The Bush is Back!

Person using clippers to trim a bush

If American Apparel shop windows are to believed, flared jeans aren't the only relic from the 70s that are coming back into vogue. There's plenty of reason to believe that the cultural tide is shifting toward a fuzzier embrace of fuzzy nether regions. But that's not to say things are shaping up to look exactly as they did during the hippie heyday.

Lately the media has been sprouting its fair share of headlines about the rise of the "Full Bush Brazilian". This is more or less what you think it is: a full bush on top, with hair below the pubic mound and butt crack completely stripped bare. This, for some, is like the best of both worlds. You get to have your lady garden primed for this weekend's hot hookup whilst maintaining your modesty and a dash of mystery.

The A-list factor is another indication. If the infamous Brazilian wax episode of Sex and the City taught us anything, it's that celebrities can be hugely influential in dictating our grooming habits. Gwyneth Paltrow, Madonna, Lady Gaga and Cameron Diaz have all come out in favour of the au naturale look. And Cameron Diaz from her self-help bible, The Body Book, was quoted as saying, “Also, let’s be honest: just like every other part of your body, your labia major is not immune to gravity. Do you really want a hairless vagina for the rest of your life?”

Waxing salons have yet to become extinct, but they're definitely observing a trend. According to pubic aestheticians surveyed by Racked in the US, there's been a noticeable decline in the number of women who come in asking for a full monty.

The Australian Study of Health and Relationships [2013] interviewed over 20,000 Australians and found that almost 80% of females under 20 had shaved or waxed in the last 12 months. This dropped to less than 50% for the over 40s.

That's not to say that the preference for a down-under with no bush will entirely go away for some, particularly when it comes to oral sex. A big plus for being bare down there is also the increased sensation during sex. In 2011, the Cosmetic Physicians Society of Australasia (CPSA) surveyed 516 women who had undergone permanent pubic hair removal. The survey found that 63% of the participants reported “feeling sexier” and 60% experienced “enhanced sexual pleasure”.

But it's also worth noting that the no-hair trend came into fashion at a time when internet porn was also on the ascent, and it's simply a matter of "camera visibility" logistics that hair might get in the way.

Finally, what about the blokes? With so much ink spilled over the particulars of the female mons, you'd wonder whether men are ever preoccupied with being "on-trend." If experience has taught us anything, it seems that keeping things neat and orderly betwixt the balls continues to be the polite thing to do.

Phillips conducted a global survey in 2010 and the Australian results found that one in four women find ungroomed pubic hair on men a big turn off. 23% of Australian women would like a bit of a trim, 20% like it neatly groomed and trimmed short, and 5% want it completely bare.

Guys, if you haven’t already, it might be time to invest in a nice pair of trimmers. It seems that guys have caught on to one nifty trick - a trim bush can add inches where it counts.

And let's face it, is au naturale really a deal breaker for the typical Aussie bloke once he's got you into his bedroom? Most are just happy that you want to be naked in the same room.

So what do you prefer? Bare or bush?
 

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  • justforfun558

    justforfun558

    More than a month ago

    I have been lucky enough to have met men who really don't mind either way. I mean some men have a preference, but they all tell me even if there is hair there, they will still lick me. I cannot always shave as it is not convenient for me, so it's nice to know if a man doesn't really care if you're hairy, trimmed short or shaved. However, I prefer men to be shaved or at least trimmed back very very short. I had a bad experience once where I got 2 long hairs stuck at the back of my throat for 4 hours. I gagged, coughed, tried everything I could to get it out. I nearly vomited. I then was so desperate that I tried to even swallow them by eating a piece of bread. That didn't work. FINALLY, after 4 hours, I hissed and coughed them up and both came up. Since that time, I have been VERY put off with hair around a man's cock and balls that I cannot suck anyone with longer hairs. I will still do the trimmed man, but not long, untidy hairs and I hate the look of long hairs just sticking out like he just got electrocuted. I mean come on men. What I find very frustrating is that men will tell me they prefer shaved women. I then asked them if they are shaved, and most men will say no, especially married men. I tell them well that's a bit unfair that you are expecting the woman to shave, yet you have long untidy hairs sticking out everywhere. They usually come back and say, well I don't mind either way then. It goes both ways. Some older men with grey hairs look really bad. They have long grey hairs just pointing out and all messy and very straight. A real turn off.

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    piecost

    More than a month ago

    I love the look and the feel of nice soft pussy fur. Running my fingers through it and then using my tongue to find the hidden delights in amongst the erotic forest adds to the mystery and enjoyment.

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  • want2try3sums

    want2try3sums

    More than a month ago

    i shave love it and shave a best friends pussy

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  • Melody2973

    Melody2973

    More than a month ago

    No hair for me, maybe the odd landing strip. I've found most men like a ' hair free ' experience. I've never had anyone say 'geez I wish you had more hair ;), ', so for the women who are waxing etc good for you but I've only ever done it for myself anyway :)), it's soooooo much nicer :)

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  • Ourdirtysecret2

    Ourdirtysecret2

    More than a month ago


    There is going to be a time where I will go back to a trimmed bush, but until then give me a nice waxed pussy anytime.

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  • LickNsuck469

    LickNsuck469

    More than a month ago

    I find a bit of hair above the pussy highly attractive - it sure gets me hard every time. Totally bald is a little too bare for me. It's nice to stroke her pubes while your going down on her.

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  • Notatradie111

    Notatradie111

    More than a month ago

    I say yay to the bush. It's womanly and powerful.

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  • sexycouple000

    sexycouple000

    More than a month ago

    No please tell me its not true there's nothing better than going down on a nice shaved pussy I love it

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  • kinkywoof

    kinkywoof

    More than a month ago

    I have no wish to cough up fur balls..Nothing more off putting then hair stuck in someones teeth.. Wrong in so many ways.:/

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  • Dinks67

    Dinks67

    More than a month ago

    Yuhgggg LOL
    Nothing worse than the Kevin Bloody Wilson song about the Fukin Pubic Hair stuck in back fo Froat Syndrome LOL.

    Seriously tho, we can't stand the Pubes. All shaven smooth is great on both men and women. But then each to their own.

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  • hotguyyes

    hotguyyes

    More than a month ago

    Sorry but I find pubic hair off putting. I don't mind if there's a tiny landing strip but please no afros! lol :) Nothing worse than having a mouth full of pubes when eating a pussy.
    I'm fully shaved and it feels sexier too :)

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  • confidant1

    confidant1

    More than a month ago

    A woman's virility can be measured in many mays, her sexual stature, her eyes, her hair, her breasts and most certainly her mound. It is a highlight, an erotic lawn to welcome a perspective encounter. I find it very arousing. Sure you could shave it like a pre pubescent, as you could remove the welcome mat at your house. I prefer to slow down and smell the roses!

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      sensualfemme58

      More than a month ago

      I couldn't agree more to that!

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      cumonmytits7171

      More than a month ago

      Love it. Amen. I am a woman, not a pre-teen

    • Melody2973

      Account Closed

      More than a month ago

      I'm not a pre teen and I still think less hair is nicer and I've had no complaints :), age is irrelevant :)

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  • Edeninchaos

    Edeninchaos

    More than a month ago

    Bare is definitely the go who want to swallow a full month of hairs. F***// the trend

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  • 1easygoin1

    1easygoin1

    More than a month ago

    A small landing strip leading to a smooth runway is nice but a totally shaved or waxed pussy is even better. Just say'n ;-)

    • whatevergoesxxx

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      More than a month ago

      We love the bare look and she only licks bare pussy!

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  • trying41

    trying41

    More than a month ago

    Personally I'm bare down there
    And I do like smooth or at least trimmed

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    Oceananearth

    More than a month ago

    On a woman I love a little neat trimmed patch of pubic hair, as for me, I keep a trimmed ginger patch above and keep the shaft and balls bare, heading to the nude beach tomorrow and just had a tidy up :)

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    Wearefree

    More than a month ago

    Definitely Bare. I hate the feel of hair in my mouth.

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  • SeriousGirl

    SeriousGirl

    More than a month ago

    I have just gone full bare for the first time and I love it. I did it because I wanted to try it and I think I would do it again. Although I do like the idea of having a small patch on top too.

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  • fxstio6

    fxstio6

    More than a month ago

    Luv the bush its a massive turn on ... to run ur fingers through it n then devour it ... luv it

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  • CuteBBW001

    CuteBBW001

    More than a month ago

    For me, it feels AWESOME to have no hair. I just love the sensation of bare. I feel so much more. Love it :)
    But I don't mind if my partner has hair. But it needs to be manicured.

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  • Hotlipsforyou42

    Hotlipsforyou42

    More than a month ago

    No to the bush :)(

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  • nicecouple14

    nicecouple14

    More than a month ago

    I like the bush I love to run my fingers through it i think it's a great turn on.

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  • curiosityrocks

    curiosityrocks

    More than a month ago

    Isn't it funny how strongly some people feel about something as trivial as a bit of hair? "Biggest turn off"? Seriously? There's LOTS that turns me off looong before we even get to go South.

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  • chrisclaud2012

    chrisclaud2012

    More than a month ago

    No way... Biggest turn off and the same with men.... no organic dental floss for us.... What is next hairy armpits .

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  • Maverick181

    Maverick181

    More than a month ago

    I & my wife like it bare. I've been shaving for years & like you say it in my opinion looks like you have more to offer. Oral is better as well, none of that pesky hair to get in your way or between your teeth. Shave on !

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  • nortycplxxx

    nortycplxxx

    More than a month ago

    Nice & smooth please

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  • funoutatown

    funoutatown

    More than a month ago

    Bring back the bush! I've tried bushy and smooth and give me bushy pussy any day, it looks and feels beautiful and amplifies her heaven scent.

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      sensualfemme58

      More than a month ago

      Not only that but most shaved women I met were prickly...

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  • Dinks67

    Dinks67

    More than a month ago

    God no....
    Pleaaaaaaase don't bring that back.
    Neither of us have the bush there since,,, wow, a long time.
    Love Oral but tickled noses and the Very Appropriate Kevin Bloody Wilson Song (Fu$%ing Pubic Hair Stuck in Back of Froat) syndrome puts us off woman with Pubes and Men with anything more than Manicured.
    Bush is out like George never to return.

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  • charlie368

    charlie368

    More than a month ago

    I love the dark busy natural look a real turn on

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  • tribeadelic

    tribeadelic

    More than a month ago

    i'm pleasantly surprised with most of the comments... i like half n half on myself like this current 'trend'...but i like to change it up every now and then like the hair on my head. i'd like to add that vaginas are like faces...not every style suits. i'd like to think that my pubes are arranged in a way as to flatter its 'features'. i'm a proud outtie and i think it looks terrible bald. like a tween thats popped out a few. give it a little mound or a border...or leave the lot. wa-la! an exciting and scrumptious little treat!
    like some lovely lass said earlier in the comments... im a woman not a child.
    i find the men and women who are comfortable with their own and others bodies (hair, sweat and stink etc) are ALWAYS better lovers... ;)

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  • Virtuosity73

    Virtuosity73

    More than a month ago

    "Shaven Haven" looks like a plucked chicken and is creepily associated with underage ... Not suggesting that the ladies go back to the "Wild Forest" look from 70's Porn ... However, there is nothing wrong with a "Landing Strip" or even a "Manicured Ladygarden" for that matter :)

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      sensualfemme58

      More than a month ago

      Pedophile tendency you mean? I couldn't agree more.

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  • DANandJO

    DANandJO

    More than a month ago

    NO BUSH HERE........ :)

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  • LIBRAN1962

    LIBRAN1962

    More than a month ago

    Bush

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  • TongueWork

    TongueWork

    More than a month ago

    For me I love nothing more than going down on a smooth pussy, licking it all over and having a bit of a chew before diving my tongue inside.

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  • Bartender84

    Bartender84

    More than a month ago

    yes bush bush and more bush....

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  • THORGODOFTHUNDE

    THORGODOFTHUNDE

    More than a month ago

    Vote 1 landing strip ?

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  • stillgoing69

    stillgoing69

    More than a month ago

    Full bushes forever !!

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    VIPGentleman

    More than a month ago

    Met an Italian girl - the most beautiful thing I'd ever seen. Still hold a candle for her ever since. Her beautiful pubes ran all the way up to her belly button.
    Good God I think how lucky I was to admire them.
    Wish I'd married you Giovanna! I love you so much.

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  • NoTreble

    NoTreble

    More than a month ago

    Any man who can't stomach the idea of a little hair isn't worth my time - particularly if they're proud of their own hairy spuds and expect me to give them a headjob. I shave for most of my dates but sometimes I cannot be bothered. Here's an idea, *boys*, if you're worried about your girl's bush being smelly or crusty - have a shower with her. Nothing like a freshly washed set of uglies to bump.

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  • Biker67

    Biker67

    More than a month ago

    Sorry girls I love them bare or with a little fuzz, I don't care how clean you think you are hair traps smells and juices that turn crusty, which is a major problem for me, I am an any time any place any where type of guy which means if you have hair this would be a no way, it isnt happening especially if you want oral from me, something to consider if you enjoy spontaneity.

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  • krazeeaborinaan

    krazeeaborinaan

    More than a month ago

    Pro bush campaign of course the bush has its talk...nonetheless there's reason of why we have such beautiful pubic hair to add character to our bodies of growth... Like hello 0-12 we all were growing 13-20 we are experimenting 30-40 more confused than 0-10 so we start shaving although its not the shaving but the senslessness of society portraying illusions 40-50 funtimes of growth grey hairs salt n pepper quick fix remedy hair dye....and the years roll on so lets all be content with why the natural bush is with us too keep it clean and healthy hair protects shaving opens and invites... Bacteria and germs aha ask docs about sti most are clean shaven so why be embarassed with wat u equipped i have 5 grey hairs downstairs and few sproutinn upstairz love a natural hairy vagina over some clean shaven pussy resembling a young girl sad...so women let it grow free and wild and love it... Womans lib

    • krazeeaborinaan

      krazeeaborinaan

      More than a month ago

      This is a human who has sexperienced life's mysteries

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  • chrisnails22

    chrisnails22

    More than a month ago

    Yes

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    sensualfemme58

    More than a month ago

    As French/Latin origin I couldn't be more happy to read hairs are back in fashion. When you really like women, you like them as they are and they come with hair. As well hair are holding pheromones which is incredibly intoxicating on a woman with good hygiene. As one says, bald, looks, feels, tastes, smells like nothing.

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  • jbabie

    jbabie

    More than a month ago

    I've had permanent laser hair removal all over down there..it's never coming back..maybe I'll be the odd one out in 5 years time..lol..never mind,because I personally prefer it!
    J xxoo

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    Wearefree

    More than a month ago

    Both my wife and much prefer the bare essential. Neither of us like going to the dentist for a hair cut.

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    businessman7777

    More than a month ago

    Hooray !!!
    Bring back the welcome mat...aka the furry magnet.
    Pubic hair delivers the spirit of adventure...the subtle
    little strays found after a wild encounter are so much
    better than the frozen chook look of "shaved/waxed
    lazered "...which is far better left to the surfboard...!

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  • Julzgang

    Julzgang

    More than a month ago

    Love the bush I think it retains the natural tast a sent

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  • Iween1

    Iween1

    More than a month ago

    I have only been bald once as a teenager. Never again as too child like in appearance. I'm a woman. I shave below the mons area regularly as better for oral but up top I will always have a trimmed map of Tasmania alias The Welcome Mat.

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  • magsluvsit

    magsluvsit

    More than a month ago

    I love being smooth and most of the men Ive been with say they prefer it that way, especially for oral sex. I like being a rebel .. I'll pass on the bush thanks :-)

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  • wildcard8080

    wildcard8080

    More than a month ago

    #bringbackthefur....

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  • Asoulman1973a

    Asoulman1973a

    More than a month ago

    I prefer to not have hair in my food. :)

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  • ArfieIzaBugga

    ArfieIzaBugga

    More than a month ago

    Bushy a la natural all the way down in the sexiest and most alluring way to go for ladies in my book!!! :)

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  • timetoplaybabe

    timetoplaybabe

    More than a month ago

    If the full bush comes back I'm gonna light the bushfire that burns it down again...lol.. Cmon its a beautiful thing to see the design of the special place.. Let's just say maybe a little minge at top is also ok but as for the full Forrest..haha we don't want to have start chopping through the jungles again.. Lol

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    Oldseeksyounger

    More than a month ago

    Some bush is nice, but neatly trimmed - absolutely! It evolved for a reason: to reduce friction during activity.

    Cannot STAND never groomed pubic hair on a man. It is gross when going down on your partner....AND it reminds me of Catweazle's beard........

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    tropicalrain

    More than a month ago

    Nope prefer shaved or waxed. Love my man with smooth pubic area is so sexy. I cant stand licking hairy balls and getting pubic hairs in my teeth lol

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    wildandclassy

    More than a month ago

    bare for sure. but this week i have decided to grow a little runway

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    ausyparcaliente

    More than a month ago

    Personally I don't mind either way, But my wife doesn't do really hairy pussies ( or cocks for that matter). :)

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  • crikeymoses

    crikeymoses

    More than a month ago

    Guys, if you haven't already ... "a trim bush can add inches where it counts" what a load of rubbish ! one is only exposing what is already there, it adds nothing.

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  • aniceguyandfun

    aniceguyandfun

    More than a month ago

    I loooove some bush. So much sexier

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  • UpForIt0069

    UpForIt0069

    More than a month ago

    My wife loves getting her waxed pussy licked out.... and she prefers me waxed smooth too. Both happy! Hairfree wins every time.

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  • JB4000

    JB4000

    More than a month ago

    Article is nonsense... Go check member stats, you find the majority of female members listed as waxed/lasered

    • Melody2973

      Account Closed

      More than a month ago

      Exactly :))

      The women that don't are under some ' illusion ' men prefer hairy bits, amuse me

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  • funforall226

    funforall226

    More than a month ago

    I'm happy with either one

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    Trythishard1

    More than a month ago

    No hair at all is the only way to go . Hairy pussy , cock , balls and asshole is not very appetizing . Looks better , feels better , tastes better when it's smooth and sensitive .
    For me this full bush Brazilian thing is pointless and unappealing .
    I shave every 2nd day , wouldn't have it any other way .

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  • triXXXi66

    triXXXi66

    More than a month ago

    Im not bothered by a male having pubic hair so he shouldnt be bothered by mine. Each to their own really but no amount of cajoling is going to make me go bare! Take it or leave it! Love me. Love my bush.

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  • Paul847

    Paul847

    More than a month ago

    Personally I believe that nature and your predossers' history will take their course. However, I also believe that you have the full right to make the ultimate decision to modify your body is completely up to your own choice.

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  • bigblk43

    bigblk43

    More than a month ago

    Bring back the bush

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  • xanderking

    xanderking

    More than a month ago

    Its nice to see the bush return, certainly. I think women should get whatever makes them happiest, and not be influenced by the media. After a long run of stripped bare though, it is nice to find some hair after so long...

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  • honami69

    honami69

    More than a month ago

    hairless is the only option for me

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  • Bannocpl

    Bannocpl

    More than a month ago

    Don't care what you think the Bush is not back

    • hotguyyes

      Account Closed

      More than a month ago

      I agree. I haven't seen a hairy pussy in years.

    • Melody2973

      Account Closed

      More than a month ago

      Me either and men love it :))

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  • 2passionfruits

    2passionfruits

    More than a month ago

    No Bush please.

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    swinging4s

    More than a month ago

    bush is best

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    gold.cougar

    More than a month ago

    definitely bare........ so much cleaner and sensitive.
    Hair between the teeth is a definite yuk

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  • EarthyCouple

    EarthyCouple

    More than a month ago

    "Lately the media has been sprouting its fair share of headlines about the rise of the "Full Bush Brazilian". This is more or less what you think it is: a full bush on top, with hair below the pubic mound and butt crack completely stripped bare. This, for some, is like the best of both worlds. You get to have your lady garden primed for this weekend's hot hookup whilst maintaining your modesty and a dash of mystery."

    I've been doing this for about 15 years and it really is the best of both worlds... with nowhere near as much itching/regrowth to bother you.
    :)

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  • Letsenjoymore

    Letsenjoymore

    More than a month ago

    I think it's what you like bush strip shapes but but! It must be groom not running wild unless your feral of course, so enjoy what makes you feel sexy

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  • rocksolid666

    rocksolid666

    More than a month ago

    Im with sheriff jade on the idea of a thin landing strip to direct my A300 to the hanger... l had a lady once who apologized after l gave her some tongue therapy on her unshaven box... l had to visit my dentist for a hair cut...

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    Funnyone1

    More than a month ago

    Finally we get to eat hair pie again yum yum

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  • 69_pussyeater_6

    69_pussyeater_6

    More than a month ago

    i love hairy pussy

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  • Capt90

    Capt90

    More than a month ago

    I think the most important thing here is that women do what makes them feel happiest. Whatever makes you feel sexiest, run with it. That should always be the priority.

    I leave it trimmed short on top and completely shaved everywhere else. I like the feeling of a tongue on my balls and in my ass so I think it's just polite to be completely shaven where the fun stuff happens :P

    As far as preferences for ladies go, I don't really think about it too much to be honest. As I said, do what you want for your own reasons. You'll never keep everyone happy, so it's far more important that you're happy with yourself first.

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  • SheriffJade

    SheriffJade

    More than a month ago

    I just love it when my wife gets waxed, I even pay for the service by visiting 'Brazilian Butterfly' and purchasing a voucher for her to use. My wife gets a little 'landing strip' left over just so I can land my........ you know the rest ;-)

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  • broncobillyt

    broncobillyt

    More than a month ago

    Had a Vietnamese lady, who, despite having scantily furnished eyebrows, ( so, therefor tattooed ), had surprisingly lots of hair on her beautiful pussy. She would trim the mound regularly, & keep the lower hairs ( not too much down low, thank God ) in strict control. The best of both worlds, as she LOVED being licked literally to death!!

    • FeistyOne

      Account Closed

      More than a month ago

      Out of curiosity, was she licked literally to death? I'm trying to figure out if you're a criminal or the ultimate lover.

    • CuteBBW001

      CuteBBW001

      More than a month ago

      Lol me too

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  • justinfun

    justinfun

    More than a month ago

    I like a little fur! Manicured but definitely some hair! My last girlfriend used to have it groomed in the shape of a heart and I loved it! That said neither is a deal breaker, I am far more interested in a clean odour and a sweet taste! :)

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  • LUV4FUN69

    LUV4FUN69

    More than a month ago

    No way, I love to spend along time kissing and licking. Kissing the bush is like kissing a grillo pad for your bbq ((( ;

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  • thebushman308

    thebushman308

    More than a month ago

    I love the bush !! Bring it back !! It's the mystery box of life I love it!!

    Reply
  • CouplesweR

    CouplesweR

    More than a month ago

    Happy either way.. I love a European womens black low cut lawn to the valley of wet moss.

    Reply
  • serg685

    serg685

    More than a month ago

    I like a woman with a hairy pussy obviously clean is a must but is a turn on to see all those juices over the hair and lick it is a turn on plus rubbing the dick on the hair is a beautiful sensation that make u feel great!! and when she is naked looks nice and sexy so for me?hairy is the go,,bald pussy looks and feels nothing.

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