During the last few months of being on AMM… I have met some wonderful, amazing people. Some are now good friends and are a part of my life.

I think it’s important to know what you want in life and get it because if you don’t, you may miss out on the best part of your life, and trust me, we all don’t want that. So this is a true story of how I have come about finding genuine connection and a happy relationship with people.

For me, it all started on a journey to get my satisfaction of sex in my life as most of it was very vanilla. I have always known that I’ve had a kink side to me. It’s only now that I find myself free of all the complications and pain that I have come to know myself better and let’s face it, sex is a big part of what I have really understood about myself. I know what I want and need. I can talk the talk and be genuine to a certain extent, but sex for me is my talking point and this is what I want share.

It has taken a while to find a true connection with someone without falling in love and just enjoying the company of someone or people that you want to be with. It is hard enough in life as it is, but I’ve been lucky. I love the immanency of being close to a person who gets me and most importantly respects me. I’ve had a few partners from here that I have had, and I have to be honest here, they never really gave me the satisfaction that I crave, until the day I met him. He is a lot younger than me and I would never really go that far down in age, but there was something about him that captivated me. I loved his mind, the outlook he has in life and how he carries himself. I find most men can’t do that but he does and very well I might add. It has taken quite a few attempts to finding a person to get me in the mood, and he does that well too. We have to have the banter, the opens conversation about everything and anything and boy do we have that. He is good at being calm and relaxed about women, treats them like gold and that to me is a hard find. We have great sex and feel comfortable with each other, again that’s a hard find. I know everything will and does run it’s course, I’m enjoying the moment and the great thing about having a FWB is we have no expectations of each other, we check in from time to time and see how each other is but nothing more. I like knowing that we have an opened communication and nothing is never off limits. I think we deserve to find that little bit of happiness when life is not how we plan it. I like knowing that we don’t hold each other accountable but still have that respect towards each other because to me that’s what connection is about, finding a person who gets you and rides life with you for however long we have at that point in time.
It’s always good to find the right person or people and be in the right mood to achieve the best possible outcome. I love the freedom, sex and quality in having a FWB.

If you haven’t found your boo, mood, person, people or whatever you’re looking for, I hope you find it soon.
It’s the best feeling ever.