How to play with an uncut cock

Eva Sless Eva Sless on 30 September 2022    38 comments
Ripe banana which is being unpeeled to represent an uncut cock

For people of a certain age (those born before and during the Generation X time) circumcised penises were all the rage. They snipped off those foreskins like an old lady trims rosebuds, and for those of us in those generations who grew up sexually interested in penises, it was rare to see one that wasn't cut.

Since then, however, things have changed. The medical profession rarely performs this practice any more, unless for specific medical interventions, and penis-loving folk are far more used to seeing penises looking how they were naturally intended to look. 
 
So does the presence of a foreskin change the way you play with and enjoy cock? 

For the most part, no, a cock is a cock is a cock (meaning, like vulvas, they're all kind of the same while all being different, and it's all very personal and subjective to the owner) but there are a few things you may want to consider, and a few tips and tricks to make it an awesome experience for everyone. 

Ask!

The best advice I can ever give anyone on any question that involves some form of "how can I please my partner?" is ask them!

Seriously! Talk about sex. Your desires. Your needs. Your wants. Tell them what you like. Ask them what they like. Get them to show you! Check in when you're playing. Check in after you've played. 

The number of people who are able to share their most intimate areas with someone else, but are not able to talk about it is huge, and I find that sad. Your body, and the pleasure it receives and wants, is so important. Shame has no place in the bedroom.

Fiddly Foreskins

The foreskin is not just a "protective sheath" for the head of the penis. It actually has a bunch of sensitive nerves and someone playing with it can be quite pleasurable.

For some guys (remember all penises are different) the head of their cock can be so sensitive, they mostly prefer it to only be played with through the cover of the foreskin.  

Others, however, like the foreskin to be pulled back over the head (which often happens in erection anyway) and others still like a combination of both. The best way to know what a penis likes is to experiment, play, and of course, ask the penis owner.

Handjob Heaven

I have spoken to a bunch of guys over the last few years about their penises and something that almost always came up was, the uncircumcised guys loved hand jobs! Whether they enjoy them more than circumcised guys I don't know, but I do know they mentioned them more. On further investigation I found it seems to be most likely because, when played with by hand, the foreskin moves up and down over the shaft and cock and gives it extra sensations and feelings and sort of works like an penis sleeve. A couple of men did mention that sometimes the giver can get a little over excited and pull down a bit harder on the foreskin than they probably should, so probably be aware of that. And make sure you're checking in with your partner to ensure they're enjoying themselves. 

Lube!

When using condoms it's always a good idea to use lube, and for a lot of guys (both cut and uncut) it can be a good idea to put a little drop of lube into the end of the condom to stop it from sticking to, and rubbing uncomfortably on, the head. This is extra important for uncircumcised cocks because the pull of rubber on both head and foreskin can be incredibly painful, and is even a good idea to do with them even without condoms as the foreskin can get a little sticky and a small pull in the wrong way could stop the mood in its tracks.

Mouths

Similar to using your hands, when there's a foreskin it changes the way a cock can feel in your mouth, and there's slightly different techniques you can use with your month, tongue, and sometimes even teeth, to really make it a time to remember. 

Experiment. Swirl your tongue around. Use your hands to gently tug on his cock while your mouth teases the head as it becomes exposed.

Get him to touch himself while your mouth enjoys him so you can see how he likes to be touched. If he's into it, use your teeth to gently nibble and tug. And again, always ask and make sure everyone involved is having a good time.

The thing about bodies is we all have one and we all have slightly different ones. There's nothing better or worse than another, and what was good for one can be terrible for someone else's. 

Always ask and learn the things your partner wants, and be confident in asking for the things you want.

Body shaming is never okay, and if there's something or someone that's not your cup of tea, that's fine, not everyone likes tea! But everyone deserves respect.

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