Playmate Protocols: Being So Good You Get Invited Back!

What a silly article. It's all focused on the host. What the host wants...how to please the host. Yes of course it is important to be polite where ever you go but this is a two way street otherwise the invitee is just trying to bend over backwards to 'get an invitation back'. I agree with one of the comments below...I would expect not to have to bring everything with me when I get invited to somebody's house. If I said to somebody don't bring anything 8 expect them to do just that.
It is most definitely one sided that is for sure.

Very one sided. As the invited, you have made the effort to travel to the invitees house. There does not appear to be much in the way of giving back from the invitee apart from hosting and essentially that is just providing a bed? I would expect a mutual balance, not for me to have to turn up with a byo home. Anyway I wouldn't.

A bit over the top. Who needs to be told to shower or brush their teeth. Useless article

Its not rocket science yet it's amazing how much disrespect there is in society these days. Most people seem to have the "it's all about me" syndrome. If society could lose this attitude then imagine what a great world we could all be living in. A bit of thoughtfulness and respect doesn't go astray and I do agree with the 10 points listed but keep in mind. The hosts have to be respectful and accommodating as well. Play time isn't a one way street and even simple things like communication (asking what all parties like and dislike) can lead to an awesome time. Just remember...... MUTUAL RESPECT......... ;-)

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  Spot on spank.me

I'm going to my first play date soon, I love the article and will definitely follow it, thank you :)

Hi I do agree with what u say

I am that polite and respectable gentleman that has done that for years! I always conduct myself in polite manners and have true class, will not engage in sexual activies unless clean shaven and showered wearing calvin klein!

Yes i do agree with u and alot of people and as it is polite that some one could just answer some one even if u have winked them either thank u but u are not my type or i would love to get to know u. I am on here looking for a nice lady and see what happens not game players

well i must get all the dirty rotten mutts thats all i can say i host everytime my house is spotless im always offerng drinks etc im respectful to them my hygiene is of vey high standard for myself and every guy i get does a blow and go or spins a whole heap of shit they will call blah blah im very honest in my profile etc so what the bloody hell am i doing wrong ? any tips ill take anything positive and work with it maybe im just to nice or just the oddball on sites like this ?

What a pity that the common manners sometimes have to be spelt out to some people that the rest of us take for granted(fair comment only)

I do completely agree with you Chantelle. Manners,respect and hygiene is a key point when meeting people.

I agree Chantelle. In todays world manners are becoming extinct, Bad manners taking there place, I was bought up with manners and respect for your elders to. That is becoming extinct also. I always lived by--do unto others as you expect them do unto you.
Still live by those beliefs.

In a time-poor world, where etiquette and a general sense of caring for others' well-being,(both at an individual and Community level), can be lost in the rush of the daily grind, Chantelle's article serves to remind us that, not only should we aim to 'be our very best' in all things, but polite behaviour amongst 'civilised' people, is always far preferable to the alternative. Surely the totally unacceptable level of violence against women in our community is evidence enough of this! Chantelle's "10 Commandments" get the thumbs-up from me:)

A great article Chantelle. It's amazing how many people lack proper manners or common sense. Beautifully put.

I'm just tying to find the delete button!!!! + of course I'm all the above & actually a very genuine person as well.

I couldn't agree more Chantelle. Especially a big fan of #8. I take pride in this one & could be considered a fault as I enjoy those I am with to bring to orgasm, I forget about my own.

its also polite not to have a puff on a ciggie just before you get there

U got to get past the snobs 1st instead of looking and running take a bit of time to get to no ppl 1st

All the points you have raised are common sense,and remember guys NO means NO and you will go a long way.

Great article and tips. I hope MANY people will read it! Its definitely needed out there..

I think every point made is something I would to naturally having been raised with manners and respect.
For me these are all common sense items and I am astounded at the number of people who don't think so.
Raise your children to have manners and the world will be a better place.

Thanks for that information Chantelle. I'm new to all this and was worried it would be all rough and dirty, but I think now I realize it's like anything really - do the right thing, everyone will be happy and you'll get looked after in the future!

Great tips, especially number 2 & 9.

Great advice Chantelle, this is normal protocol for my generation, good manners is so important along with good hygiene, good luck folks and enjoy

A Hand Towel or small Pkt. WIPES in your bag is handy too...cxx.

Hi Chantelle we are a mature couple in our 60's and find there is not much out there for us, timewasters a plenty but only afew in our category. A bit of advice could be a bonus. Regards Jon & Anita

I think all your points are very good ones and there are a lot of people out there who should read them.