Have you had a threesome?
Adult Match Maker members would agree that threesomes are hot! Whether it’s you or your partner as the centre of attention in a mfm or fmf threesome or you’re indulging your bi fantasies in mmf or ffm threesomes, it’s definitely in a lot of spank banks, bucket lists and sexual fantasies. And according to a LELO survey Australians are apparently the most receptive to the idea of having a threesome, and 28% claim to have had one.
And we’re not surprised!
Back in 2015 when sexologist Dr Michelle Mars conducted the Adult Match Maker “Under the Covers” Sex Survey we found that 20% of the Australians we surveyed said that they wanted to have a threesome. And when we conducted a poll we conducted found that most swinging couples said they started their swinging journey with a threesome.
In the 6 years since the survey we’ve noticed that our members have become increasingly adventurous and the majority are non-monogamous. And why not? As long as it’s consensual there is absolutely nothing wrong with having a threesome, foursome or moresome.
So is having a threesome on your bucket list?
If you’re ready to strip down and indulge in three in a bed then there are a few things you should ensure you update your Adult Match Maker profile to give you the best chance of finding that sexy third to join you and your partner or get the attention of the couple wanting to add someone into the mix.
Update your “Looking for” options
Early in 2021 we expanded the “Looking for” options available on your profile. Rather than just stating that you’re looking for a threesome you can be quite specific about what mix of bodies you want in your threesome – and these can be specified in an Advanced Search. Remember if you are hetero then you should tick the mfm or fmf options and if you’re bi, heteroflexible or pansexual you can tick all the options. We even have options for our trans lovers and admirers.
Update your Sexual Preferences & Sexual Orientation
It’s important to complete profile fields as they are useful in an Advanced Search to find like-minded members.
Sexual Orientation: whether your straight, pansexual queer, bi or somewhere in the middle including who you’re attracted to is really important. And the list of options does get updated. We recently added heteroflexible for those straight dudes who don’t freak out if swords cross in a mfm.
Sexual Interests: if you want to find like-minded playmates make sure you tick what you’re into … or what you’d like to try. And don’t forget to include threesomes. Think about what other threesome scenarios you might want to indulge in; perhaps being an exhibitionist might turn you on, or spit roast or DPP. You’ll notice that when you view profiles they will show if your sexual preferences are a match.
Erotica
Do you want to really stand out? Put pen to paper and write an erotic sex story either about your true life threesome adventures or your threesomes fantasies. Adult Match Maker members have posted over 500 stories in our Threesomes or Moresomes section to inspire you.
Sex & Relationship Blog
Our resident sexperts have written articles to help you navigate 3way sex. Everything from the Top 5 Sex Positions for Threesomes through to So you want to have a threesome! What you need to know. Just type “threesome” into the Search field to see all the related articles. We would highly recommend you read the articles by Eva Sless as they talk about communication with your partner and with your playmates to ensure everyone is on the same page, that everyone feels included and everyone walks away wanting to catch up for a repeat performance.
Unicorn Hunting
For couples looking for pansexual / queer / bisexual women please read the recent article by Amie Wee which talks about respecting the female third you are hoping to attract for a threesome, FWB or polyam throuple. Remember it’s not just about your fantasy, the bi female you want to attract has her own bucket list of what she wants out of any casual encounter or ongoing relationship. It’s an essential read.
So go forth and find that sexy playmate to add to the mix. And we want to hear all about it in the comments.
The Cut asked 100 people if they’d had a threesome – how would you have answered?
25 comments
Bighorse10
More than a month agoWe both love 3somes ,we are currently seeing an extremely nice man we met on this site……..he ticks all our boxes and we are hoping it will be a long term relationship.
ReplyHOSTINGSUCKA
More than a month agoI have had many, MMM and MMF. Sadly if you are a single male, its not that easy to engage in threesomes or group sex. Sites like this are heavily over populated with single men or married men wanting something on the side - 'playful' couples are very much the minority.
ReplyI use to be part of several swinging groups but, again, its very difficult as a single male, to convince the group to allow you to join. Swinging Groups seem to actively discourage single males. While I do understand the concept of 'swinging groups' are generally made up of couples, but discouraging having a few single males at the party seems counter productive in my view - especially with the increasing social acceptance of straight men engaging in some MM fun - sexuality is becoming very fluid. (yes - there are men out there that identify themselves as straight, but will engage in some MM activity from time to time as a release - especially if they are not getting any sex at home).
python4u
More than a month agoPlenty of them 3 somes , 4 somes and moresomes. Spa is one of the best places for group fuckery
Replynudistsex
More than a month agoToday I discovered 7 mile beach outside of Hobart, it was suggested to me that if I was to go for a nude swim, this is the spot. On walking through the dunes I came upon two naked chubby guys playing with each other. They saw me, invited me over, which I did and so we enjoyed a afternoon of sucking each other’s shaved cocks. I was in heaven.
ReplyFinally have meet like minded sexy guys, hope to catch up with them again.
YesMrF
More than a month agoWell, Met my ex fiancee here. Needless to say it was quite the adventure. Definitely had my fare share of threesomes with her and she initially tabled the idea, I was unsure out of respect and was definitely nervous and always eyes on my girl. We lasted 5 years and I never pushed for it. And in turn we definitely had a lot of 3+ somes. One day early on, she brought a close friend home. Introduced me quickly to her and asked me to make her feel at home while she changed upstairs. So I smiled politely kneeled in front of her and slid down her pants and she grabbed my head and a few moments later a smile and quite the yawn. I looked up and my girl on the stairs looking at me and said "Umm make her feel at home, I meant could you get her a coffee or something for FS?, she my friend,.we have never slept together". ... So
ReplyCommunication is key don't you think? They both laughed,. never banged her and we are good mates to this day. Great intro
I'll never forget.
Ifuwannadome
More than a month ago3 isnt enough i get bored.
Replynudistsex
More than a month agoLast December I meet a older couple at the nude beach , who invited me over for a drink and chat. Like myself he was bi with his wife wanting to watch the two of us guys suck each other’s cocks after which she joined in, this was all in the bushes behind the beach. I have since caught up with them on a regular basis.
Replysydneyguy2565
More than a month agoNever had a 3 some but did have a 4 some earlier 2021 and had a great time and am hoping to meet the other couple again along with my lady friend
Replywickedcat
More than a month agoI have had many threesomes over the years ... FMF and MFM ........ with the most enjoyable being with a couple with great communication, where the male is Bi and the woman has not been "coerced" into having a threesome just to satisfy the guy, and therefore, everyone is always involved with giving and getting pleasure .... with an emphasis placed on her desires and satisfaction.
ReplyBradboy80
More than a month agoNothing better then playing with a sexy couple ..I love to listen to what they want to play out and do my best to make everyone happy .
ReplyOzandViet
More than a month agoDidn't have group sex until I met my husband but I enjoyed it from the first time and so have many experiences and always like it.
Replyabcplus1
More than a month agoIt is the reason we are here.....
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Replyjacksback60
More than a month agoExactly
MaleOnQuest
More than a month agoThese days it's typically a onesome let alone a twosome so a threesome is top of the list.
Unfortunately, single males don't seem to be too popular.
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Replyispywithmy
More than a month agoI think you summed up sites like this. It’s really hard for a guy to stand out. I am
Not trying to play the victim card, but the facts are simple, there are more than 10: 1 men to women…
Account Closed
More than a month agoI think the issue is there are as stated above 10 times more men then women on here so people have loads of options. I prefer one on one and I’m sure many women do.
Hedotoday
More than a month ago3 some’s are great fun, us single guys just have to remember it’s not about us it’s about the couple.
Great article
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ReplysouthBulahdelah
More than a month agoYou have that right. We had a fellow that thought he was part of our relationship which made it very awkward and resulted in my wife not wanting to have a 3some again.
Hedotoday
More than a month agoSorry to hear that. Some guys just don’t get it.
RockwellT
More than a month agoOnly had one , with a ladyboy and a F .
ReplyFuckudeep129
More than a month agoYes been in numerous 3sums and find it quite enjoyable and definitely want again
ReplyFriskybeach
More than a month agoWith the right people they can be great fun. Both mfm and fmf, my fav would be mfm..
ReplyNoosa.Man
More than a month ago3somes and groups are great if the mix is right. Nothing worse than one person being left out!
ReplyBanger5
More than a month agoYes
Replyflamincrazy
More than a month agoOver the years have enjoyed 3somes,ffm and mmf
ReplyLike it when everyone is enjoying them selfs