Why do we love pegging so much?

Eva Sless Eva Sless on 16 October 2021    20 comments
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Pegging is the sexual act of a man being penetrated anally by a woman using a strap-on, and while I'm usually remiss to use such rigid gendered terms in this blog, when it comes to anal play and butt sex, the name "pegging" itself is pretty much reserved for men being fucked by women using a strap-on, so I need to use the words. Yes even if it's a trans woman, she needs to be using a strap on for it to be classed as pegging. If she uses her own dick, that's just anal.

Pegging really has become the new buzz word in sex and sexual exploration with more and more men putting their hands (and butts) up and saying yes please!

So why do we love it so much?

The short answer is cos it's a bloody good time, and the longer answer is pretty much the same but with examples thrown in to elaborate the point.

Gee Up the G Spot

Oh the G Spot. That magical pleasure button hidden deep within the anal passage of a cis man; the prostate. This incredible organ is responsible for keeping sperm healthy and robust as well as making sure the body has the strength to push it through the urethra, and it is also a source of unbelievable pleasure and mind blowing orgasmic bliss. Because of its depth inside, sometimes the best way to manipulate it to get the best feelings and sensations is with something nice and long... Something like a strap-on.

Taboo Temptation

There's always something a little bit exciting about being sneaky or breaking the rules a bit, and, let's face it, when it comes to straight men having their butts touched there's so much taboo surrounding it there's literally hundreds of stories out there of men being too afraid to even wipe their bums after pooping cos "butts are gay".

While I eye roll myself into another dimension, let me once again reiterate the fact that the ONLY thing that makes you gay is being gay. 

Every human on the planet has a butt, and around 50% of those butts have a G Spot inside them, and that G Spot prostate can give you some of the best orgasms you'll ever experience. The prostate doesn't care about gender or sexual preference. It's just a bunch of nerves and cells and fleshy tissue and stuff that happens to feel really good if touched.

Stepping out of that comfort zone with a trusted partner and discovering the hidden pleasures you never knew about can be a liberating journey of ultimate discovery, connection, and getting to know your true self. 

Girl Power 

Let me first state very clearly here, I am very much a cis woman. I have no body dysmorphia, nor have I ever questioned my gender or my identity...  But I look fucking hot as balls with a fake dick strapped on and so do other women. I don't want a real dick, I'm quite happy with my bits, but there is something kind of powerful and sexy about wearing one, and I don't necessarily mean in a Dom/sub dynamic either. It's just... different but in a good way. Dressing up, using toys, playing roles, and fantasising are all fantastic ways to discover new things about yourself and your lover and doesn't have to define who you are in any way but the moment you're in at the time.

Custom Creations 

Long or short, thick or thin, one of the best things about strap-ons is the variety. You can pick and choose everything from size and shape, to the material it's made of and the flexibility of the shaft, and with a good o-ring harness you can swap them in and out, and back again, depending on the needs and wants of the people playing. It's perfect for anal training and gradually moving up sizes, and hey, sometimes you just want your fake dick to match your lingerie, so having a few select colours to choose from is the perfect way to accessorise and colour match.

It really is a darn shame so many men are missing out on the pleasure of anal because of long ingrained ideas about masculinity and sex, but it is definitely heartening to see, read, and hear from so many of you who are opening up your minds and sexual exploration and discovering the pleasures within. 

We'd love to hear more from you in the comments so you can tell us (and the curious blokes reading this article) why it's something every guy should try at least once.

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  • sydneyguy2565

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    Ive often asked my partner for a prostrate massage and all she says is you must want a cock up there and NO i (her) wont do that.
    I do dare ask her if shes interested in "pegging"me as i know what she will say.
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  • Travelingpisces

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    I'm not sure if I want to be pegged but I love seeing a lady wearing a strap on turns me on and I do like watching some pegging porn too.
    >4w
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  • Holden07

    Holden07
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    I love a good pegging done it a few times and i love the real thing to
    >4w
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  • RockwellT

    RockwellT
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    I love saying to my partner ‘ please be gentle ‘ as she enters me with our strap on . Our harness has vaginal access while the dildo is still attached so I can fuck her doggy .
    >4w
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  • Smthnsw33t1

    Smthnsw33t1
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    I have one waiting to be used from someone who said they wanted to then didn't
    >4w
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  • MMH290973

    MMH290973
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    I personally have zero interest in this, I’ve been asked to do it and it’s a flat NO for me. I’m aware men might like it but it wouldn’t turn me on in any way. Not at all interested in submissive men.
    >4w
    • Wilsoniv

      Wilsoniv
      63M Darwin, NT,
       AU

      Hi,
      I have always been dominant and I love anal stimulation .... as the article implies ... anal does not make you submissive or guy.
      >4w
    • HOSTINGSUCKA

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      I can assure you MMH, that your man being pegged for a while during sex by no means implies he must be submissive man in the bedroom. In fact, a good pegging, can make him the exact opposite when his g-spot is hit and he unleashes.......
      >4w
    • Smthnsw33t1

      Smthnsw33t1
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      Well at least it beats taking it out on vegies lol ask my ex he's too cheap to go buy him one for me to do him properly instead he reaches for a cucumber hahahaha! True story
      >4w
    • Smthnsw33t1

      Smthnsw33t1
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      Also taking pre cautionary measures and enema the hell out of him before you try it
      >4w
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  • Lonelylonely84

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    I have always wanted a good pegging.
    But that taboo is so fiercely ingrained that it has been literally impossible to find a willing partner.
    What I think many people don't understand is that pegging isn't a substitute for the "real thing" - I can get the "real thing" - but as described above, the range of possibilities opens up a whole new range of pleasure and, I imagine, intimacy.
    It's one thing to use a toy on myself to hit that heavily rumoured Fun Button, but the idea that somebody else could hit that for me, with a bit of a buzz for example, is absolutely Mind Blowing!
    >4w
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    • AbsoluteDV8

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      Ive let a few ladies know pegging is my weakness - when being asked what im into, whilst no one's ever been rude, a couple said they have thought about trying it, a couple said they do it n then there's the couple that are just flat out NO.
      So im disheartened that men are saying there keen n then just whimp out!! My fantasy is being the only guy in an all female gangbang and every lady has her turn doing what ever they want to me, given the opportunity, I wouldnt shy away from it!
      Pegging is great fun and I do it anychance I get, now I know what sized toys I really like, my knees go to jelly pretty quick.
      >4w
  • Yesmastercd

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    Assgasms are the bomb!
    >4w
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  • WeAreVanillanot

    WeAreVanillanot
    48M 54F ,
     AU

    We absolutely love the art of pegging have for many years..
    >4w
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