Bio
The thinking person's Sexpert! Jacqueline Hellyer is a Sex Geek - unabashedly fascinated by sex, love and intimacy in all its aspects from the biological to the psychological to the spiritual. She is undoubtedly one of Australia’s foremost experts in relationships, sexuality and positive sex. She is highly-qualified in scientific, therapeutic and esoteric sexuality, and has thousands of hours of experience working with private clients as well as group workshops. She is regularly seen in the media, hosts her own weekly radio show The Tantric Lounge, and offers sex therapy & coaching, blog & podcast workshops & retreats, on-line programs, books & more... You can follow Jacqueline on Facebook, Twitter and Linked in.
Articles by Jacqueline Hellyer
Sexual Pleasure is the Great Equalizer
“Sex is a paradox. It needs the difference between man and woman, yet it reminds them that they are not different at all. In this way pleasure is the world’s great equalizer.”
The G-Spot & Female Ejaculation Debate!
My advice – get to know your vagina! Whether you’ve got a G or an AFE or XYZ spot, there are undoubtedly good bits that work specifically for you. The important thing is to relax and explore and enjoy your wonderful womanly bits!
Sex as Entree not Dessert
Sex doesn’t have to be the last thing you do at night, it doesn’t even have to be in the evening. Having sex before dinner can be great! Think of it as entrée, rather than the traditional dessert.
Foreplay and Be-Foreplay
As the famous quote from John Cleese in “the Meaning of Life” goes: ‘You don’t just go barrelling on down to the clitoris! What’s wrong with a kiss?”
Ditch the Myths
Our society is full of myths about sex. There are many aspects to moving forward sexually, one of the key ones is to ditch all the myths that plague us.
Expanding your Sexual Play
There’s a veritable smorgasbord of sexual possibilities, so why limit yourself to meat and three veg? I keep stressing that there are no ‘shoulds’ in sex, the important thing is to find out what is real for you and honour that.
10 Tips For Your Vagina
A friend asked me recently what my top 10 tips for a vagina would be. Good question! So many women feel disconnected from their genitals. So read on and find out my top 10 tips for your vagina.
The Sexual Glutton vs The Sexual Gourmet
Someone who’s a connoisseur of sex is interested in savouring sex, whether it’s a late night cuddle under the covers or a weekend of erotic delights. It’s the quality that counts, not the quantity.
The Good and Bad of Porn
We are a voyeuristic species but just like too much chocolate is unhealthy too much porn can interfere with your true sexual connection with your partner.
Women Are Not 'Naturally' Monogomous
Following on from the last blog post, where I debunked the myth that men are naturally promiscuous due to their need to spread their seed far and wide, I’d now like to examine the widely held myth that women are not naturally promiscuous.