >4w
    • DDdelite

      DDdelite
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      I love breast play...my breast are sensitive and I love a man who knows just how to stimulate them. I've never even come close to orgasm with nipple play. I so want to know that feeling!
      >4w
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  • cumonmytits7171

    cumonmytits7171
    54F Mango Hill, QLD,
     AU

    I wish more men would play with my H cups. I love climaxing simply by having them kissed, licked, sucked, nibbled and having cum massaged in to them
    >4w
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  • jambon007

    jambon007
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    Good article but nothing didn't already know lol.
    >4w
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  • Jessyj

    Jessyj
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    I totally enjoy having my boobs played with! The more boob play the better for me! Jxxx
    >4w
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  • angie689

    angie689
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    In my 20's I enjoyed breast play so much I could almost orgasm.. but they have changed in sensitivity over the years.. still very important as a part of foreplay, but takes more care to get the motor running nowdays! Very good article! I like the chocolate topping idea :)
    >4w
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  • twisted47

    twisted47
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    I dream of having my breasts played with just like that....
    >4w
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  • TEN4YOU

    TEN4YOU
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    Hi , great suggestions you give in your articles and it would be great if the advice were taken . Some of these men can't pleasure a woman to save their lives ,they're all words and no action . Maybe manuals should be sent directly to their homes lol .Thanks.
    >4w
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  • beniceeveryone

    beniceeveryone
    48M Camberwell, VIC,
     AU

    Great suggestions I have a few new things to try on my next encounter
    >4w
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  • Meetoconnect

    Meetoconnect
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    Gonna try a couple of things there. Think I have lost the art of erotic breastplay.
    Love using oil, but I tend to go straight for the nipples, and neglecting the breast,
    something I will change.
    And the topping also.
    Thanks!!
    >4w
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  • Privateer76

    Privateer76
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    Once had a girl over (Zero Date Bang Recipe, natch)...
    Kissing over wine on the sofa..then she pinched my nipple under my Trump 2016 t-shirt, hard. Not to my liking and I told her.
    A little later it happened again.
    Last warning.
    She must have been deaf, or very persistent.
    Third time she was directly out.
    I kept her coat.
    She's lucky I'm a nice guy.
    >4w
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  • Smoothnsexy88

    Smoothnsexy88
    36M Victoria Park, WA,
     AU

    Mmm memories of an ex that would cum in minutes just by slowly kissing and licking her boobs!
    Where are these women?? I'm yet to find another :(
    >4w
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  • trusted8

    trusted8
    64M VIC,
     AU

    Thanks again Eva for throwing some light on this subject. We are all built differently, but fortunately have similar desires and needs when it comes to sex. Guys, take the time to explore another breasts and find out what works for them, (guys or girls) whether it be gentle massaging, tweeking the nipples between your thumb and forefinger, licking around the nipple, sucking slowly and drawing outwards.....whatever works, I tell you that its one of the best foreplays one can do for another....before doing the horizontal mumbo.
    >4w
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  • friskypuz

    friskypuz
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    love great breast and nipple play,, suck,them nibble them pinch and enjoy they.
    when done right I will cum just from the right nipple play. love it
    >4w
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  • sweeth3art

    sweeth3art
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    What amazes me is when I go to bed with a lover and they pay no attention to my breasts and nipples at all? Especially given my profile states 'nipples connected to clit'!
    >4w
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  • TheMichaels

    TheMichaels
    76M 65F Nambour, QLD,
     AU

    I knew a lady with E cups, she would orgasm just with me orally massaging and sucking her breasts. She would shudder with orgasm. Then again when we fucked, her on top with her beautiful E cups being sucked. Amazing experience.
    >4w
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  • Misterious1

    Misterious1
    49M Melbourne, VIC,
     AU

    I love how a woman responds to good breast play. Massage with hands, tweek nipples with fingers, suck nipples, clamp with teeth then suck. Running feather over them whilst she's blindfolded and ice in mouth with massaging clit,pussy with fingers. Caress the neck with soft to firm touch, run tongue along ear lobe and soft suck at bottom. Then whisper in her ear "I'm going to fuck you so hard!" exchanging nipple play with ice to clit and pussy lick. Mmm, nothing better than pushing all the right buttons to make a woman cum.
    >4w
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  • SusanGKing

    SusanGKing
    54F QLD,
     AU

    Mmm love my girls played with, fondled, licked, slapped, juggled & play with them myself. But very nice having my partners fingers in my juicy puss while sucking on my nipples....
    >4w
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  • Mike.D.001

    Mike.D.001
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    I like to massage breasts while kissing (Natch), but also, licking around the breast (especially the underside). Another thing is that just after nuzzling/suckling a nipple, pull back & gently blow on said Nipple. Makes it Harder.
    >4w
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  • CurvvyBella

    CurvvyBella
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    Breasts and nipples have never been a big focus for me. But get the suck just right and it's a leg trembling delight
    >4w
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  • Zamboon

    Zamboon
    66M Bridgeman Downs, QLD,
     AU

    I have met 3 women who love their nipples pinched - but strangely in different ways - the one that likes her nipples pinched hard between thumb and forefinger doesn't like them being pulled, the other prefers a firm grip and then pulled hard until she begs to stop , the other likes them pinched firmly and scratched on the tip - just illustrates that people are different and one needs to communicate and ask and find out what is preferred before plunging ahead and hurting - another lively lady who loved being fucked hard ( her words) only wanted her nipples sucked gently..... I am always happy to oblige but one lady asked for her tits to be slapped - I was brought up never to hit a girl in the breasts so that's the one thing I cannot do ...
    >4w
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  • Leahan

    Leahan
    69F Winmalee, NSW,
     AU

    I am one of those very lucky people who can orgasm from breast and nipple play, it is nearly always the first orgasm I have, it is as intense as any, and has the added pleasure of increasing the moisture level in my pussy....yes, yes, so very good,
    >4w
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  • allinmymind

    allinmymind
    61F Wodonga, VIC,
     AU

    I like urea cream and cum. Please don't apply a peg and ask the women to turn over in bed. Some people might have flat lumps and one near the nipple isn't very nice. Also you can sometimes have sore boobs when you take off your bra from stress, and apparently B6 helps. You could write a boob on boobs. Some people might have a fear of being clamped down on with teeth, bad past experiences.
    >4w
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