Cuckold Culture: Take my Wife Please

Chantelle Austin Chantelle Austin on 12 August 2015    165 comments
Hotwife and her cuckold husband caught in an erotic moment

Every so often I get questions about this whole cuckold deal because there is clearly some confusion or lack of understanding as to what it is and what the differences are between being labelled a “cuckold” and being a “swinger”.  Well let’s clear this all up and find out more about the wonderment that is the cuckold.

What is a Cuckold?

First of all let’s look at the Urban Dictionary which has this colourful and detailed definition: “A sexually inadequate husband who accepts his wife's pussy is her solely property and she alone decides which men she will fuck, even if it means denying her husband. His only access to her pussy is to clean it of the ejaculate of males she chooses to fuck.” 

The Urban Dictionary was more entertaining than complete, it’s missing out on the variations of how this whole cuckold thing can actually work and for whom.  The biggest determining factor that you’re looking to be in a cuckold relationship is where the female partner is the only one who is having sex with others outside the relationship and the male partner remains completely “faithful”.  

What the difference between Cuckold & Swinging?

Now the difference between cuckold and swinging is generally that both partners are engaging in sex (threesomes, foursomes and moresomes) with other people and although swinging has been a solution for sexual dysfunction, it’s not just a solution for when men are having sexual issues as the Urban Dictionary suggests, it’s also been a great solution for when women have them too.

The reasons for entering into a cuckold relationship or arrangement vary though.  Men with various physical issues engaging in sexual intimacy choose to enjoy a cuckold relationship so that their wives are not missing out on it…  Awww isn’t that nice?  What a man!  

A cuckold style in this instance can easily judged as “unfair” for the man but often men who actually suggest this as a solution to meet their wife/girlfriends sexual needs, are being quite practical and open minded in finding a solution to keep their relationship thriving.  This only accounts for a small amount of couples in a cuckold relationship though.

Another variation on cuckold is being in a dominant/submissive relationship where the woman is in the dominant role with a submissive husband.   This works for the woman who gets off on making her man watch her having sex with another man, or multiple men (sometimes gang bang style)!  Don’t be surprised if this version of cuckold as a fetish has him tied up and ordered to watch!  

Sometimes it’s the other way around where it’s him in the dominant role and his fetish involves watching his wife being teased, pleasured and/or rammed by other men just so he can watch it.  This is for the man that finds it sexually gratifying and a major turn on to know he’s got an attractive wife that other men intensely desire and want to do… EVERYTHING to.  

Some men in this cuckold arrangement are voyeurs and just want to watch, not always in plain view of her and her playmates either but she knows he’s there...  Secretly watching… In the shadows… Just watching and probably masturbating as he watches the show she’s getting off on presenting for him.  What a wife/girlfriend?!

Some are not so passive and enjoy watching the action from front and centre, even getting off on directing all the action; ordering the men around, telling them what they can and can’t do to his partner and when to do it to her.  If she’s fully submissive, he will direct the men to stop right when she’s begging for more or on the edge of her climax, keeping her in desperate wanting, which plays into his desire to control her and the whole scenario.  His own private live porn show.  I know a few men who’d kill for a partner who’d do this for him…  

All of these variations in healthy relationships are mutually satisfying but not just that, the act of engaging in something that heightens their individual pleasure either in being dominated, pleasured, watching or controlling often results in the heightening of attraction to their partner and an intense desire to reconnect or reclaim their territory. 

Just like couples that engage in swinging, this extra fun has been known to turbo boost the intensity of their sexual relationship, even when playmates aren’t present.  Not only does a couple’s sex life benefit from these adventurous arrangements but the depth and connection between them increases too.  Think about it for a moment, they are open and honest about what they really want to experience and they get to indulge in their fetishes and fantasies with the consent of their partner!  Win-win-win!

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  • 1easygoin1

    1easygoin1
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    Engaging with a cuckold couple is my favourite fun.
    >4w
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  • cuteccouple

    cuteccouple
    53M 46F Brisbane, QLD,
     AU

    We love it
    >4w
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  • pussysweet74

    pussysweet74
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    Love to watch my wife with other men.
    >4w
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  • 2sexymen4u

    2sexymen4u
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    We love playing with cuckold couples.
    >4w
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  • AussieNomads

    AussieNomads
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    we have been a cuckold couple for years and love every minute. We have an amazing time with our friends and when they go home we fuck each other senseless.
    >4w
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  • Dinks67

    Dinks67
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    We consider ourselves as Swingers but have found that it can be very difficult finding another couple where all four in the party are attracted sexually to each other. In fact there is only one couple that we all feel comfortable together and are actually good friends. That and also the male half here is very Under Endowed LOL. But that doesn't stop him getting erect and enjoying a good romp. So now we actively seek men that have a physique and endowment that turns the wife on. The male half loves to watch and film but also joins in weather licking or fucking the wife at the same time as the other Guy or Guys. We have a few very good friends that we meet up with fairly regularly and sometimes when the Husband is away at work the wife will get invited over for some sexual satisfaction. She always asks the husband first who usually says yes and gets turned on knowing that his wife is getting a really good seeing to.
    So saying all of that we still consider ourselves Swingers but with a preference to 3 sums and more sums with men. Have been told we are cuckolds and this doesn't cause us any concerns as long as the two of us get involved when we are both available.
    >4w
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  • funplusmore111

    funplusmore111
    59M 58F Buderim, QLD,
     AU

    Cuckold is just another way as well as swinging that we enjoy our sex. She thrives on the attention & he on the visual & engagement. If you suit our profile give us a call !!!
    >4w
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  • Funcouple312

    Funcouple312
    41M 39F Roxburgh Park, VIC,
     AU

    Love watching my partner with other men... Nothing has ever turned me on so much
    >4w
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  • coupleinnewy

    coupleinnewy
    54M 49F Newcastle, NSW,
     AU

    We are on this site in the hope that my wife will embrace the lifestyle of having a lover or two. I am the type of husband who wants to watch his wife be totally pleasured but with me joining in whenever i choose. I think this would be a sexy arrangement.
    >4w
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  • IDontEatAtHome

    IDontEatAtHome
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    Now what more could one want the attention of two men, setting alight the light bulbs withing your body and watch you glow through the entire session of raw, uninhibited lust.
    >4w
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  • hotNexotic

    hotNexotic
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    been there, done that, loved it
    ...definitely want more (as a bull) :)
    >4w
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  • thickalx

    thickalx
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    i started cuckolding couple of years ago and have loved every minute of it, nothing like being watched as i pleasure her
    >4w
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  • jlhornytwo

    jlhornytwo
    46M 42F Gracemere, QLD,
     AU

    We both really enjoy it and find it very erotic indeed :)
    >4w
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  • GezWouldGo

    GezWouldGo
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    Certainly a favourite of mine.
    (:
    >4w
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  • sexycple2708

    sexycple2708
    50M 43F Wagga Wagga, NSW,
     AU

    Love my wife to go on dates and return to give me all the details after being used by other guys or couples. She enjoys it so much and loves being with other well hung guys.
    >4w
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  • nakedplayers

    nakedplayers
    66M 64F Springfield, QLD,
     AU

    Well you should look up wittol,it relates to a male who is aware of his wife's infidelity and puts up with it, I suggest there are many more Wittols than cuckolds, what say you?
    >4w
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  • CuckMaster

    CuckMaster
    46M Adelaide, SA,
     AU

    The Urban Dictionary has a very narrow definition as you provided above.
    I've been observing and involved in this sort of "play" for a number of years now, and I've seen as many variations as I've seen people interested.
    >4w
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  • gazfkr

    gazfkr
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    Love being involved with people in this way, love being watched, and love satisfying sex. Very hot
    >4w
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  • HotwifeB

    HotwifeB
    58M 40F Townsville, QLD,
     AU

    I guess this sums us up :)
    Sometimes it’s the other way around where it’s him in the dominant role and his fetish involves watching his wife being teased, pleasured and/or rammed by other men just so he can watch it. This is for the man that finds it sexually gratifying and a major turn on to know he’s got an attractive wife that other men intensely desire and want to do… EVERYTHING to.
    >4w
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  • defileme247

    defileme247
    55F 56M Adelaide, SA,
     AU

    My wife and I fit the latter Cuckold variation described by Chantelle with me basically directing what feels like our own personal porn show whilst I am also totally involved in the play session the whole time. We love sex and are fairly adventurous when it comes to trying something new and I have become very comfortable with my wife being pleasured by other men whilst in my presence. She likes to be under my control during the whole play session and is totally submissive to my every command , doing her utmost to please me and the men that we have chosen to join us for the night's fun and frivolity. We believe that it is a win win for both of us as my wife gets variety sexually with my blessing and she can let her inhibitions run free whilst being able to also act out a few fantasies along the way. I like seeing her enjoying herself whilst performing and I gain much satisfaction being in control of a very sexy woman who does everything I ask of her to please me and the other men in the room. I don't go overboard when I'm telling her what to do because we know each other very well but she does like me to push her boundaries sometimes when she is excited by the choice of men in the room and when she sees their reaction to the realisation that they are going to have some fun with her! Sometimes it's simply just the venue that I have chosen to play at for the night that gets her all vibed up, along with the quality of the Champagne! She gains more satisfaction as it all starts happening and she follows my directions without question. Knowing that her subsequent actions and the quality of her performance is making 2, 3 or 4 men to want to touch her and tell her how gorgeous she looks, sometimes causes her to climax b4 as soon as one of the men start touching her under my direction without even being penetrated! She is then totally into it when this happens and she asks me if she can suck their cocks! From there on it turns into a cum fest with everyone climaxing several times throughout the evening. After a while the men then start asking my permission to do various things to her which she says makes her feel very vunerable but it's also driving her to make sure that she performs to a level that has these men wanting to pleasure her all night. Their actions and words make her feel that her Inner Goddess has been unleashed with all the men in the room telling her how sexy she is and that they just want more of her for several hours! I am so turned on by strangers being able to experience what I have done with my wife for many years and the heightened pleasure that she is receiving and giving throughout the night! I thoroughly recommend that all couples try this Cuckold version at least 2 or 3 times b4 deciding if it's something that can work for them so that you get a chance to adjust a few things next time that didn't quite go to plan during the first couple of times.
    >4w
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  • jbabie

    jbabie
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    my husband is cuckhold i guess..? he likes to watch me with other men or even on the beach sunbath nude infront of other men turns him on..he does join in if im having sex with another guy..but hes told me he definately loves to watch me..im happy to help him out..lol
    >4w
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  • niterider081

    niterider081
    44M 44F Yass, NSW,
     AU

    It's a great life style, we love a good bull...
    >4w
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  • EuroFunxxRU

    EuroFunxxRU
    55M 53F NSW,
     AU

    I Love watching my partner with other men and I LOVE clean it of the ejaculate of males she chooses to fuck. VERY HOT & SWEET .
    >4w
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  • Hotlipsforyou42

    Hotlipsforyou42
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    Nothing about this interests me :)), just not something that would turn me on in the slightest :)
    >4w
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  • partnerpal

    partnerpal
    61M 57F Donvale, VIC,
     AU

    Yes we have done this many times now and never tire from it, huge turn on and afterwards draws us closer together. Like to watch her with well hung guy and the attention she gets and the pleasure she gives. Overcoming the jealousy and testing your strength is part of it and remembering it is pure lust. Like to watch and sometimes get involved, certainly not into any demeaning by any participants and everyone enjoys. A must try.
    >4w
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  • randyriggs

    randyriggs
    53M 52F Adelaide, SA,
     AU

    I'm extremely turned on just reading all of this.
    Definitely on the bucket list ;)
    >4w
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  • AmazngDISgrace

    AmazngDISgrace
    42M Runcorn, QLD,
     AU

    This article fails to recognize that women too can be the 'cuck'.
    >4w
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  • 86mccross81

    86mccross81
    39M 43F Melbourne, VIC,
     AU

    I have yet to experience this yet.
    >4w
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  • Bighornbull

    Bighornbull
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    Being a bull when desired for couples In this lifestyle I have met couples that fit each of the categories. The one thing I can say is that they have all been happy deeply loving couples. I have always tried to give them exactly the experience they are looking for and have always walked away in awe of their level of commitment to each other
    >4w
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  • monstercockdom

    monstercockdom
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    Really great insightful article on this widely misunderstood deal ... You've made me comment again damn it ! Lol.
    >4w
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  • tennant.couple

    tennant.couple
    60M 38F Tennant Creek, NT,
     AU

    As a couple we love to have sex with a lady as the husband watches.
    >4w
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  • pussy4u51

    pussy4u51
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    Love watching my wife sometimes I prefer to just sit back & watch
    >4w
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  • RazDazCpl

    RazDazCpl
    51M 50F Brisbane, QLD,
     AU

    Such a hot thing to do :)
    >4w
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  • hornycpl43

    hornycpl43
    53M 53F Cooyar, QLD,
     AU

    How can I get my wife into this hot sex I really need to watch other men gang bang her
    >4w
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  • cuddlypairrback

    cuddlypairrback
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    I love my wife fucking other men, it is such a turn on. I know she loves it as well. I love both watching, or not being there whilst she enjoys herself. She sometimes rings me when she is being pounded. I then catch up with her, and she tells me all about it. Great fun !!!
    >4w
    • Helloyounglover

      Helloyounglover
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      I fucked a medical secretary in front of her husband This was after she sucked me hard for 2 hours beforehand Forced her down and fucked the shit out of her
      >4w
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  • emsie4u

    emsie4u
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    We engage in this not as often as we would like.
    >4w
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  • lookn69

    lookn69
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    We love the whole cuckold thing, nothing hotter than watching my wife being taken by another man or men :-)
    >4w
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  • Newepisode

    Newepisode
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    it's curious and I'm in a second thought this natural or not. i love my girl play with other women or a man like MMF or FFM. What makes people open minded really?
    >4w
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  • Boobluva108

    Boobluva108
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    Cuckold the best fun for all without laughing
    Great to help a lady that hubby can't do
    >4w
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  • AnneandAlan

    AnneandAlan
    74M 65F Nambour, QLD,
     AU

    Some years ago I met a couple from AMM. As a result of serious medical condition he wasn't allowed to engage in any strenuous activity, this included sex. He and his wife of many , many years, girlfriend and boyfriend at school were devastated. He said "well we can separate" . She wouldn't hear of it, "He said well get a boyfriend" and she did ,I was the boyfriend for about..5 years. I would call in have coffee the wife would have her sarong on nothing else. We flirt sarong open exposing her nakedness, her ample breasts totally exposed. Husband would say "OK you 2 love birds go fuck" . We would go to the bedroom he would stand in the door way and watch or go read a paper dropping to see how we going. He loved watching his wife being fucked. He made coffee brought water in, sometimes he would caress his wife's big tits as I fucked her.
    She would tell him she loved him as I pounded her. He later told me he didn't know how it would be watching another man fuck his wife, he said he found it so erotic so hot. It got to the point where he would ring me and tell she has been talking about your big shaved cock so better get over here .So I did.
    I have now got a new partner now but the couple are still very close friends.
    I now know what it like watch my partner fuck other men oh dear it is so hot. We do have 1 single guy only he cums over I sit and watch him arrive take my baby in his arms and eventually fuck her. The pics of Anne in our profile. covered in cum thats her fuck buddy.
    It is so erotic even before he arrives her pussy is dripping in anticipation, and I am rock hard. This activity keeps relationship exciting vibrant never allowing it to get stale.
    We love our life style .
    >4w
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  • live0nce69

    live0nce69
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    Nothing better than watching my wife moan when shes got another mans cock deep inside her
    >4w
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  • 6footStu

    6footStu
    52M 35F Thornbury, VIC,
     AU

    Yep, love watching my partner getting some loving.
    And when she started an affair at work, I would get her to tell me about it while we fucked.
    It was pretty hot.
    >4w
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  • Big.Bear.Lover

    Big.Bear.Lover
    58M Surfers Paradise, QLD,
     AU

    I love watching my girlfriend or partner being fucked by another man or lots of men. Its like watching a live porno and so very very hot !!
    >4w
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  • WhoreKneeDevil

    WhoreKneeDevil
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    This goes in reverse too. My wife loves seeing me fulfil some fantasies with others as she can't do them with some of her issues. I get to live out some dreams and she still gets me to hold tight at night every night. I get to enjoy a 3way with others, new experience, older and younger, different nationalities and do things with ladies she can't do.
    She's a very loving wife and I'm a very lucky guy!
    >4w
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  • cman01

    cman01
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    I have a couple of playmates where we have variants of this, one is the traditional one where the husband makes sure that his wife is nicely presented and he will make sure I am happy with it and then he will sit in the corner whilst she tells him that he is pathetic and crap in bed and such a weak man. This always makes me laugh as he is a mountain of a bloke. He loves in and will get off multiple times. The other playmate will tell her hubby she is coming to see me when I am in town and that she will be spending the night and then goes home after. I must admit from a males point of view the fact that both these beautiful women want me to be playing with them is the biggest turn on.
    >4w
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  • Cougarwife2905

    Cougarwife2905
    60F Burwood, VIC,
     AU

    Still a fantasy only, but definitely, but how to convince hubby?
    >4w
    • oneontwo161

      oneontwo161
      64M Tamworth, NSW,
       AU

      Depending on hubbies attitude tie him up bring in your lover and fuck in front of him. I am quickly learning that our age time is running out and we only get the 1 crack at life.
      Good luck.
      >4w
    • jenoo1

      jenoo1
      41M Sinnamon Park, QLD,
       AU

      Try masturbating with toys in front of him, and ask him if he likes watching you being fucked by another lover. If it turns him on, you can develop the fantasy together...
      >4w
    • Mr.PleaseHer

      Mr.PleaseHer
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      For a special occasion, perhaps his or your birthday...find someone to massage you in front of him and see where it goes. Start off with a topless massage and if you are comfortable raise your hips as a sign to remove your undies. No doubt we will both see you glistening wetness as we massage your ass and spread your cheeks.
      >4w
    • Countryguy59

      Countryguy59
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      So so easy for you ladies , just don't let him have sex with you until you have had another partner. He'll even help you find someone suitable.
      >4w
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  • Avgjoe90

    Avgjoe90
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    Great Blog... I enjoyed reading it and always wondered what Cuckold actually is and now I know :) ... after reading the article it is something that I would really love to experience.
    >4w
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  • HotwifeB

    HotwifeB
    58M 40F Townsville, QLD,
     AU

    We are a cuckold couple where my husband watches but doesn't join in at all. I am not into dom/sub though and look for guys my age, about 30 to mid 40s because hubby is older.
    Miss B
    >4w
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  • HAPPYGROOVER

    HAPPYGROOVER
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    ...MY DREAM...................................XXX...
    >4w
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  • ifp2004

    ifp2004
    84M Bentleigh East, VIC,
     AU

    Been at both ends of this spectrum. As a fit and younger bull where hubby was not up to it for various reasons and now due to my own health issues am now the watcher and director and part time participator.
    Keeps things together and creates a whole new aura of mutual respect for each other, and the expanded sexual experience is mutually rewarding. Highly recommend to couples where one partner is unfortunately not fully functional.
    >4w
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  • Mydonny

    Mydonny
    81M Tweed Heads, NSW,
     AU

    I was enticed by my wife to become her cuckold when my doctor put me on blood pressure pills and I could not get hard any more we mostly had 2 or 3 guys at a time as one guy would go off then leave with 2 guys it was 5 or 6 times sometimes stay all nite I would get them breakfast in bed I had to cream pie each time a guy went off and lick his cock clean I had to wear women's underwear and play with my cock we had over 200 bull studs over 6 years and I loved it I would like to be a cuckold again.
    >4w
    • Zack09

      Zack09
      65M Gold Coast, QLD,
       AU

      Sounds like a very interesting relationship, and very sensual all round,,love to get involved and help all round, trained in massage so may be of extra interest and fun, so sensual, zack.
      >4w
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  • brissypair4u

    brissypair4u
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    We both love it....she does prefer multiple hung guys that know how to fuck a slutwife
    >4w
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  • cplewithappeal

    cplewithappeal
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    Julie loves being pounded by well hung guys as I watch. She gets so wet and horny waiting for the tap on the door and as her lover enters he embraces her with kisses and feels under her dress then he is led into the bedroom where he lies her down undresses her eats her pussy and hot arse and fucks her till she cant take anymore.
    >4w
    • COOLEURO

      COOLEURO
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      I like the way you described what you guys like, Ive done that a few time with some of the couples i see , its a huge turn on for the husband watching me take his wife i so many different positions , they love watching when here wife is riding me the view from behind is awesome :)
      >4w
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  • Melody2973

    Melody2973
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    I think the whole thing is odd, just not my cup of tea :)))
    >4w
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  • maggie62

    maggie62
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    It's something we have now decided to try, just need the right guys I suppose.
    >4w
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  • RazDazCpl

    RazDazCpl
    51M 50F Brisbane, QLD,
     AU

    such a hot thing to do!
    >4w
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  • VeryClassy

    VeryClassy
    59M 61F Port Douglas, QLD,
     AU

    It's role play. Hubby often fucks other women. For some of them it's their dirty little secret. However, he loves to see me get pounded. We often attend gang bangs, organise our own and he has indulged n a bit of creampie along the way. It's about surrendering to the moment and taking the role you chose for that session. Life is too short- get some fresh dick often
    >4w
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  • Zamboon

    Zamboon
    66M Bridgeman Downs, QLD,
     AU

    While it can be really exciting for me the realisation that I was being cuckolded was pretty painful - I caught my wife of 8 years giving another man a blow job - this after she had told me she was over oral sex with me - I caught them out and while I was furious and it all ended in Divorce I somehow found it all very erotic and I beat myself off many times at the thought of it all ..... many years later I find myself in a long distance relationship with a wonderful woman with a very high libido - being mature adults we decided that we need sex and we can tell each other about it all - its all good in fantasy and when she phones and tells me how it all went - I get sooo turned on - but there is pain too .... just my story..
    >4w
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  • Slimshaddy

    Slimshaddy
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    Cuckold is really a turn on. Love to fuck a women with the other watching; The notion that Im being intimate with some one attached; is my ultimate disire; dalm what a turn on. The article is spot on
    >4w
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  • Amante.

    Amante.
    49F Adelaide, SA,
     AU

    Cuckold works well in loving relationships where the man is secure and don't need to conform to societal norms to feel complete. A woman who has two relationships is a lucky woman with two men in her life who are secure in themselves, and love her and satisfy her needs whilst remaining well adjusted.
    'The biggest determining factor that you’re looking to be in a cuckold relationship is where the female partner is the only one who is having sex with others outside the relationship and the male partner remains completely “faithful”. '
    >4w
    • DaddyConnection

      DaddyConnection
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      Well said Freiya.....It is reflective of my belief we can love (intimately) two persons; if each are aware of the social restrictions that deny this, and follow the path of nature. It is also determined by the emotional aspects of either Emotional Dyslexia or Emotional Dexterity.....
      >4w
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  • SheSubHimDom

    SheSubHimDom
    61M 56F Image Flat, QLD,
     AU

    I enjoy my beautiful sub-wife being pleasured by others so I can see her sexuality from a distance. Joining in only increases mine and her pleasure. Years ago I was a submissive wannabe cuckold. Since we started enjoying the pleasures of others, I find myself in the driving seat, steering her pleasure through choosing her partners. Sometimes she knows. Other times ... Not until the door knocks.
    COME PLAY??
    >4w
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  • coupleinnewy

    coupleinnewy
    54M 49F Newcastle, NSW,
     AU

    My husband wants to watch me getting max pleasure. He would like if I had a regular boyfriend to fuck me while he watches and joins in. Personally I don't get it but happy to look into it for him.
    >4w
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  • younglove93

    younglove93
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    my first time I met a couple on here was cuckold play
    was really kinky at the time never done any thing like it
    was about 20 at the time
    love to reconnect with a couple to have some fun again :)
    >4w
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  • Bighornbull

    Bighornbull
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    The Cuckold couples I've had the pleasure of being bull for are the most loving couples I have ever met. The husbands focus on the pleasure his wife receives amazing and the ladies always seem to enjoy the experience. The trouble I hear from a lot of couples is the bull not being a true bull and someone often feels left out. There is a talent to being a bull and its not just fucking!
    >4w
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  • sweeper69

    sweeper69
    Account closed

    Tell me this what happens if this female is hot and does not need sex to make her happy. She can take it easier or leave. She does not even need to go out and get and please a partner that she is still with due to the situation.
    >4w
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  • THORGODOFTHUNDE

    THORGODOFTHUNDE
    Account closed

    Need a BULL? Enquiries taken here.
    >4w
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  • manjoy

    manjoy
    Account closed

    what is even better is where the male cuckolds the female she is forced to watch me fuck as many woman as possible while she does nothing but watch, my wife has orgasms just being forced to watch me having sex with different woman while she is completely faithful.
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  • DaddyConnection

    DaddyConnection
    Account closed

    I haven't been in these situations described, yet can see the natural aspect that is guiding this desire: nature. It is possible to love two persons intimately in these situations. Psychologically speaking it comes down to a person (or both) having either Emotional Dyslexia or Emotional Dexterity. The deeper comment of meaning (from my perspective) comes from Freiya: "Cuckold works well in loving relationships where the man is secure and don't need to conform to societal norms to feel complete. A woman who has two relationships is a lucky woman with two men in her life who are secure in themselves, and love her and satisfy her needs whilst remaining well adjusted."
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  • share.me.now.69

    share.me.now.69
    58F 58M Gold Coast, QLD,
     AU

    it works for us,we get on really great after a good session with a few guys
    >4w
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  • ItsAllHere69

    ItsAllHere69
    39M Gosford, NSW,
     AU

    It can be risky business, I know way too many guys that have major jealously issues. I was in a relationship with two beautiful girls and we loved each other equally, but that only worked because of our trust we had for each other.
    If there's little to no trust, don't set yourself up for a fail
    >4w
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  • CQCouple291

    CQCouple291
    Account closed

    It's a great idea especially if the male as problems but it can help we are looking into it and looking forward to playing the roles we have a secure and loving relationship this just adds more spice as I the male watch and if asked help and clean up
    >4w
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  • togetherweplay

    togetherweplay
    Account closed

    I personally luv watching my wife dominated by others men or women or both at the same time... It's a real turn on. Especially if they are a complete stranger we have had a first meeting with. Asking her to go to the bathroom in a cafe and remove her panties and bra, hen she sits back down at the table and I make her unbutton her top a little and push her legs apart with the guy we have just met sitting next to her slowly starting to touch her....this ended well on the beach...
    >4w
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  • up4it9

    up4it9
    70M Bateau Bay, NSW,
     AU

    I have been the 3rd party in cockhold relationship a few times
    Never knew there was a name for this b4
    Its a great experience n can recommend but
    Like i saw on a post long as there no jealously
    Also had a playmate who liked an extra cock
    In bed that was fun also
    >4w
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  • BiDave

    BiDave
    Account closed

    What about the wife watching a bisexual man seduce and take her husband?
    That would be an erotic experience.
    >4w
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  • backforfun305

    backforfun305
    45M 43F Sutherland, NSW,
     AU

    We have done this a couple of times with a guy we play with. Its very hot! We also tried cuckolding with a twist with another couple and that was fun also. Its incredibly erotic.
    >4w
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  • Bmandga6

    Bmandga6
    Account closed

    Love watching my wife with other guys
    Never been so turned on
    >4w
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  • wife_seducer

    wife_seducer
    51M Redbank, QLD,
     AU

    What's not to like about having another mans wife.
    >4w
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  • theonestud

    theonestud
    Account closed

    I've been fortunate enough to have had the pleasure of pleasing and older wife will hubby watched and encouraged. It was bbc bull roll play and fantastic all around.
    >4w
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  • marissa777

    marissa777
    Account closed

    It's so so hard to find the right well hung man, as we would rather a married man for weekly fun, as not many level headed married well hung men about in the country areas
    >4w
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  • SthCoastCpl7

    SthCoastCpl7
    Account closed

    We have done cuckolding once and it was a very big turn on. We'd do it again if we found the right guy.
    >4w
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  • Tchaga

    Tchaga
    57M QLD,
     AU

    I personally was involved in the cuckold life style for few years and I loved it very match. It works very well if you all know your role and place. I knew I was there for wifes sexual pleasure and I did fulfill my duty.
    As iam well equipped and know how to use it She was able to have me when ever she wanted and I was ready for her even in the middle of the night.I also knew what was ok and what wasn't ok .
    >4w
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  • secretdiscreet1

    secretdiscreet1
    Account closed

    It is very special when a guy chooses you to fuck his wife. It is also a wonderful experience to those involved when the 3rd party provides the enjoyment and satisfaction that the couple are seeking. This is how wonderful memories are created. I wish that I could do this more often.
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  • Yesexx

    Yesexx
    48F 60M Melbourne, VIC,
     AU

    The article, whilst listing several cuckold generalisations, risks stereotyping the term, and doesn't really engage the potentials for a woman to be the one that desires a cuckold relationship. This can be equally powerful.
    I suspect there is a deeper more profound discussion to be had here.
    I know so many men (and women) that struggle to deal with this desire to watch their lovers being fucked. Often because they have partners that struggle with it themselves, are confused by it, or misunderstand their lovers desire. I'm beginning to believe that cuckold culture should be regarded in a similar way to gay culture, in that it is not a fetishism. Imagine how hard it would be for a woman to approach her husband with this desire! If anyone thinks there is a broader discussion to be had about this i would love to hear from them.
    Thankyou AMM for these blogs, they are so needed.
    >4w
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  • nativxxx

    nativxxx
    Account closed

    id it more dominant wen said or labellef whynott a womban or man thats not satisfied till watchinn nother human onlee thing is that ther are emotions nd feelingz associated its like havinn a affair in flesh nd view of yr otha so yeah bit like bbc cukold xommon usa
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  • welike3

    welike3
    Account closed

    Totally agree we love it
    >4w
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  • Hotfuntimes777

    Hotfuntimes777
    Account closed

    We live this way ,, she enjoys min two to three men every day more on weekends
    >4w
    • nip007

      nip007
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      Hi mate your a lucky man to have her.
      take care
      >4w
    • SthCoastCpl7

      SthCoastCpl7
      Account closed

      It is hot isn't it. With couples, if we are comfortable, we play where one husband has both women and the other husband has to watch and not join in or has to wait downstairs and just listen.
      >4w
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  • Peachy1on1

    Peachy1on1
    Account closed

    Mmm sounds interesting...
    Hard to do as a single woman though !
    >4w
    • hotbajan

      hotbajan
      57M NSW,
       AU

      Actually, there are men who look for single when to cuckold them or to arrange bulls for women.
      AMM editor.. I don't claim to be an expert by any stretch, however I would beg to differ somewhat on this point, since I have encountered men who actively seek this and some cuckold couples who were actually created via this route. I attended a open panel discussion a large "swinger convention" few years ago when I lived in the US where this was particular point was actually discussed as part of a discussion on the cuckold/bull lifestyle.
      >4w
    • AMM.Editor

      AMM.Editor
      Staff Account

      @hotbajan You can't cuckold a single girl, although a single girl could look for a cuckold boyfriend. Don't confuse cuckold with a single girl enjoying sex and a variety of partners. They are totally different as the article explains.
      >4w
    • AMM.Editor

      AMM.Editor
      Staff Account

      @hotbajan In reply to your edited comment, I don't doubt it was discussed but the definition of a cuckold is someone who is complicit in their partner's infidelity. Hence, you need a partner.
      >4w
    • Peachy1on1

      Peachy1on1
      Account closed

      @AMM editor and @hotbajan
      Maybe in roleplay it could be done, pretending to be a couple in a cuckold situation !?
      Now there's a whole new dynamic, haha ;~*
      >4w
    • me4younow745

      me4younow745
      Account closed

      Maybe meet with 2 guys and see how that goes..
      >4w
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  • GentlemanWolf

    GentlemanWolf
    Account closed

    Sounds hot in theory...devouring and satisfying a 'taken' female in front of her husband.
    >4w
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  • mac1340

    mac1340
    68M 62F Wirrinya, NSW,
     AU

    We both enjoy most aspects of swinging.But the cuckold fetish is our favorite.He enjoy seeing her getting fucked & eating cream pie or if she does not feel like playing .Watching him getting fucked.
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  • boner11

    boner11
    Account closed

    i am in tassie and would love to meet a couple for cuckold fun
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  • hotbajan

    hotbajan
    57M NSW,
     AU

    I would agree that there are various degrees of cuckold relationships. I would however disagree with some of the examples given here since cuckold relationships are universally agreed to have a domme wife and sub male partner dynamic and sometimes even having a couple "owned" by their bull. The usual challenge in most cases is with the bull side, since many bulls don't either understand the role of the bull, what they bring to the relationship and in many cases don't have the maturity it takes to sustain such amazingly erotic dynamic.
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  • kellybobby

    kellybobby
    Account closed

    Another great article
    >4w
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  • XeonSpark

    XeonSpark
    Account closed

    No mention of cuckqueening at all... how disappointing.
    >4w
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  • CURVYLOVER7

    CURVYLOVER7
    Account closed

    Enjoying reading your article
    I have shared some great encounters with
    several cuckold couples. I must say that a cuck hubby laying underneath licking us both while I fuck his wife and cleaning up us both after is a real highlight!
    Hopefully I can meet more cuckold couples on Amm
    Pete
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  • Mateo1980

    Mateo1980
    Account closed

    Loved the article...I had a lovely playmate willing to engage in this "Win Win Win" scenario its an amazing feeling and as you rightly point out it was our sex afterwards that was mind blowing...i would last like a seasoned porn star and OMG was it intense !
    So my advice JUST DO IT.....
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  • Tomas1234

    Tomas1234
    Account closed

    i try and get my gf to cuck me all the time but shes not keem
    >4w
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  • KinkyFunMale

    KinkyFunMale
    48M QLD,
     AU

    Wow love the article, I'm keen to help out anyone trying This method out for the first time or can explain a bit more about their experiences as I am newish to the scene.
    >4w
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  • SthOZFunCouple

    SthOZFunCouple
    Account closed

    The alpha cuckold and hot wife.
    >4w
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  • JeffXL

    JeffXL
    51M Crows Nest, NSW,
     AU

    Cuckolding is an amazing experience, but only works when the wife is not just consenting, but participating for her own pleasure rather than at the husband’s request. So I always talk to both partners before I agree to play.
    >4w
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