Have you had a threesome?
Adult Match Maker members would agree that threesomes are hot! Whether it’s you or your partner as the centre of attention in a mfm or fmf threesome or you’re indulging your bi fantasies in mmf or ffm threesomes, it’s definitely in a lot of spank banks, bucket lists and sexual fantasies. And according to a LELO survey Australians are apparently the most receptive to the idea of having a threesome, and 28% claim to have had one.
And we’re not surprised!
Back in 2015 when sexologist Dr Michelle Mars conducted the Adult Match Maker “Under the Covers” Sex Survey we found that 20% of the Australians we surveyed said that they wanted to have a threesome. And when we conducted a poll we conducted found that most swinging couples said they started their swinging journey with a threesome.
In the 6 years since the survey we’ve noticed that our members have become increasingly adventurous and the majority are non-monogamous. And why not? As long as it’s consensual there is absolutely nothing wrong with having a threesome, foursome or moresome.
So is having a threesome on your bucket list?
If you’re ready to strip down and indulge in three in a bed then there are a few things you should ensure you update your Adult Match Maker profile to give you the best chance of finding that sexy third to join you and your partner or get the attention of the couple wanting to add someone into the mix.
Update your “Looking for” options
Early in 2021 we expanded the “Looking for” options available on your profile. Rather than just stating that you’re looking for a threesome you can be quite specific about what mix of bodies you want in your threesome – and these can be specified in an Advanced Search. Remember if you are hetero then you should tick the mfm or fmf options and if you’re bi, heteroflexible or pansexual you can tick all the options. We even have options for our trans lovers and admirers.
Update your Sexual Preferences & Sexual Orientation
It’s important to complete profile fields as they are useful in an Advanced Search to find like-minded members.
Sexual Orientation: whether your straight, pansexual queer, bi or somewhere in the middle including who you’re attracted to is really important. And the list of options does get updated. We recently added heteroflexible for those straight dudes who don’t freak out if swords cross in a mfm.
Sexual Interests: if you want to find like-minded playmates make sure you tick what you’re into … or what you’d like to try. And don’t forget to include threesomes. Think about what other threesome scenarios you might want to indulge in; perhaps being an exhibitionist might turn you on, or spit roast or DPP. You’ll notice that when you view profiles they will show if your sexual preferences are a match.
Erotica
Do you want to really stand out? Put pen to paper and write an erotic sex story either about your true life threesome adventures or your threesomes fantasies. Adult Match Maker members have posted over 500 stories in our Threesomes or Moresomes section to inspire you.
Sex & Relationship Blog
Our resident sexperts have written articles to help you navigate 3way sex. Everything from the Top 5 Sex Positions for Threesomes through to So you want to have a threesome! What you need to know. Just type “threesome” into the Search field to see all the related articles. We would highly recommend you read the articles by Eva Sless as they talk about communication with your partner and with your playmates to ensure everyone is on the same page, that everyone feels included and everyone walks away wanting to catch up for a repeat performance.
Unicorn Hunting
For couples looking for pansexual / queer / bisexual women please read the recent article by Amie Wee which talks about respecting the female third you are hoping to attract for a threesome, FWB or polyam throuple. Remember it’s not just about your fantasy, the bi female you want to attract has her own bucket list of what she wants out of any casual encounter or ongoing relationship. It’s an essential read.
So go forth and find that sexy playmate to add to the mix. And we want to hear all about it in the comments.
The Cut asked 100 people if they’d had a threesome – how would you have answered?
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